I want some advice?

Today I had sex with my boyfriend and I told him that we would not do some things that we usually do, so he told me if you say that again I will disappear from your life, I feel bad
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Superb Opinion
  • You should be the one doing the disappearing act and resurface with a new boyfriend. That is the price he should pay for being an asshole.

    Even find some random hot hunk to pose as your new boyfriend for a few minutes and the the two of you walk past him and say "You have been replaced".

Most Helpful Guy

  • Ditch him, simple as that,

    both sides have a say in what happens, it’s called consent, trust, respect etc.

    he is so far in wrong.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Omg... he’s such a douche... please run & leave : ( totally red flag alert... you deserve to be with someone who will respect you and be accommodating!

  • That’s emotional abuse. You can do what you want during sex. Don’t let him force you into anything you don’t want to do.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Is this related to swallowing?

  • Okay… so you are dating a manipulative asshole. Kick him out of your life now and be done with it.

    • I got out of bed and left

    • Good start but need to get out of the relationship and leave too.

  • Let him disappear.

  • Obviously, he was using your body for sex and never loved you. How, can I help? I want to help you anyway I can.

    • Yes, I have been with him for almost 3 years. But I was upset because he put a photo with his ex-girlfriend on whatsapp and I was upset for that reason, I didn't want to have sex with him today and he told me that

    • Actually the best thing that could happen I think is if this emotionally abusive bastard did get out of your life. He doesn't love you, loves using your body. He even tortures you by posing with his ex that probably dumped him. Do yourself a favor and remove yourself from this situation, I describe it that way as it's not a relationship.

  • 1. Why did you say that?
    but
    2. The fact that he would threaten you tells you he should disappear.

  • he threatened you to break up and you feel bad?

    • I have almost 3 years with him

    • yea but thats not someone you wanna be with if he is gonna treat you like that no cap

    • Yes you are right :(

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  • So you're dating a control freak.
    Cut him loose. You'll be much better off without him.

  • I saw leave now and keep him in the past

  • Ok, but why did you say that? And did you offer up any ideas to try something new? He does sound shallow for saying that.

  • Leave. Don't let people disturb your peace. Protect your peace and happiness at all cost.

  • he sounds a blackmailer

  • This is a sign for you and you should take it seriously. This guy just wants sex. He will dump as soon as you stop having sex or don’t do things you usually do

  • Anonymous...

  • You need you leave that loser

  • I'm sorry but he sound like a dick head. I'd dump him after saying that

    • Those words he said hurt a lot, but I realized that he only wants sex from me.

    • Of course it hurt you would anyone. Better off not being with someone who would say things like that

  • A guy has to do whatever a girl says.

  • By felecia is what you shout tell him it’s your body your choice

  • Anonymous post = troll post

  • Then he is an asshole. Kick him out of your life

  • he's a dick

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