Most Helpful Girls

  • Be forward about what you want. Like mentioned before, guys are in a Tinder mindset most of the time. Bang and move on to bang someone else (not all guys are like this, but as you habe found out A LOT of them are). If you arnt straight forward about your feelings or even general intrest in them, they will walk ALL over you.

    Dont bang on the first date. I know its "normal" if you hit it off, but don't do it. Most relationships that start like that dont last for very long. If you want him to stay give him something to look forward to. If not, have fun trying new things and new guys.

    • I am pretty straightforward :/ I don't on the first date

    • Not what I meant 😂 just a but of advice I guess. If you are straightforward and this happens I don't really know what to tell you, guys are just about as mysteriouse as a rock half the tume. Its pretty easy to tell if they are in to you ir not

    • ya they are mysterious :(

  • don't jump in the sack with them so soon, wait a while and make it clear on what you want. for example, if a guy wants to jump into the sack with you, tell them something like "I believe your thinking of a different me after a few more dates"

    • jump in the sack after a while?

    • wait a while before having sex with them is, if they keep pushing for sex you dump them cause they are the pump and dump kind. so protect yourself hun, your still young

    • so i should find guys that don't push me for sex?

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  • Hmmmmm I know this is a foreign concept to you but maybe try keeping your legs together? 🤔

    • They usually are. Except when I'm getting pumped.

    • Then promptly dumped.

    • so every girl that gets pumped deserves to be dumped? I'm confused

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Wait out for sex, if a guy you meet is rushing you to sex then his interests are only short term and he will get impatient and quit, guys who are patient and willing to wait for you to be ready are generally more interested in something more long term.

  • Lol choose better guys and stop laying on your back so quickly. Omg who would of thought That this actually works. Wow

    • I got pumped and dumped again :(

    • Hahaha it always happens if you keep pumping

    • They pump! I'm not a tranny!!

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  • If you don't want a relationship to be just sex, work on building the relationship part before you choose to have sex with someone.

    • I thought we did!

    • I guess it takes more time.

    • Or you could talk to the guy and ask him what went wrong.

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  • keep your legs closed until you get to know them.

    • i thought i did know them!

  • Keep pumping don't be a quitter.

  • Delay pumping to the 10th date.

    • Yes, effective. If I was serious with a girl, I wouldn't mind waiting.

  • Stop fucking

  • Stopping getting pumped

  • Quit putting out.

    • start putting in?

  • do you have any value other than your pussy? try working on yourself for a year.

    • so I should never have sex?

    • have sex. work on yourself.

    • work on myself? are you telling me to masturbate?

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  • Pick better guys.

  • Counter to what people will tell you here, I suggest being more promiscuous! I think that will work.

    • How will that work

    • @fsu19 sarcasm

  • Look for one with higher goals than ones that want a good time!

  • how quickly after you meet them do you give it up?

  • Don't spread your legs easily

    • i spread them with difficulty !

    • LOL I meant to keep the angle between them as tight as possible.

    • I'm confused? Cause guys like it tight? Are you saying im loose :o

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  • Stop overvaluing your dating value, women have very high sexual value but much lower dating value. As in those good looking guys might want to bang you, but they don't want anything serious. You should lower your standards or just be alone.

  • you are not learning from your mistakes. unless you learn from your mistakes, you will keep getting pumped and dumped by every guy

  • Get a better guy. Try online dating for a while before meeting someone.

  • find better guys

  • Find genuine lovers for a change.

  • Try to reverse the situation, stop being a puppet, be the master

  • Reevaluate the type you hang around with. Seems you're hanging with the wrong type of crowd there. Or you're simply trying to get with guys with plenty (better) alternatives.

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