If you had to choose: would you rather go without orgasm for the rest of your life, or your partner goes without orgasm for the rest of their life?

On another poll I asked if people care if their casual sex partners orgasm (vote here) and most men said they would rather their partner orgasm than them.

To clarify why, I did another poll (vote here) asking if people find it more pleasurable to orgasm or watch their partner orgasm.
More men said to watch their partner orgasm. But a lot of guys said it was because it turns them on & gets them off.
So I figured I would take that component out.
So if you had to choose, which would you choose: no orgasm for the rest of your life (you can't even obtain an orgasm by masturbating to the sexual memories afterwards), or your partner goes without orgasm for the rest of their life?

If you had to choose: would you rather go without orgasm for the rest of your life, or your partner goes without orgasm for the rest of their life?



I would much rather lose my own ability to orgasm, but my partner can always orgasm
Vote A
I would rather lose my own ability to orgasm, but my partner can always orgasm
Vote B
I would rather my partner loses their ability to orgasm, but I can always orgasm
Vote C
I would much rather my partner loses their ability to orgasm, but I can always orgasm
Vote D
Either would be equally awful for me
Vote E
I don't want sex and/or relationships
Vote F
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Assume that in this scenario, if it's the man that goes without orgasm, the man could still ejaculate in case you want to procreate, but there are no orgasmic sensations during the ejaculation (this is called "ejaculatory anhedonia")
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I can still enjoy sexual intercourse without having an orgasm since I've never had one so I could easily go with I'd rather go without orgasm for the rest of my life. The sucky part about this is that I masturbated almost everyday and not being able to have an orgasm would suck xD but during sex, I care more about my partner's pleasure.

  • I'd rather loose mine besides if he can't I can never have a family

    • A man can ejaculate without orgasm; it's called "ejaculatory anhedonia"

    • Never knew that lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't think a woman losing her orgasm would be a big deal to her. A new pair of shoes or shopping would be more important for her than sex.

    Women aren't like men...

    • The only men who believe that, are men who are either virgins, or who aren't virgins but aren't able to sexually satisfy a woman & see just how much happier women are with a good orgasmic life.

    • Oh well of course! I don't look like the tall jacked Chad which is probably the reason ain't it.

    • Even if you don't look like a tall jacked Chad, you can still probably give a woman an orgasm if you give her oral sex, manual stimulation, and deep kissing (it's called the Golden Trio for female orgasm, established by studies).

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  • Well I would like to have kids someday so if I couldn't, that would be impossible. Either way would really suck.

    • A man can ejaculate without orgasm; it's called "ejaculatory anhedonia"

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  • Me
    Never had sex but I’d probably care more about pleasuring the other person than myself cause just that would pleasure me

  • With me not being able to orgasm it would mean that you could practically last forever in bed, just because you can’t orgasm doesn’t mean sex doesn’t feel good.

  • Lol obviously let him cum so I can get more babies

    • A man can ejaculate without orgasm; it's called "ejaculatory anhedonia"

    • Still I'd let him keep a full orgasm and me take none

    • Why? Do you get more pleasure out of his orgasm than yours?

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  • I would much rather lose my own ability to orgasm, but my partner can always orgasm.

  • I would much rather my partner loses their ability to orgasm, but I can always orgasm

  • I feel like giving up orgasms would be easier for us than guys.

  • If one of us had to suffer, I would be the one to bear the burden.

  • I'd much rather she orgasm than me, if it comes down to that.

  • Considering I am single and my right hand never orgasms.. Yeah
    My partner right hand should go without orgasm.. 🤣🤣✋

  • if i had to choose i would loose it, because personally i get pleasure from my partner's pleasure besides if i can't reach orgasm i can go forever and do it until she is satisfyed lol

  • Having a girl being horny for me is much hotter than being able to orgasm.
    So I'd rather not cum myself but have her orgasming.

  • How about neither one

  • I WISH that I could make my SO orgasm as easily as I’ve been able to. I’d give anything to give her the pleasure that she’s given me!

  • >keep ability for myself
    >leave partner
    I'm terrible.

  • Fuck the bitch bruh I’m keeping dis nut

  • I can't orgasm as it is.

    • Have you ever?

    • Yes but that is way in the past. It is from Hormone Replacement Therapy that I've been on for almost two years. I'm told I will get it back though. But that's one reason sex does not interest me.

  • I am ready to loose it for my partner

  • I'll go without orgasm. I don't need to cum to enjoy sex.
    Whatever lady I'm with I'm goons treat like a queen, and a queen must bust her nut!

  • Both would be extremely disappointing, but I need to be able to if I want biological children.

    • A man can ejaculate without orgasm; it's called "ejaculatory anhedonia"

    • In that case I don’t know.

  • As i dont really get anything from orgasms anyway it wouldn't be any different

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