Guys, I tell guys I dont like all the bs that comes with relationships? What do you think?

I'm not a hoe, I just dont like the heartache and sadness. One heartbreak fucked me up so bad I fear another relationship or commitment, because I don't want to lose myself again. I mean i lost myself and gave up on everything. For the most part guys are cool with it but some still try to talk me into being in a relationship with them. Im not budging I ignore my sexual needs. What's your guys opinion?
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Just a clearance guys. Im 24. I haven't had sex for 3 years. I've had a few crushes and 2 boyfriends since my heartbreak but I just couldn't catch any feelings for them, even with an open mind. A lot of guys will attempt to play me and that just discourages me more.. im to the point I just want a texting buddy, I dont even want to hang out.
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  • Look in life your gonna go through things but you can't give up on life cause things aren't going the way you want them to. At this rate if the right guy comes along your gonna miss out

    • I know that unfortunately.

  • umm as long as you don't screw with every guy you meet and get the chance with while saying you don't want to attach bc being used or lied to would hurt you... well okay. Finding someone is really hard... if it is easy for you then you are dating the wrong people in general. If it's already hard and troubling just to get tothe point of meeting and saying "i love you" out loud, then you hit the jackpot. But great if you aren't in need of sex good for you! I would recommend selfpleasure though just to... stay in touch with your body...

    • I definitely dont sleep around lol. I have the opportunity just not the type. Masturbating just isn't working for me lol

    • why ain't it?:s

    • Been doing it to long. I hardly get off

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  • I think there are more people like you than you might realize!

    • I've noticed a lot of guys are like that. It seems to shock them when a girl is like that tho. Thank you

    • Yeah I think there are some gender stereotypes at play that simply aren’t always true. It’s nice to talk to an “exception”

    • Awh thank you :) that makes me feel better lol.

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  • Whatever floats your boat in the end surely nothing to worry about

  • I don’t either but it’s the risk we all take

  • I know how you feel. the woman I love really fucked me up mentally I haven't been the same since

  • I think you're someone who is comfortable with sexuality not a hoe.

    • Thank you. I haven't had a sexual relationship for 3 years.