If a girl speaks sexually open on her posts, whats your reason for asking to PM?

Question

Is it because you’re afraid to be seen naughty in public? Or do you prefer she be a lady in the streets? Or are you trying to hint at nudes or some shit? Like there's no reason to PM if she's putting it all on frontstreet. I just wanna know the reason.
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Jake1415 · Accepted Answer

Because A) after 2 of your replies you stop replying and B) because when it gets to long, it shows your last reply and my first question; not mother question I just asked you or told you so if it has been a while, ill forget what I asked you or told go and thus need to know what it is so instead of tapping the button to see the rest of the conversation and scrolling down to the last thing I said, I'm come or just pm you and see my last 5 messages to you compare to the 1-2 NOT in my PM box.

Also, I know I technically didn't ask you to PM me, but since we went from talking in your comments to point each other, I figured this also could include me... Hope you're fine with it.😁

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

I always assume it's to harass you, especially the people that ask it right away before saying anything at all to do with your question (sometimes it so obvious and "creepy"). But I don't do it so? lol The only time I've wanted to is if we get talking (several posts back and forth) and need to continue at length. But this is rare.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Me thinks you answered your own question
"Or are you trying to hint at nudes or some shit? " most times that's the reason... Any time a women talks sexually open on here either prole think that means she's open to talk sexually privately with them or she must be a fake pink account 🙄 But then you'll also have guys that complain women act like they don't like sex, well gee wonder why 🤷🏼‍♀️ let women talk just as freely about sex without treating her like she must be easy or she must be fake and maybe more women would be more open and comfortable discussing sex...
Sorry, didn't mean to go off on a rant lolol but people be so tiring sometimes 🤦

JosyJosy · Accepted Answer

Asker: 'Do I love sex?'
Me: 'Sure I love sex'
Horny person: OMG SHE LOVES SEX. SHE PROBABLY HORNY RIGHT NOW. SHE PROBABLY INTO SEXTING AND SHARING NUDES OMGGGGGGG

that's usually the reason, sexting and nudes

laurieluvsit · Answer

Because they don't want to ask you for nudes on open forum.

AustinMan · Answer

Ofttimes it's because I have things to share I'd rather not share "in the clear," as it were.

weysally · Answer

because you can put more detail and more private, I prefer to email. that way I can be nearly 100% sure that only that person gets what I really feel of know

matchrestore · Answer

Maybe they aren't comfortable sharing something about themselves.

PeytonVB · Answer

Yeah what’s up with this 🤷🏼‍♀️😐

Red_Arrow · Answer

Often see underage girls being open in ther posts, then getting invited to PM by older men. Obvious what most of those men are angling for.

Apple1996 · Answer

Some are purely looking for conversation. Others are looking to see if they can get anything out of you. I usually figure out pretty fast if they're lonely and just wanna talk or if they're horny and want something more.

ZackBan · Answer

Each has his own reasoning.
Me for examle if I wanna get deep into a subject I wanna have a back and forth conversation about it and sometimes it's something that might draw a lot of backlash so I prefer having the talk in the side

MrsJaximus-Lion · Answer

i have been here for few months and so far not one single dm and am happy for that :D  i agree if you are open in here why take it there

ThePinkKnight37 · Answer

I am not here for that or did I miss something, Is this a porn and dating site? I will never have that issue. My heart belongs to someone else. So I have no need of a conversation about sex. So basically I would just move on to another topic.

Jjpayne · Answer

I think part of it is simply privacy and another is the fact that you want it to be more personal rather than having everyone else comment on what you are saying... Sometimes it's nicer to not have people interupting or budding in

wittymilf · Answer

Amen to that update sister!

David92506 · Answer

Many people live their lives as if they are on a journey. Exploring and discovering. The woman may have said something that made someone think about something and privately asks her a question. No need to share it with the public.

For example, one woman said she likes anal. The bigger the better. I privately asked her if it hurts.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I would say it starts as a chain reaction. Namely the PM to keep secrecy on kinks or things that one may be judged on by others if it were public. Sometimes I'd it gets hot enough, it may escalate to something more explicit like nudes and sexting.

That's my guess anyway.

Hans222 · Answer

Be careful if someone asks this with regard to sexuality. They probably want to say or do things that should not see the daylight. Probably a creepy member 😫

SarahP080102 · Answer

They want nudes and hopefully a meet up

Finchie40 · Answer

Trying to bang her lol

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

My best guesses: Bobs and vegana, just trying to get some kinky discussions outta desperation or probably to turn themselves on laying out everything in private convo.

Agape93 · Answer

Literally every time I let someone slide into my dms after posting something sexual, they try to sext me, send me a dick pic or ask for a pic. :/ so fucking annoying