Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health If you had to pick one, would you choose a MMF or FFM threesome?
SweedyPie Yoda
Question is if you HAD to pick one. What makes the one you chose more palatable than the other?
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+1 y
My bad... no Ms touching. MFM or FMF, whatever floats your boat, same difference really 😅😅😅
+1 y
FFM, FMF, two grapefruits and one eggplant. Two peaches and one singular banana 🤣🤣🤣 call it what you call it. Four melons, two cherries, I don't know what other analogies to use but you get my point. One stick dipping in two honey jars. That's my choice now and forevermore 😁😇
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 51I like both FFM and MMF but if I had to choose one MMF, not MFM, MMF 😏
Lol so does MMF mean the male anf female are sharing the other man? But MFM means the two men are sharing the female?
yes exactly and as a man, I find the first more interesting 😜
Okay cool. Never thought about that as a possibility before
It's a very interesting possibility, you won't know it till you try it, nothing hotter that a guy and a girl sharing a banana, in my opinion.
I feel the exact same about myself and another woman sharing that banana lmao.
the middle "letter" is shared by both
@Tim-loves-it Yes, thank you... I get it now
@SweedyPie yes I get you, amazing feeling, I like two F as well, anyway no matter the combination, it's more hotter when there are touches between all participats, and everyone is lost in the moment.
Neither
MFM..
I would never have sex with another guy, so it'd have to be FFM
Of course FMF
I would choose MMF
I’d go fmf, or ffm…maybe even mff 😂 because, two girls
choose ffm
both are different, surely a man would pick ffm and woman would pick mmf but all depend upon what you want to do.
I would try a FFM.
Voted MMF only because I already had several FFM threesomes lol
FFM.
I would prefer FFM. How about you?
My update answers your question ^_^
One stick dipping in two honey jars. Means you prefer FFM?
Yes of course
Why so? You comfortable with wome more than a man?
I trust one man only. That's the end of the entire line of men for me. Ha. I'm goooooood. Not me at all and these men out here. I'd rather be alone if him and I ever decide to split.
But you trust women generally even trust them more in terms of sex than men?
Nope, not that. It has more to do with my willingness to entertain another man being zero. Because I've never tried anything with women, by default they have the mystery of me finding out about if I have the tolerance or not to deal with all the hormones. Sexually is the least amount of tolerance needed if it's just sex with my guy and myself sharing a random female every now and again. No strings attached. My energy for getting to know people in that way and allowing people close to me is at the limit. Relationship wise. He's the first and last human that would be close to me on this level we are.
I’ve done both and had a great experience each time. But if I had to chose I would say MFM.
I find a women enjoying sex incredibly sexy and in MFM there are so many ways for her to have a great time. In FMF once the man orgasims multiple times it can be hard for him to sustain an erection. But I’m MFM there are two men thus taking the pressure off.
I absolutely understand your reasoning here. Yep it is a bit of pressure for the guy in a situation of more Fs and his one M lol
It was definitely pressure to perform and make them both happy but also just having sex with two hot women at the same time makes it hard not to orgasim
Ah. I get it. Are you bicurious or bisexual?
I would say I’m straight honestly
Okay I only asked because someone here (that I don't agree with) seemed to imply thatstraight men would never. And I'm thinking he must be living under a rock lol. I think it's more about openness and willingness to please
Yes, I mean the other guy was conveniently hot 6 pack, big butt, strong chest ect… But I was not interested in doing anything with him. I was more of just the fun of the sex we where both having with her and the great time she had.
*It not I
I get it. You just weren't there for that. You did what you originally intended and that was the focus. But did you feel his thrusting though? Because in my head, it would be impossible not to feel it on some level.
I would feel it and see him but I was more focused on her.
Dpends on the girl.
If she's my girl she can do a FFM
If it's a chick I don't really care about then she can do mfm for gangbang for all I care.
I guess it depends on how kinky you are. I read your update, the top one is bisexual.
I never knew. Today has taught me something new. MMF means the Ms are Bi. MFM means it's solely about the lady
Lol yes you're right :P
No wonder some guys were saying who wants to be with a guy! I was totally oblivious as to what they were going on about lolll
Lol some girls like MMF or any combination, that's why.
Well I have no interest in it at all so for me it was pure ignorance sigh. What a shame. But I know better now. Lol.
It's ok to learn something, don't worry.
Yeah, I love learning. That's the foundation of a fruitful life. Lol I asked a question about it in case others also don't know. But of course, being me, I tried to make it fun
Did you know there is a difference between MMF and MFM? ↗
That's nice of you to make it fun. Everyone likes different things.
Of course, no two humans exactly the same so that's natural to have different likes and dislikes
Yes if you ever watched porn you can see any of those things, lol And there are longer combos too. lol Who knows what can happen after a few drinks? lol
Hahaha true true
Ha Ha Ha :)
I'd pick MFM, I've found FMF quite boring.
Why would any guy want another dude!!
You'll be surprised that there are men out there who enjoy that too. Straight men. I mean, just because we as humans may not do something ourselves, that has nothing to do with other people's capabilities to do it. This question is about each person's individual perspective. Nothing wrong with that. So you would choose FFM. Some straight men hate that too lol. Which you might also find surprising. But to each his own.
Any male who wants his partner fucked by another guy does not care enough about his partner. Males are naturally territorial and if a guy actually cares about his partner, he will not want to share her.
I believe you have that wrong. I am territorial too but I want to have a FMF so he can have two of everything. It's more about how open you are to your partner's complete satisfaction, that is actually more caring than what you are suggesting.
Humans are animals and with that carry many animal traits over from evolution. Men biologically are more polygamous while women are more monogamous. Meaning men are meant to spread their seed and have more than one female. Like packs or prides. women biologically shared a male who provided for and protected them as well as other females. So yes you may be territorial but you are naturally more ok sharing your partner with another female.
I agree with you on all of that. 100%. Biologically that is very correct and may very well be why I'm okay with it sexually. However it ends there. After the sexplorations that's it, back to being the territorial head lioness.
The other issue comes into play with Oxytocin and women. When women fuck they get oxytocin during foreplay, sex, and orgasm. So they become somewhat bonded to the male. Which usually ends up with the female getting some feelings for the guy. Men only get a tiny dose of oxytocin and testosterone nullifies it’s affects. We get large doses of dopamine which means we don’t get feelings, we simply become happy.
Yes. And generally before sex even occurs the women are pre loaded with a shit load more hormones than men are. So logically speaking it makes sense that the emotional aspect of the bonding is way deeper on the female side. My being territorial is limited to him having emotions for other women. I do not care if he watches, touches or even fucks other women. But there should be absolutely no emotional ties to them. Enjoy the sex, sure but in no way develop relationships. He's mine and mine only. Sex is just sex.
Which is exactly why I said my first comment. I could have sex with a female and it will mean nothing. But I wouldn’t want my partner having another dude because she would be likely to get emotionally invested
I didn't see your response before, okay I understand your perspective to an extent. Thank you for all of the full explanation, nice chat