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If a girl wants to get married to a quality guy, can she wait until she is sure of the guy’s intention and practically engaged before having sex?

If a girl wants to get married to a quality guy, can she wait until she is sure of the guy’s intention and practically engaged before having sex?
In most movies not made for children, the main characters hop into bed almost before they have dinner. In my opinion, our society should not be that way. I don’t fault the guys but girls shouldn’t be that easy. And, if they are, that implies they may sleep with a different guy every few weekend for years before they get married. That is not just a handful. That is dozens, even a hundred or more. What guy wants a wife that slept with that many guys?

Perhaps girls believe if they don’t sleep with a guy, he will find someone that will and perhaps he will. However, in my opinion, that means the guy is not ready for a wife or else, she is only a hook-up girl. I cannot predict with certainty what I will do in the future. If a guy cannot wait a couple of months, until after he has met my family, and we have at least discussed getting married then, even if have to settle for less, I will find a guy that will.

I want a guy to be my first and only. It is not necessary that I will be his first. However, I intend to be his last.
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  • personal choice, personal opinions.

  • Guys in my opinion want a women with at least a bit experience. No man wants a virgin all the time because it can lead to obsessive qualities, as well as attachment issues.
    And don’t let the guy cheat on you
    I’ve been through all the ups and downs and I married older. Like 16 years older. But I’ve been happily married for 5.
    And body counts below one hand thanks to finding him.

  • Only if she didn't have fuckbuddies, hookups or ONS. If she's a decent relationship girl, then yes. No guy is going to be made to wait for something she gave another guy 5 minutes after she met him.

  • I think they should also teach men self control or issue them a flesh light. We are taught by women that being a virgin is unattractive so the few of us who become quality guys will try to have sex with as many women as we can to not miss out. This causes virgin men and infected women to become leftovers and have no choice but to settle for someone they don't like as much as others

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