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I orgasmed 3times during my rape.. should I still feel bad about it?

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  • I was raped and turned on as well... I was 18 and I was raped by a 50 year old but when he ordered me to suck his dick I was amazed how hard he was for me and when he did cum I swallowed and licked up every drop he thanked me and left... I was raped by a park and he brought to a wooded area to suck it on my knees... he didn't have a knife but he said he needed a blowjob and was very horny... and at this time there were a lot of girls getting raped at this park

    • I think u dont know what rape means

  • Not at all, its a normal body response to Sexual activity

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  • How is that even posible?
    It meen you like it?
    You whas horny before that moment?
    Dis the fucking animal (guy) look good?
    Sorry for thous questions, my minde is just fucked up afther this situation, i thought that girls can orgasm only when they feel good and are olso in the mood, how whas that posible?

    • Yes I was already horny , the guy looked good , what I’m saying is I never said yes to him as he also never asked if he wanted to have sex with me , but he was drunk and we were both alone so that happened

    • So ignorant, educate ur self, please...

    • @jgirl99 you shut up, girls and mans think diferent.

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  • No, don't feel bad; neither of those things are your fault. The rape nor having 3 orgasms because of it, are anything you could control

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  • No. Never. Orgasm is a result of physical stimulation; it can happen even when there's no psychological component. Rape is rape, even if you "enjoyed" it.

  • You probably never came that many times any other time in your life. You must have had a rape fantasy.

    • Oh please downvoters. Would you cum if some woman had your dick between the blades of a meat cutter? When you are being raped by some unknown who you don't know if he will kill you or not I guarantee you you will have no sexual interest at all and your only thoughts are if you will get out alive.

  • Who were you raping

    • This is so funny. 😆

  • You can't control your body reacting to stimulus, so don't feel bad about it. Mentally and/or verbally you didn't consent right? Rape is rape.

  • yuck are you serious? never heard of that before

  • Must be a difficult and confusing thing to deal with!

    • The act itself gave your body reason to react naturally, even though your mind didn't want it. Who was it that did that to you?

    • Thanks for your opinion, it was someone I knew for a long time

    • So , to make it worse, it sounds like it was someone you trusted?

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  • No not at all

  • I'm not going to pretend that I know your situation at all, so I'm just going to ask some questions, and share my thoughts.

    How did you feel afterwards? Once you calmed down, did you feel violated? If so, then I think that you should feel bad about the situation, but even if you "enjoyed" the stimulus in the moment.

    The way I'm looking at this, is, terrible analogy by the way, if you got totally drunk. You enjoy what's happening while its happening, but you still put your body through the wringer, no matter how it feels at the time. Does this make sense?

  • You tell me.

    • I tell you what !

    • That whether you should feel about it or not. It's very personal. Rape is disgusting but how you feel about orgasming thrice is totally up to you.

  • Not at all. There is a strong link between violence, power and sex.

    • Feel free to PM if youd like to chat about it. I had a girlfriend in a similar position

  • No you should not. You do not control your body's reactions.

  • Since when does orgasm have anything to do with consent? Your body reacted to stimulus nothing more, it is part of what makes rape so F'd up because it confuses the sex fear response. It was normal and it isn't anything to be ashamed of.

    • I have answered3 questions involving this subject today all asked by an anonymous asker. Obviously you're hurting right now. It's a terrible thing, and no one should have to go through it. I'm hoping that you spoke to someone other than us... A councillor or a clergy member or some other professional. It hurts, and it hurts bad. But I can tell you from experience it gets better. I am so sorry that you had to experience that.

  • Men can get erections just from a prostate exam, so there's probably a physiologically equivalent effect happening here. After all, getting fucked is *supposed* to be pleasurable by design. Our sexual arousal systems didn't evolve with the caveat of rapes taken into account.

    That said, you may wanna investigate whether there was also a psychological arousal in response to the rape. Many women have rape fantasies and get off on the idea of powerful man taking what he wants. But the fantasy is at odds with the reality of what rape actually is: an act of violence, plain and simple. So maybe it wasn't the reality of what was happening that aroused you; maybe it was the mentally abstracted fantasy of what "aggressive sex" symbolically represents at an unconscious level.

  • No, you should not feel bad about it.
    Your genitals were being stimulated. The logical end point of genital stimulation should not be a surprise.
    Some place deep in your psyche may also have been stimulated.
    There was a reason by Fifty Shades of Grey became the biggest selling work of fiction in the history of the world.
    You may find a conversation with a psychiatrist to be helpful to understand the process.

  • That is completely normal. Arousal still occurs in spite of the act being by force. Which is why it is a misnomer that men getting erect doing rape mens they actually liked is which couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s just a natural response to sexual activity. Definitely do not at all feel any guilt over having done so. It is just the body behaving as designed is all.

  • It proves that rape can feel good.

    • 😐😑

    • look at what Asker ( 18-24 ) expression is ! Thanks

    • @MissDawn7961 Now have a bone, so you can drool over something 🦴

  • I'm kinda shocked to answer that.

  • Its still rape, i orgasmed every time i was raped, i was still traumatized for life

  • If you feel bad about it, you feel bad about it. If you don't, you don't.

  • It's not unusual to feel bad about that - it can feel like your body betrayed you.

    The truth is that the body goes through the arousal cycle because it is a mechanical necessity to reduce damage.

    Orgasming during a rape is not an indication of your consent or wanting or liking it. Just a result of your body trying to protect itself.

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