If you are dominant or submissive/into BDSM is it a dating/relationship deal breaker if your potential partner isn't?

Dominate or Domi-dont?
Dominate or Domi-don't?
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  • I am sup consciously dominant, I won't act the part but trust me if things don't go my way, I will fix them 😏
    I am in no way a violent person, but you don't want to upset me, trust me 😎

    • Subconsciously dominant*

    • Lol ok

  • no. I would love to try being dominated by a woman but have never had the pleasure and had relationships so it's not a deal breaker for me. you?

    • Not a desk breaker. But I think the more sexually compatible you are the better. Not just for the sex, but the relationship as a whole

  • Nope

  • I'm definitely a dom but I need someone that will match that she doesn't have to be into BDSM but she has to be somewhat submissive

  • If you enjoy vanilla and kinky sex, it's possible. If you only enjoy the kinky stuff, then it's a no go

  • Nope dealing with that right now although for some people it's a lifestyle

    • I know, that's why asked lol

    • I'm sure a lot of people would be ok with some parts of it

    • That's where sex talk/ communicate comes in

  • No it's not for me

  • no but it can be frustrating...

    • Agree

    • i think that any sexual behavior that isn't accepted/fulfilled becomes frustrating after a while. People might get tired of it and look elsewhere to be get what they are looking for. Porn helps but it's more like a band aid in my opinion

    • I agree. That's why ask these questions. Not cuz I'm some big perv or horny broad 🙂😂

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  • I'm not into BDSM and if my woman was, I'd pick another woman to be with.

  • No it would not be a deal breaker

    • That's good. But it's better to find someone sexually compatible

    • Yes, I agree with you 100% - But I still would not consider it a deal breaker.

    • That's good 👍🙂

  • well sex is only a part of a relationship but still very important one
    we can roleplay some times which can satisfy both however my ex didn't like it and was a deal breaker for her

    • That's why I say have the "sex talk" before the relationship not after

  • Yes
    Sex is a tremendously important piece of any relationship

  • Not a deal-breaker at all, I'll teach him to like it ;)

    • Lol ok 👍

  • Not a deal breaker but would be nice if she at least tries it