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Sexual Health I slept with my gf's mom. Should I tell her?
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Ok, I'm dating a lovely Cuban girl and she's kinda complicated. Some days she'll be happy and talk to me in English and other days she'll be super upset and curse me in Spanish. Recently, we just stopped having sex. She said she needed a break from sex and wouldn't give me a reason. I respect her break, but I'm her partner, I think she should trust me enough to tell me why. So I'm being patient and loyal and getting very sexually frustrated. We had a bad argument one day through text and I wanted to apologize. So I drove to her house, but she wasn't there. Her mother opened the door and greeted me and what not. She still invited me in and told me to wait for my gf. I should mention that I always found her mom attractive. She looked like a slightly older version of my pretty gf, they could pass for sisters. Anways, the mom was roasting pork loins. I did not like her cooking technique and wanted to show her how I flavor my pork loins. As I'm showing her my way, our bodies are kinda close to each other and her butt touched my crotch. A boner followed in 30 seconds. She did not move when she felt it, but I felt awkward so I moved. She did then turned around and gave me a dirty smile. Some dark magic must have took me over because I went in and kissed her and we fucked and I liked it and it was probably the best sex I ever had. The problem is, her mom kinda caught feelings for me and is threathening to tell her daughter what kind of cheating filth I am if I don't keep on fucking her (the mom). Her mom is blackmailing me because she had cameras in her room and had recorded us having sex. I'm not sure what to do. Opinions people?
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Hello a fellow gaggers. Thank you for taking the time to provide advice. I have chosen to tell my gf the truth. I hope she will forgive me.
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I am now single and in great testicular pain.
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20 16Nice trolling
Because it never occurs in real life for boyfriends to sleep with their girlfriends' moms... Thank you for being open minded.
I wouldn't want to have sex with my girlfriend's mom, why would I? I'm much more interested in my own age-range, haha.
Her mother was very attractive for a 40 year old. Her daughter (my gf) inherited her good looks.
Then continue fucking her you will lose your gf anyway when she finds out
What's done in dark come to light. My brother did the same thing and his girl found out years later because the mom kept texting after the fact... no bueno. If the sex was good it's definitely going to be hard to keep it a secret. Just for the récord her mom is disgusting. You Sir (no judgement) better repent.
sounds like a story from a movie you watched recently
I wished. I seriously wish I could just wake up and realize this was just a dream, reality is a bitch. You have to understand that horny people don't think with their brains.
Sounds like an unqualified p*rn movie
I guess you should just disappear from your gf's life. Break up and run ASAP. What's up with screwing a gf's mother?
I was horny and lonely. I take the blame for that, but her mother is trying to control me and possibly ruin my life and that's unfair
How will she ruin your life?
No excuse to cheat and this is what makes me continue going single; your types. All I can say is if you want to get out of this mess, you have to face the music and that means confessing.
She could easily ruin my life by spreading rumors that I love to seduce and sleep with my gfs' mothers. Heck, she'd even have the video for proof. @Peter05 @opinion owner I know I have to confess. I'm worried about the aftermath. My gf may try to spread this on social media and get revenge in all its forms.
Well then you're screwed. Be prepare for the consequences. I mean it's logical: every bad decision has it's consequences. All you can do after that is simply learned and make better choices in life.
As they said in South Park: "Nice..."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIfOjkB17BAI don't think she is going to tell her daughter for obvious reasons. Break up with her without telling her the truth and never talk to her again. But seriously... disappear.
I'll assume you're not trolling and answer..
Break up with the girl without giving reason.. and RUNAWAY bitch!
Probably the best thing to do.
Fucking disgusting lowlife prick.
So it's all my faut. What about the mother? I find your judgment very unfair.
She shouldn't have filmed you but you shouldn't have had sex with her regardless of how sexually frustrated you were, you could have just watched p*rn and/or masturbated, didn't need to get yourself into this situation
why did she think of filming before she had the that idea you guys will have sex? Did she plan it?
(@melisa321) She didn't need to plan it, (I later found out) she always had cameras in her room so she could record and rewatch the performance when she's bored.
you both sound perfect for each other, dirty
Qué diablas! Eso es horrible! Debes salir y olvidar todas-la mama y la novia. No te puedo creer. Necesitas disculparte con ella. Inmediatamente. Entonces corre! You effed up cabrón!
Yo soy que yo es un hijo de puto madre. Yo triste. Fuck it, my Spanish is shitty. I know I fucked up, but the mother won't let it go. She's blackmailling me.
People are blaming you because this could have been prevented. Hasn't anyone ever told you not to enter the home of your SO if he or she is not present. Especially when in the company of a member of the opposite sex, whether a family member or not. You set yourself up for failure when you crossed that threshold. So what you didn't like the way she was making that puerco... yyou didn't have to eat it and she has been making it to her liking for a long time. And cooking is one of the most intimate things that can be done between two people. Behind her, really? What about on her side. You fucked her poiny blank, there were no outside influencs involved only your selfishness, lust, and desire for sexual gratification. You. knew you were attracted to her from the beg. If you hadn't lain with the devil you wouldn't be worrying about hell. She may never forgive her evil, low life, desperate scumbag of a madre or she will simply because it is her mother. But don't expect pity or forgiveness.
Both will hate you in a grave sense because hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! You made your bed, now miserably you will lie.
I agree with what you said. Yes I was attracted and yes maybe helping her cook pork loins wasn't the smartest idea. I made the mistake. I slept with her. I wanted to stop and clear my conscious. The mom who is single, lonely and suprisingly horny wants me as her own little boy toy. She just won't let me brush off what happened as a one time thing. I didn't catch feelings, I was just horny and stupid, why did the mother have to catch feelings and try to ruin my life? My gf will most likely get violent and spread this on social media. What kind of woman will want to date me after this? Getting my life ruined over a stupid mistake is very harsh
Not your responsibility to take care of her needs. The daughter is your girlfriend. Not the mom. Horny? Go jack off. Fuck anyone you want but not the mom or a sister. Your soon to be ex girlfriend will be devastated and would be too embarrassed to share it on media. You really are selfish. Your biggest concern is your how you are going to get your next fuck or next girlfriend. You aren't worried about your girlfriend or her feelings. Wow. And, if you were so unhappy you should have left!
You're portraying my gf as a girl who will calmly take this breakup. You are wrong. She will try to assault me, she already had a habit of bitch slapping me whenever I said something annoying. I did nothing about the bitch slaps because frankly they turned me on. I'm however terrified what she will do in the aftermath of this. She believes she has some kind of golden vagina that no women can compare too, this isn't your average Latina. She's a mean one and I guess I like her type. My hope would be that she forgives me and we just brush it off and she like punches me one time and denies sex until we're married. That's my hope, but life is not that simple. I don't wanna be Kurt Cobain.
Marry her mom too while you are at it.
If I were you, I would see how long I could keep banging both of them. Dead serious. How many times does this situation happen in a lifetime? Enjoy it while you can.
It could have been like that except for the fact that the mother caught feelings for me, she's lonely and divorced you see... When I slept with her mom, I knew it was a mistake but I was horny, so I thought with my dick instead of my mind. The mom wants me as her young boy toy and my gf wants me as a patient loyal bf that she may marry. Life is fucked lol
Haha, that's a lot of men's wet dreams though. I would just live it up, you probably aren't going to end up with your gf in the long run. Might as well make the most of it.
You have no idea how violent these women can get lol.
I guess not, but I can imagine how pissed your gf would be. Rofl.
Jesus just shows men are jerks. What will he do after she finds out? You are not helping him.
Sounds like he's helping himself to some sinful pleasures haha. What are you doing to help him? Saying you would fuck his friends and his dad if you were that girl? Rofl how so very helpful. You deserve an award.
Glad to know people are reading my opinion.
I call bullshit.
You can call it whatever you want. I know what happened.
You made a mistake, you let your little head think for your big head and Now, After the lovin, you will most likely lose both bonitas anyways... Even if your soul mate took you back tomorrow, she will Never let you live it down, and you think you have a mood swing monster now, wait for more Actions and antics that you dared frick and frack her mama.