I’m a Virgin at 29, waiting till marriage to have sex…but my body out of the blue, a lot of times will get in heat and I be feeling like I want to fuck…. what can I do to calm myself down from being in heat a lot besides the obvious
Oh girl, I totally feel ya. Those hormones can really hit you outta nowhere sometimes, even when you're tryna save yourself for the right time. Here are some suggestions for calming things down besides ya know...:
- Cold shower! The chill will wake your brain up so your body stops leading the way.
- Do some intense exercise like run/dance til you're exhausted. Tire that body out so it can't think of anything else.
- Call up some girlfriends for a movie night in. Having fun distractions and people around helps.
- Treat yourself to something soothing like a long bath with candles/music. Relax the mind and spirit.
- Pray or meditate on your commitment to waiting. Let that give you strength over temptation.
- Write in a journal about why you're choosing to wait and what that future means to you.
Stay strong sis! I know it's not easy, but keeping your eye on the long run goal of your special relationship will help get you through the moments when the hormones rage. You got this!0 0 0 0Fuckin Chatgpt ass reply LMAO
I really think that's a craving for intimacy more than sex most of the time. We have hands. There are fancy sex toys even.
But we never find that real intimacy with those, but if you think there's a shortcut to sleep with a relatively random person, it's not a shortcut at least in my experience. It can leave you craving for even more than you already do right now.
So I think there might be something to realize here that you can satisfy without sex, and also possibly something you can satisfy by yourself. But don't ever let your sexual desires get the better of your judgments; I think all of us who have been there and done that will tell you that you're better off right now than the state immediately after, and I know your curiosity might want to see things for yourself but, you know, just don't!
We really care about you and know you can do better.
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2 13besides the obvious? Well I don't know what's obvious to you but I assume you mean rubbing your pussy or sticking something in it or both until you cum. Other than that like, a lobotomy? Honestly though, why are you waiting for marriage? just get railed every now and then. you will thank yourself for it I promise.
0 0 0 0Watch porn and masturbate, it good that you are virgin for so long, you are a good girl. :)
0 0 0 1Just the obvious lol
0 2 0 0Keep waiting. A female school friend of mine is 46 years old and still waiting for marriage.
0 0 0 0Cool 👍
0 0 0 0Try some different toys and sexting.
0 0 0 0Invite me over and I'll pleasure you with my lips and my tongue thus preserving your virginity. You can give me a hj or bj or let me give it too your ass. Or just sext.
0 0 0 2u can take ur time lonely on ur bed masturbating 😍
if ur up for sexting or maybe doing a vc just dm me 💋💅0 0 0 0The obvious is the best option
0 0 0 0your thought of waiting till marriage needs to rethink and review.
0 0 0 0Why, what’s wrong waiting till marriage… not everyone want too many keys inside their doors
Just the obvious, masturbate.
0 0 0 0How many points is your sexual desire on a scale of 1-10 now?
0 0 0 0100 lol
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you can masturbate a bit, you know play with your clitty clitoris, also very admirable you are a virgin at this age
0 0 0 0Adopt the Vulcan Ritual of Kolinahr.🤣
0 0 0 0How is that even possible?
0 1 0 1What do you mean
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