If a girl speaks sexually open on her posts, whats your reason for asking to PM?

Is it because you’re afraid to be seen naughty in public? Or do you prefer she be a lady in the streets? Or are you trying to hint at nudes or some shit? Like there's no reason to PM if she's putting it all on frontstreet. I just wanna know the reason.
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As much as i express loving being publicly naughty, i def dont get why certain people askin me to PM 🤣 you know i love an audience haha
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I’ll initiate posts but i have no reason to initiate a PM unless im romantically interested in the person
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  • Because A) after 2 of your replies you stop replying and B) because when it gets to long, it shows your last reply and my first question; not mother question I just asked you or told you so if it has been a while, ill forget what I asked you or told go and thus need to know what it is so instead of tapping the button to see the rest of the conversation and scrolling down to the last thing I said, I'm come or just pm you and see my last 5 messages to you compare to the 1-2 NOT in my PM box.

    Also, I know I technically didn't ask you to PM me, but since we went from talking in your comments to point each other, I figured this also could include me... Hope you're fine with it.😁

    • Im confused af but no lmao

    • A) what are you confused on! And B) No, what?

  • I always assume it's to harass you, especially the people that ask it right away before saying anything at all to do with your question (sometimes it so obvious and "creepy"). But I don't do it so? lol The only time I've wanted to is if we get talking (several posts back and forth) and need to continue at length. But this is rare.

    • Yea one time i ran out of post limit because the convo was so long 😂

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  • Me thinks you answered your own question
    "Or are you trying to hint at nudes or some shit? " most times that's the reason... Any time a women talks sexually open on here either prole think that means she's open to talk sexually privately with them or she must be a fake pink account 🙄 But then you'll also have guys that complain women act like they don't like sex, well gee wonder why 🤷🏼‍♀️ let women talk just as freely about sex without treating her like she must be easy or she must be fake and maybe more women would be more open and comfortable discussing sex...
    Sorry, didn't mean to go off on a rant lolol but people be so tiring sometimes 🤦

    • Haha i dont blame you. I just wanted to know everyone personal reasons for asking to PM. But im sure it still turns up to be what we just mentioned

    • Maybe not always but probably more times than not, was usually the case in my experience and just another reason not big on PM's on here

  • Asker: 'Do I love sex?'
    Me: 'Sure I love sex'
    Horny person: OMG SHE LOVES SEX. SHE PROBABLY HORNY RIGHT NOW. SHE PROBABLY INTO SEXTING AND SHARING NUDES OMGGGGGGG

    that's usually the reason, sexting and nudes

    • 😂😂😂😂😂👍

    • 🤣🤣 the way you worded this is classic it Honestly made me laugh

    • @EstevanMadrid898 yes im at work and even laughed out loud

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  • Because they don't want to ask you for nudes on open forum.

    • They wouldn't get it regardless lol. But its just annoying. Feels like you’re ina room full of people and he asks you to step outside with him for a bit. Like umm i dont know you dude 🤣

    • It's a good analogy though, since they would probably love to take you behind some bushes... lol

  • Ofttimes it's because I have things to share I'd rather not share "in the clear," as it were.

    • Dont be skurred. dont be skurred 😂

    • 👍👍

  • because you can put more detail and more private, I prefer to email. that way I can be nearly 100% sure that only that person gets what I really feel of know

    • I didn't even realize people use email outside of work/school. I hardly ever touch those

    • I know its a pity that it has dropped off, its more private than any other way of communicating, you can write to just one or there can be a three-way or more, and you can send as many has you like, people pay twice to text in a way, someone has to pay for the land line, and then someone has to pay for the text even if on a contract, in my opinion when at home emails are good, I pay for a pay as you go phone and that is the only extra I pay, I have learnt to cut a lot of things and now go on nice holidays, virus permitting

  • Maybe they aren't comfortable sharing something about themselves.

    • Well maybe they shouldn't say it at all if theyre afraid to lay it on all the table

    • That's one way to think about it, but in the open it might solicit comments from people other than you who might not be as kind.

  • Yeah what’s up with this 🤷🏼‍♀️😐

    • Its madly annoying

  • Often see underage girls being open in ther posts, then getting invited to PM by older men. Obvious what most of those men are angling for.

    • Those dudes are straight pedos. And in public at that 🤣

  • Some are purely looking for conversation. Others are looking to see if they can get anything out of you. I usually figure out pretty fast if they're lonely and just wanna talk or if they're horny and want something more.

    • I know the answer too lol. Just wanted to see if anyone had a diff reason

  • Each has his own reasoning.
    Me for examle if I wanna get deep into a subject I wanna have a back and forth conversation about it and sometimes it's something that might draw a lot of backlash so I prefer having the talk in the side

    • people always gonna judge. Dont let the backlash stop you 🤷‍♀️

    • Oh I never let it affect what I think but sometimes I just don't have the energy for a debate and would prefer adressing the asker solo

  • i have been here for few months and so far not one single dm and am happy for that :D
    i agree if you are open in here why take it there

    • Plus if thhey come for you, Jax would whoop their ass lol

    • hahahaha this is so true :D

  • I am not here for that or did I miss something, Is this a porn and dating site? I will never have that issue. My heart belongs to someone else. So I have no need of a conversation about sex. So basically I would just move on to another topic.

    • Thats good of you

  • I think part of it is simply privacy and another is the fact that you want it to be more personal rather than having everyone else comment on what you are saying... Sometimes it's nicer to not have people interupting or budding in

    • Im not tryna get personal with anyone online 😂

    • I feel ya

  • Amen to that update sister!

    • Hahaha

  • Many people live their lives as if they are on a journey. Exploring and discovering. The woman may have said something that made someone think about something and privately asks her a question. No need to share it with the public.

    For example, one woman said she likes anal. The bigger the better. I privately asked her if it hurts.

    • If she's going public, i dont see why theyre afraid too

    • @dizzydesii Some people (men and women) have had horrible experiences when they post. There can be a lot of rude comments. People can attack relentlessly. If one gives a private message one doesn't have to worry about those things.

    • Believe me, pm is no better. The creep is likely to get blocked after that altercation 🤣

  • I would say it starts as a chain reaction. Namely the PM to keep secrecy on kinks or things that one may be judged on by others if it were public. Sometimes I'd it gets hot enough, it may escalate to something more explicit like nudes and sexting.

    That's my guess anyway.

    • What would be your personal reason for asking a girl

    • Personally would rather continue a conversation and the potential to meet a new friend over PM than on a post that may not be answered or replied to depending on the user.

    • That makes sense. But i make it clear a lot that im not looking for friends and yet people still wanna pm to “get to knwo eachother”. Theyre just wasting their time lmao

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  • Be careful if someone asks this with regard to sexuality. They probably want to say or do things that should not see the daylight. Probably a creepy member 😫

    • Haha yep

  • Trying to bang her lol

  • They want nudes and hopefully a meet up

    • Lol cause they can't get em from people in real life

    • Yup.

  • My best guesses: Bobs and vegana, just trying to get some kinky discussions outta desperation or probably to turn themselves on laying out everything in private convo.

    • Lmao um

  • Literally every time I let someone slide into my dms after posting something sexual, they try to sext me, send me a dick pic or ask for a pic. :/ so fucking annoying

    • Sooooo annoying. Like i need to know WHY before you actually hmu

    • Yeap. The dude that thumbed this post of mine was trying to slide into my dms to somehow show he was an 8/10 instead of 3/10. He still won’t say how or what he wants to say or show he can’t on that post.

    • I just dealt with someone similar

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  • Because they believe its them the right to ask personal questions

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