I love a guy but he has a 3.5 inch dick when completely erect, should I stay or leave?

I love a guy but he has a 3.5 inch dick when completely erect, should I stay in relationship with him if I find no pleasure in sex or try out new methods and experiment with the given situation to find sexual pleasure? He really treats me well, he's nice, he's willing to give me everything I want and he really loves me and doesn't mind working on my sexual satisfaction.

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  • Wow... what a predicament. Well hell, I honestly do not know what to tell you. I mean this is why as a man I want sex around the 3rd date no later than the 5th. I don't want to get invested in something to deeply before I know for a fact that we are sexually compatible.

    3.5 inches, seriously? DAMN!!!

    So I kind of back slide into a marriage with women that ultimately we were sexually incompatible. At 20 I just didn't know any better. I am not going to lie to you or blow sunshine up your ass because long term it's very important.

    I am not going to tell you what to do or really answer the question directly. But how desperate are you? I mean are you a attractive person? How willing are you settle right now? How important is sex to you? To the benefits really out weight the cost? If this guy doesn't pull the rabbit out of his hat, do you see yourself getting frustrated and possibly cheating on him?

    For me I am a very physical person so I need that in order to build a strong physical and emotional bond. If I am with a women and the sex is bad, I do not pursue the relationship, because I have been trapped in that type of relationship before and I will never do it again.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If he's still able to sexually satisfy you, why would you want yo leave him. He sounds like a good guy and hevtreats you well. He even wants to learn new ways to cause you pleasure, be thankful you found such a great guy despite his dick size. It's not the size that counts as much as how he uses it and how he treats you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • what are you looking for, Most women can't orgasm from penetration. a 3.5 inch penis should be enough for you to have satisfied sexual pleasure. My husband is 7 inches and bottoms out when he hits my cervix. I would love for him to be smaller so he cam come all the way in me. I love giving him oral, and I often masturbate when making love to him so I can have an orgasm. I think I would be happy giving oral to a 3.5 cock. I know I would love it on my clit.

    • Can he not make you orgasm?

  • Well, if he gives good face, has an open mind, and can control his jealousy, then you might be able to shape him into some type of open relationship.

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  • No reason to change anything then... see where it leads. He's probably going to work harder at pleasuring you than any average-size (or above average) man, and if he does, then lucky you !

  • I think you should leave him.

    He deserves someone who appreciates and loves everything about him. You are too much of a narcissist and don't deserve him.

    Such a shallow and petty complaint. Sheeee!

  • They do make sleeves…..

  • Three point five whatttt 👁👄👁

  • Only you know the answer to this.

  • It's up to you girl. I couldn't. You need tono serve the way a man walks and holds himself to get a sense.

  • Do you select love of a 2" short dick from love?

  • So your judging him by his penis size? You should leave, he deserves better

    • Everyone needs to feel pleasure

  • Get him a penis extender and penis pump

    Have him do JELQs too.

    I did all of this for many years and now my D is so big and thick girth that most biitches can't even wrap their hand around it. IT WORKS

  • i mean if you can find ways to get sexual fullfillment with him, then why not stay?`if it just doesn't work out and you aren't satisfied sexually, then leaving is the only option.

  • See what he'll experiment with i'd say else if it ain't for u it ain't for u

  • You love him. He has two hands and a mouth. Try to expand what you all do sexually

  • Maybe he knows how to use what he has. If he can give you an orgasm with it who cares how long or short it is.

  • Damn that does suck! RIP! Lol well try asking to see if he loves you enough or is open to having an open relationship

  • If he is still giving you sexual pleasure and making a effort on your sexual sastification you should stay with him especially since he is a good guy. Also there is things you can use get sexual pleasure like make him use a sex toy on you, do more oral sex, and possibly if you both are willing add another person either it be a man or woman.

  • It's ur decision. Not anyone's.

  • Wouldn't that prove that women are just as shallow, if not more, as men

  • You should keep him if he treats you well, work with him on getting a Penuma penis implant. go for the XXXL Super Grande OMG Horse cock size.

  • Medically speaking, all you need is 3 inches so you have more than what you need.

  • You should leave and give him a chance to find a girl who appreciates his other qualities,,,

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