On another poll I asked if people care if their casual sex partners orgasm (vote here) and most men said they would rather their partner orgasm than them.
To clarify why, I did another poll (vote here) asking if people find it more pleasurable to orgasm or watch their partner orgasm.
More men said to watch their partner orgasm. But a lot of guys said it was because it turns them on & gets them off.
So I figured I would take that component out.
So if you had to choose, which would you choose: no orgasm for the rest of your life (you can't even obtain an orgasm by masturbating to the sexual memories afterwards), or your partner goes without orgasm for the rest of their life?
If you had to choose: would you rather go without orgasm for the rest of your life, or your partner goes without orgasm for the rest of their life?
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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Assume that in this scenario, if it's the man that goes without orgasm, the man could still ejaculate in case you want to procreate, but there are no orgasmic sensations during the ejaculation (this is called "ejaculatory anhedonia")
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 30Would be awful for both of us.
I'd take the bullet for her
My partner goes without orgasm for the rest of their life
I would much rather my partner loses their ability to orgasm, but I can always orgasm
lol such a silly question
where would world be without orgasms
In certain countries that are third world they still have tribal beliefs that require a woman’s clot to be cut off at birthing age. The good news is the this is only the tip of the muscles and nerves that make up the clitoris. If the job wasn’t botched too bad it can hopefully give some sensation back. But no, this isn’t a silly question.
@sjoes006 well they should be shot in the head , whoever mutilates a newborn. Fuck their beliefs
We are 69. And we won't be 69 if either of us can't orgasm.
I would rather lose my own ability to orgasm, but my partner can always orgasm
Neither
I find it almost more arousing watching my parter orgasm than having an orgasm myself. Don’t get me wrong, I love it, but I also love watching my boyfriend. Knowing that I helped get him there is so much more affirming than my own orgasm.
Mmm good girl me Too
Such a hard decision. Especially given I enjoy the idea of permanent denial, both for myself and for someone else.
I don't want sex or relationships
Yea , right...
This is tricky, cause I'd want whatever my partner would have. Either neither of us can orgasm, or both of us can. That's my answer, I'm not voting.
Bend over and I'll show you!
Orgasms create future desire, plus soothing and bonding hormones so mismatched cumming often leads to difficulty in relationships.
I'd rather my partner gets something out of sex. Sex when i was in a relationship wasn't great and for me organsm isn't everything
Yeah, to me my partner's orgasms would be more important than mine.
I'm willing to lose it so she can have hers, the reason if I don't feel tired after one round, I can go for twice as long thought two or three rounds knocks me out so if I can last more than that without orgasms bringing me down great.
Both would be bad because you’re probably not going get anymore either if they can’t enjoy it anymore
My orgasm
I rather lose my orgasm I’m more fulfilled hearing her orgasm