He won’t tell me what kind of porn he watches should I be concerned?

[Anonymous]

Dating of 2 years. Moved in with him and he won’t tell me no matter what

[Finchie40]

The fact that he is still watching porn consistently while he is with you? Is disrespectful and should be a red flag to you , as to why he is watching porn to begin with? He should be focusing on you and his relationship with you , the only porn that should be on his mind is the porn he should want to be making with you. People that are in relationships that are addicted to porn , is a huge red flag , it’s clearly disrespectful if a partner is constantly watching it. it’s disrespectful that he isn’t watching it with you. You should really reconsider staying in a relationship with a guy like this , it shows his true character of who he is as a person , it shows he only really cares about himself. , unless you like the fact that he is fantasizing about other people , other than you? Than that’s up to you. Me personally wouldn’t stay in a relationship with a girl that was addicted to porn that was keeping it a secret from me , of what she is actually watching and fantasizing about , I would feel like I didn’t really matter to her, that I was just a convenience to her. Someone that truly loves you and cares about you doesn’t need that shit on their lives consistently. It shows you could be anyone and that they can have that relationship all by themselves , because the only person that matters is themselves. There are way better guys’ out there girl , don’t settle for this shit

[EddieWinehouse]

i used to watch with My fiance and then she decided she wanna quit.

i respected what she wanted. but then the relation with her became so boring and collapsed.

because you can't give it all and then come back to normal as nothing happened.

you can't remove the excitement and the Adrenalin rush and expect that this will work.

its better to start over with someone you don't expect that Adrenalin rush with.

it may work with others but i become hunky to what i like

[Flatmanlewis]

He won’t because he’s afraid of being judged or thought less of. Only way through that door is showing him your are equal parts not judgmental AND equally freaky. How you go down that path is personal and up to you.

[spartan55]

Why is it important to know? Creating a problem when there is none... he will get sick of that in a hurry.

[spartan55]

He knows there is a 100% chance that information gets used against him.. smart

[AviatorTom]

Sometimes things are better off left unsaid. Why is it important for you to know?

[Tim2nice]

Maybe it’s something like interracial cuckold and he’s afraid you won’t approve

[ProbablyClueless]

Probably not... sometimes stuff like that is best left unsaid. Plus, he probably doesn't want you comparing yourself to the women in the videos. Women do stuff like that a lot.

[ColHathi]

I dunno about being concerned. We can't help what we like, really. I'd only be concerned if they wanted to take it outside of the bedroom, so to speak.

That said, if it concerns you that he won't tell you, I wouldn't be surprised if whatever he doesn't want to tell you, would concern you :p

[TheSpaceGnome]

He might be worried you'll feel inadequate compared to the huge boobed perfect looking models or something.

Or he could be into weird shit.

I'd personally have no issues telling a wife what porn I like, but then I don't settle when dating, so she wouldn't feel inadequate.

[Massageman]

Does it REALLY matter?

[Alex-Snow]

Ask to watch it with him! How is your sex life with him is the porn messing things up? Is he masturbating to the porn like 99% of guys?

[jahaims]

He should be able to be vulnerable with you after 2 years together

[Asker]

I don’t know. He just was so bent on not telling me

[jahaims]

I bet it's tranny porn lol