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I was offered a job dancing at a gentleman's club... What is actually expected of me if a guest pays for a private/ champagne room with me?

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  • Go to the club and talk to the girls who work there - that's the only way you're going to get a real answer.

    The laws on these clubs vary greatly, even county-to-county or city-to-city, and even then, some clubs follow the laws carefully and others (the shadier ones) will violate the laws with impunity, usually because they're paying off the enforcement officials to leave them alone, and the latter will expect you to do much more.

    This is why talking to the girls who are ACTUALLY working in THAT club is the only way you're going to get answers. And don't just talk to one girl - talk to several. You'll find that you may have one girl who is doing or allowing much less (and maybe she's hot enough to get away with it, or she's connected to someone and is protected), and another girl who is doing much more, either because she has to or because she's willing to even break the club's rules to get more money.

    As I said, the rules vary wildly, so you really need to know what goes on in the club you are thinking about working at.

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  • It will vary as to location. All gentleman's clubs face the possibility of being closed down for prostitution. Thats not a good thing for the owners if they have invested significantly in decr etc. So how prostitution is defined is significant and will vary as to location. Here in Australia, one club used US dollars for a while because that wasn't legal tender and technically the girls were not being paid.

    We had three options 1. a table dance when it was the girls turn at the able 2. a dance in the general room sitting in a chair 3. a dance in a private room.

    There were cameras in the private rooms which were to limit what the girls were willing to do. I do know a couple of girls were willing to allow digital penetration and kept their skirts on so it couldn't been seen. Mostly there wasn't much difference.

    If the private room is more expensive than you could expect guys to want more physical intimacy than they get in the general room or on a table. There has to be some bonus for more money.

    The club who has offered you a job should be explicit on what they allow you to do and what they expect you to do.

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  • Odd, all the clubs I worked at we were not hired, we were independent contractors.

    I suppose it depends where your located at though.

    In my case, nothing was expected but no one is going to tip if you don't do a good job of dancing and showing your stuff. So expect to get naked, a lot... and possibly shower shows, table dancing, pole dancing, and lap dancing. All of it optional though but turning down something means turning down tips.

  • It's best to consult the management of the club on what you're supposed to do first. Usually, you would do lap dances and be flirty with the guest that ordered you along with bottle service, but he ain't allowed to touch you and there will be a bouncer just outside the VIP booth to assure your safety. If the guest gets too out of hand and won't take no for an answer, just holler and the security will come charging in like a rhino.

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  • I do not know but Ms @elizamichale1 probably will as she is the GAG expert in this area, so you might ask her :)

    • Thanks for referring her honey n yes i would love to guide n help as best as i can specially because @laurieluvsit suggested so

  • I don’t know for sure, (having never been in one, but I’m willing to bet my paycheck that it has something to do with the guy cumming at the end! So if this is true, are you willing to at least touch random strange men until they cum, or more than likely blow them, or fuck them? It’s basically prostitution.

  • Sex, for starters. Maybe with someone you find awful. I suggest you forget that job and leave it to girls that don't care about themselves and their futures.

    • I need the money... I can't afford my new car payments or gas anymore.

    • In effet, you would be a prostitute. That will not bode well for a future relationship.

  • It depends on the club. But at the very least the dancing will be more intimate and hands on. Some clubs enforce a no touching rule while others do not. Bottom line is dont do anything you are uncomfortable with. If the club expects you do things beyond your comfort zone quit. You are always in control.

  • The company will have it's own policy. Legally they won't be able to say "have sex" but it may be unofficial suggested.

  • Sex for pay is probably illegal in your state. But it still happens. If a guest pays for a private room, then some kind of sex is likely expected. What the club expects you to do and how they handle it varies with the club. But realize that you do run the risk of being charged with prostitution. On the other hand, most women who have sex in those clubs never get charged. If the club has any under aged girls working there the law is likely to find out and the whole club will get raided. So if you are in one of them you will likely get caught and go to jail.
    The pay varies, and some clubs charge the gals for the use of their club and the gals make their money off of tips and private dances. Make sure you know what is expected of you if you decide to do this.

  • It depends on the club. In my experience, the two types of lap dances are:
    1. Public.. in the main dance area where everyone can see. In the public lap dances the gal usually leaves her panties on and the girl dances for one song or so.

    2. Private.. in a private room or area where it is just the girl and the guy. In the private lap dances I have experienced, the girl gets completely naked, grinds herself against me all over.. puts her pussy and ass right in my face, and rubs her tits on my face. I pay more, as it is a longer dance.

    Guys can get a little tempted to go over the line if they get very turned on by you, but don’t let them get away with it. You are in charge, even though you are naked and he is paying. You have to hold the line. I hope you get guys like me, who pay very well and keep the rules! I try to be a gentleman with a woman who is wiggling and grinding her most intimate parts inches from a stranger’s face for money. I am not going to be the jackass who makes her feel even more objectified than she already does.

  • That is not a honorable job and if you are worried about it. Get a normal job

  • I would assume you rarely find gentlemen in a gentlemen‘s club… 🤔

  • Best to ask the club and women were you'll be working because they can be different. Usually you just dance, and if you're in the U. S., probably no touching (from him) is allowed. Some clubs do allow touching with a private dance, so it depends on the club you're hired at.

    • Some girls give BJ’s but you don’t have to, but they make more money

    • @jengeorge26 Yes and you have to be careful with that as it'll be illegal regardless.

    • I know, I was a dancer 💃

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  • First try only fans or Chaturbate some women make big bucks there and no actual sexbis involved.

  • every strip club I've ever been, every stripper I've ever dated is the same (aproximate) deal, you normally take a turn at doing a stage strip (normally bra off, pants on) and any guy who wants a private dance, you agree the price, he pays, he (usually) sits on his hands while you dance, grind on him fully nude, for the length of time you both agree, he walks back to his mates with an erection.

    usually no touching, usually no propositioning for sex but as others have said, depends a lot country to country and even then, you decide what you are good with

  • My uneducated guess is a private dance and a blowjob.

  • At a minimum, guys will expect a sexy lapdance from you, nude or partially clothed depending on the club's rules; they stay fully clothed. They should get hard but shouldn't cum, though some guys might. Some guys will want to touch you while others will not. Plus some guys may want more, a hand job or blow job. Always do what you are comfortable with and never anything more.

  • I guess you'll have to ask the boss or the other girls. I would assume it's mostly just a lap dance kind of thing but, I'm pretty sure some places will either let or expect you to give him a hand job, blow job or even a fuck. House rules, I suppose, you'd have to ask them.

  • If you let him fuck for free you’re just a ho that’s not your job it’s to entertain that’s an upgrade, you can list your menu any way you want

  • Well the general answer is.. it varies from club to club honey... as @laurieluvsit said u can talk to me i can explain u all the expectations n then u can talk to ur management coz if u dont like something i can tell u how u can get around it lol

  • 🤔 I’ve wondered that

    • Same here.

  • Just give him a lap dance and get his dick hard a lap dance only last for a few minutes

    • For a lot of guys that's longer than sex lol

    • That’s funny but true

    • I used to be a dancer 💃 lol

  • Nothing is expected of you. They don't own you. But, it would be hard to turn down that kind of money, if he asks for anything more than lap dances

    I think what you're doing is wrong though

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