Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health This guy, within a month of knowing, sort of propositioned by implying he was good in bed & had had flings, etc.
It was a wth moment because for
a) I don't act/dress provocatively so I gave no indication I'd even entertain the idea of sex with a relative stranger,
b) being a relatively confident woman I don't come across as someone who'd trade sex for don't know how to refer to it except "favours" (e. g. he puts in good word with a business owner he may know as a generic/basic example).
c) given a & b as I believe he's in a relation - and just looking for a casual hookup (seeing as he mentioned flings) - I'd be even less interested
I found it mildly offensive. So that when he tried winning favor it just didn't really hit any I don't know "key"/"interest".
Guys, if you just see a woman as someone to have sex with (early on) does that mean you don't really respect her regardless of what you say?
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+1 y
Okay so he only mentioned this sexual bit once. And then tried to curry favour. But due to the nature of his commentary my "back was up" and he didn't really do himself any good until later on when made very obvious (a friend said he really, really likes you as example).
+1 y
I see a lot of guys are mentioning respect. This guy is to my knowledge in a relationship so how's he being respectful? To myself or his possible woman
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(37)Not necessarily. Could just mean you realize you aren't compatible.
Even if someone is just a hookup, I srill give them the same respect I give anyone else
The fact that he is already in a relationship, presents a big question mark.
I would understand if he was single, because it would have just been due him having accumulated lots of sperm and he needs to off load. But since he is I. A relationship, he shouldn't have that problem because he already has some one that helps him off load.
Men only act that way if they were interested purely in sex and not a relationship.
Every guy will see you as a sexual entity first. That's why we approach. We end up liking you/respecting you after, depending on your personality.
I wouldn't sleep with anyone I don't respect, so even if it was just about sex for me, I'd still respect her.
My desiring to sleep with someone I am seeing for the first time or barely know has absolutely zero to do with how I regard them. Further, I carry zero admiration towards anyone I do not know so it is fair to say I definitely do not possess a deep admiration towards a a stranger either. A deep admiration being the definition of, “respect”. So again, my desire to sleep with someone early on or whomI barely know has zero to do with my regard towards them. In fact, I can carry all the respect of the world towards her and desire to sleep with her. Equally, I could revile her and still want to sleep with her. So my desire to sleep with someone has zero to do with my respect or lack of respect towards them. It just means, I would sleep with her is all. Nothing else should be taken from that.
I girl that I've already pre-screened to put it crudely. I've already committed to being physically attractive to you & some other related characteristics. The mere fact iof my having fucked her means that she was ore-screened insofar as my desire for her would be. Maybe that's too much a given. Never mind
People don’t respect that
I've never seen any woman as just someone to have sex with. So I wouldn't know.
It has nothing to do with respect for me. Just because I respect someone, doesn't mean I want a relationship with them. But I might find them sexually attractive. And just because I maybe just want sex with someone, doesn't mean I don't reapect them.