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I think I might have raped my boyfriend. We aren't really sexual when we are together we only make out, when he came to sleep over at my place he seemed tense so i offered him sex and he refused. I kept on nagging him and I ended up crying, he felt bad and started making out with me but stopped when we were getting to the sex part. I felt angry so I started punching him but he just stood there with no reaction so I just went to bed but I woke up feeling very horny he was asleep next to me so i took my chance and started blowing him to make him hard, when he got an erection I got on top of him and started having sex with him, when he woke up he tried pushing me off and he was very angry but I wouldn't let him until he stopped fighting and had sex with me willingly. After that I tried to apologize because I felt bad but he didn't said anything about it just that I should never do it a again. Was this rape or just normal?
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31 49Not only was it rape, but also physical abuse.
Then again, this probably didn't even happen.
It's rape, boy or girl it's still considered rape.
That's sick. You need to go see a counselor
As long as you didn't penetrate his anus I think you're ok.
It's rape, yeah. You say he did it willingly afterwards but that was after stopping you before numerous times and being punched for doing so. Just flip it round and imagine it was man on woman, just because they stop resisting doesn't mean it isn't rape, often they just give up. But also there's a big difference between being nagged onto sex and giving in to emotional blackmail, and being physically forced into sex with violence.
Definitely not normal. Seeing as how you tried to have sex with him while he was asleep, that would likely be enough of a reason to qualify as rape.
He woke up and did it willingly after some time.
If he was in a position to truly consent afterwards, then it wouldn't be rape. What I'm saying is that what you did to him while asleep rather than after he woke up is the main issue that has to be looked at.
Holy shit girl 😱😱😱😱
You have definitely raped your boyfriend :/
Yeah, this is rape.
It definitely was not normal but legally I don't think that's considered rape
I agree legally it's not rape.
What makes you guys think it's not legally rape? @hypno-trip
@throwit cause he gave into it eventually...
That's coercion and manipulating him into giving up. She raped him and then he decided to accept his fate. if this happened to a girl there would be no question if it was or wasn't
@hypno-trip
Well someone take it up with the lawyers and I'll let them decide because I'm not qualified for this I admit @throwit...
Technically, it was.
what mesonfielde said. I doubt this actually happened the exact way you said it did... but if it did happen, yes you raped him
Well technically envelopmen isn't rape, thanks feminism. However most sane people would consider this rape.
Ehh nevermind he could have overpowered you. I say not guilty.
Sorry, but yes, that was rape.
If you did as you said it was rape. How he slept through a bj & being mounted I don't know? Sounds more like a fantasy then reality.
You definitely raped him.
you have been watching too many porn
Yes indeed you did rape him. I think y'all should break up for his and your sake.
Yeah right, this sure happened...
That was absolutely rape. It was clearly not consensual as he was asleep and he refused it while awake. How could you even think that's normal? If you are in a sexual relationship where you have said you can wake each other up like that, that's one thing, but you clearly aren't.
You keep saying he consented after awhile... After a while women also stop fighting and just lay there. It's still rape. There was no consent when you started.
He did stop fighting but he didn't just lay there he had sex with me.
But he refused and you did it anyways. That is rape. He even fought you. Still rape. You know that or you wouldn't be wondering.