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If a guy rarely cums when you have vaginal sex and goes soft sometimes does that mean he is not sexually into you?

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  • Sounds like he has ED , how is his health? Does he exercise? And how is his eating and drinking habits? Does he smoke? First and foremost don’t think you are the reason , a lot of guys suffer from this and embarrassed by it , and makes them feel nervous that she is getting upset , which doesn’t help with it either , stress kills erections , it’s mainly caused by the the shit they inject into foods these days and consumption of alcohol , if he drinks alcohol on a regular basis that can cause it as well or if he is a smoker , for a guy to get hard he needs good blood flow to keep his erection alive , so best thing for you to do is support him and help him get on a better diet , and tell him to eat better foods , watermelon is great for helping erections , tell him to try viagra as well if he wants a quick fix , Viagra is the best pill for guys cuz it makes the blood flow , and Viagra only works when he is in the mood , most girls get upset about it which a girl has no reason to be upset about it cuz it only works when he is turned on , it doesn’t just make your dick hard for the hell of it lol My erections are fine cuz I exercise and cut down on drinking beer and eat cleaner foods , But if I know I am going to have sex all night I have no problem taking a viagra let’s just say she won’t last she won’t be able to handle it and she will be walking funny for a few days lol

    • Thanks for your serious response. I really didn't know who to ask. He seems into me, but I just wanted to make sure.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Not necessarily it depends on age and condition and some guys will hold back as long as they can until they're too exhausted.
    But some guys do get erectile dysfunction and no matter how horny they are and how much they want it it just doesn't work.
    I myself am more turned on when I know the woman has had an orgasm or more than one but if she doesn't come I will hold out as long as I can and often wait too long and become so exhausted I can't continue.
    Many guys are so selfish they only care about whether they cum but if you truly care about somebody they cum first or you don't

    • Thank you for your honest opinion. It made me look at this situation a bit differently.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It sounds like he has some performance issue or ED either way he should talk to his doctor…..

    • Not really ED, even I am often not turned on by pussy

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That's not normal. He should see a doctor, preferably a urologist.

  • No, it may mean that he has a sexual dysfunction. Or that could be a side-effect of various medications. Or a response to stress.

  • Doubtful. It may be an ED problem

  • not necessarily no... there could be a few other causes and situations

  • There are quite a few options besides he not being into you.

  • Maybe he is a tweeker

  • Nope, he may need to see a Urologist he could have Erection Dysfunction

  • He may have a physical problem and maybe a visit to a urologist is in order.

  • I can't explain this but s ex feels better for me when im semi-hard, When im fully hard i lose a bit sensation,

  • Sometimes stress or lack of sleep among other factors can play into this. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with how aroused he is.

  • Could be a number of things. For example my meds gave me erection issues and a tiny dose of Viagra is what helped me. Could also be mental factors like being tired from work, depression etc.

  • C. But he probably has ED issues if it happens all the time.

  • Performance anxiety it could be

  • Could be getting ED. Treatable ba a doctor.

  • He may simply not have produce enough cum. Let him not have sex for about 2 weeks, no jerking off nothing. It should clear him than.

  • I had this problem for a short time. lack of sleep and stress. fixed that problem gone. boner time. also. I have cut back on my jerking off. I used to do it whenever I got frustrated... so. a lot. now I'm trying to limit it to once a week and just try and get laid.

    additionally, penis pumping promotes good vascular growth and blood flow in the penis. get him a hydro pump

  • Stressed tried not in the mood. It baby bored sexually news to spice it up

  • Maybe or his drive sucks

  • maybe he has problems?

  • He could be unhappy, stressed, sad, depressed.. try to talk to him, above all else, ask if he’s ok and reassure his safety confiding in you

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