I want my boyfriend to spank me. Is spanking hot?

[honey202]

Would you find it a turn on? I mean light playful spanking possibly during sex.

[Anonymous]

You're not alone in this. That's how it started for me too. It went from light and we started progressing it to harder as time passed by.

Yesterday, my fiance spanked the hell out of my whole bottom, sit spots and upper thights. He didn't miss a single spot. It's completely full of bruises and a couple welts too. At this moment it's changing from fierely hot, stingly red and burning to black and purple (it's still sore and burning, lol). I don't mind. It was a turn on checking myself in the mirror and see all the marks he left.

[Madirashed]

Lucky guy.

[Vesuvius87]

I'm going to admit. Stories like hers and similar ones like that have turned me on for the longest but I would keep denying it.

[Vesuvius87]

Ok I'm not sure why some of us have that urge to be honest. I admit, I've been trying to deny it for years. It's not working.

I'm emotionally tougher, a hardcore atheist and somewhat liberal. If anyone knew this thing turn me on as well they would be in quite shock.

Ok guys, this is strange. I'm also having urges for moderate and tougher versions of it. Once again, this is coming from a modern woman.

[laurieluvsit]

YES!
I love playful spanking!
Just not the hard BDSM stuff:)

[novaredphoenix]

Yes guy to girl , girl to guy i think most men would agree we would prefer an ass grab by our gal to a spanking. I can't speak for homosexual couple's just heterosexual as far as I am aware, but then again every person is different.

[MrOracle]

https://i.imgur.com/lsxdPeX.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/4rtvOPj.jpg

[Vesuvius87]

I'm not sure why some of us are into that to be honest. It's a very weird way of how our brains work. On the outside, I'm an emotionally tougher woman, an atheist and don't show any traits of being a follower or lower anyone. Ironically, this desire involves submitting.

[Vesuvius87]

Nice picture by the way (the one below).

[MrOracle]

That's not uncommon. Some of the submissive women I've been with were submissive always, but others were leaders and assertive outside and submissive with me. There is a freedom they feel to give up all responsibility and decision-making to someone they trust. I've heard that many times...

[Vesuvius87]

That's good to hear. My boyfriend and I are on a long-distance relationship for the meantime. I haven't gotten a chance to bring this up yet but will eventually. This has been a long-term fantasy but I've never done this ever in my life. Did the girls you used to spank started it with lighter or harder versions? They did right away wanted it harder on day 1 or lighter for a beginner?

[MrOracle]

@Vesuvius87 Some had had previous experience, but the others often asked for lighter spankings at first, but often they would quickly ask for it harder. Everyone was a bit different, but because pain and pleasure are both processed by the hypothalamus, it's not uncommon for some pain to enhance pleasure. Being spanked also makes the area more sensitive to other types of touch.

[InfoBot]

Only if I can do it with a baseball bat.

[VaIiant]

Bahaha😂😂

[jsdfreedom]

Yes. Although most guys love any excuse to touch a girl's butt

[Pretty_Sexy_Wild]

Yes it is very hot. I love being spanked.

[Pretty_Sexy_Wild]

I was spanked so hard he left a handprint on my ass.

[SarahSwims]

yes. I started out light but now I like it pretty hard... where my butt is cherry red. nor many guys ate truly into that tho

[mjnthn]

Most of the guys dont know how hard you'd like to be spank

[SarahSwims]

even if I tell them they have a hard time bringing themselves to do itt

[mjnthn]

Maybe they're scared to hurt you, especially if you're a petite girl (idk if you are or not lol)

[SarahSwims]

petite/ athletticc 😉

[mjnthn]

Thats the best 😉 but guys are probably scared to hurt you. I like it a bit rough sometimes even if im kinda shy lol but if my partner is petite im scared to hurt them

[Vesuvius87]

Alright I admit it, this has a weird way of causing some type of reaction in some of us. I don't know why.

[Aria0O]

I am very turned on by spanking honestly

[Cuintan]

It's hot all right.

[kmsdoggo]

Yes please

[genericname85]

yeah sure :) as long as she's not into crazy sm spanking xD

[JSmuve]

Hell ya! Spank that ass raw.

[LeViking]

I've been told I give strong and firm spankings :P

[LegateLanius]

Yes...

[CJSCGUY]

It's definitely hot and definitely a turn on. I can't really explain why but sometimes the things you can't explain make the most sense.

[KillNowDieLater]

Well I mean she have to really make me mad like all day then come home I turn into this monster bring on the desk n paddle somebody going to get Red Ass hand print all over them

[Ericthebarberic]

Yes it's sexy as long as your not leaving serious marks or bruises

[Danielle93]

What if the girl is ok with bruises and marks? I had a weird friend during my 1st year of college. Her and her boyfriend were into this domestic discipline lifestyle. Her man would spank her once in a while for things like etting drunk or having an attitude. It would be hard enough to make her cry. She used to say it was a turn on seeing the bruises afterwards.

[Danielle93]

Personally that wouldn't be a turn on for me. How can any girl get turned on by that? I think spanking should be done in bed, only with the hands and very short (maybe 5-6 light to average taps). That would be it for me.

[Ericthebarberic]

@Danielle93 I say different strokes for different folks

[Ericthebarberic]

@Danielle93 I personally are with you on this one.. hard to get turned on by seeing bruises on my girl

[Ankush_is_here]

During sex.. just say it.. he'd love to.. it's a big turn on for guys..

[Howells]

It is, it is for me at least

[Nickoli42]

I love it

[bettyraeyo]

i dont give a bollux! i love it

[DanOh2018]

No it's weird and you need punishment. Come here for your spanking. 👋

[disgustingweebtrash]

Yeayh