Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, I think he thought the sex was bad? We had a hookup?
Anonymous
There was a guy that has been on and off trying to talk to me since highschool. I graduated 2 years ago and he just kept texting me ever since then. I had a boyfriend while he was trying to get with me, so I always either ignored him or politely turned down his advances to meet up. My boyfriend and I broke up and this guy texted me again and asked for my snapchat. I gave it to him and we kinda talked back and forth for a week or two. He is really good looking and he told me nothing but compliments then whole time we talked. He seemed really nice. He texted me one day and asked to meet up to have sex just because we had been sexting and we were both horny. So I invited him over to my house and he came over. Said he was excited to see me and that he had wanted to fuck me since high school. Well, we ended up having good sex (in my opinion.) We kissed, he ate me out for a long time and gave me multiple orgasms, I sucked his dick and he told me it was the best head he's ever gotten. And then, we had sex in doggystyle. As soon as he put his dick in me, he came. After that, he continued to fuck me but he kept going soft. He didn't seem embarrassed or anything, but he left right after we fucked. He told me he would text me, and he never did. I finally texted him and said, "thank you for coming over. We should do that again sometime." And he texted back and said, "yes, I really want to do that again if you do." And I tried to start another conversation with him and he has ignored me ever since. Wtf is wrong with me? Is my pussy bad or something? I really feel like that must be the problem.
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I did not want a relationship with this guy at all. I just thought that if the sex was good, a guy will want to fuck you more than once.. and if it was good, I don't think he would just completely ignore me afterwards..
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What Guys Said
(16)Don't worry about it much, he was probably looking for a one night stand. You just move on.
Look at how your previous experiences were. Didn't your previous boyfriend stayed with you even after your first time with him?
Yes, my last boyfriend stayed with me for 4 years. He was the only one that kept fucking me. After my boyfriend, I have had sex with 2 other guys and they both only lasted a minute or two during sex with me and both only fucked me 3 or 4 times. And then, the guy im. talkimg about now came as soon as he put his dick in me and he only wanted to fuck me once. Does it sound like I'm the problem? Nobody after my last boyfriend really stays around to keep fucking me, but they all came really quickly with me.. what's wrong with me?
I don't have the experience to judge you, but guys might cum quickly when they get inside, if the foreplay or oral lasts too long. Also, as far as I know, guys may cum quickly due to excitement especially if they haven't had a woman recently. So it's not necessarily your fault.
I guess first time sex doesn't work for most of the people. You can call him and fuck one more time. See how it works.
I can't get him to talk to me after the first time we fucked.. does that mean he thought i was really bad?
There are two options might be he just wanted one night stand with you. Or something wrong with you.
You should not think that much...
May be the guy is feeling embarrassed as he came so quickly... so he is hasitating.
Wait and watch