If you were just to BIG for a girl would you stop having sex with her?
Let say you are having sex with her and she is saying "Oh fuck it's so big" as you enter her, her eyes are closing up in pain, and as you begin to thrust she is moving her body away from you. She tries to smile and be a good show but you can see the pain in her eyes, sometimes tears as you thrust your cock in and out of her pussy.
Eventually she says "I can't do this. I can't do this it's too fucking big" and tries to move away. Would you continue fucking her and try to convince her playfully to keep taking your dick until you cum or would you stop having sex with her and end it?
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What Girls & Guys Said
11 37A) be an asshole selfish rapist
B) be a decent human being with empathy
I choose B.
As I'm into BDSM, the girl I'd have sex with is into receiving pain (a masochist) - so I would continue fucking her.
Are those really the only two options? What about adding more lube?
Stop , you know how many are looking for your size? How easy that is...
Just stop because you only get shit from that.
She can say that you raped her and then you fucked.
In court, outside court and in prison.
I only get pleasure if she is. So yes i would stop if i'm hurting her.
No.. ?
How is that even a question? If she's saying no, she's saying no... so what if a huge dude stick his humangous dick in your ass and you say no, and he keeps doing it, is that even a question?
That should fucking called rape by the way
Omfg lmfaooooooolololololol that's hilarious xD nice
@RetroDreamerXD ok, not trying to be funny but thanks
The question being asked is uneducated and doesn't cover all options.
The female vagina will expand and relax to allow ANY sized human penis to penetrate it comfortable and without pain, if the male takes the time to turn her on enough and doesn't hammer away like a brainless jackhammer.
So any male who causes pain to a girl having sex, is simply doing it wrong or mentally fucked up and gets off on causing pain. It's as simple as that.
LOL... It's funny that you start of picking on the OP with, "The question being asked is uneducated..." When you follow it up with this "Uneducated" comment, "The female vagina will expand and relax to allow ANY sized human penis to penetrate it comfortable and without pain". ALL vaginas have a depth limit.. it's called the cervix, and no it will not expand to an unlimited size. There are plenty of girls that get vaginal tears and cervix bruising from messing with someone too big. I've been with a girl that no matter how much foreplay oral I couldn't ever fit in her. Every girl has a minimum and maximum penis size that is pleasurable.
@NJ_Casanova Pathetic shaming tactic noted. You will notice that I stated "if the male takes the time to turn her on enough and doesn't hammer away like a brainless jackhammer." This means not pounding deep into the vagina cramming the cervix or being overly forceful and rough. A vagina is made to expand enough to allow a child to come out... if you know of ANY human with a penis the size of a child... please post a source. A female getting a vaginal tear or cervical bruising, is because of a stupid ass male not taking his time or care, and jack hammering away because he doesn't care or know any better. Your personal experience means that she was not turned on enough, no matter how much time you put into her. She could have had a mental block, was nervous, or scared, or was simply not that into it. I have a much larger than average penis size and have been with 5 virgins, all of which were approx 5 foot 2 and tiny... NONE of them had pain during sex. Nor have any of the others.
No, not all are "limitless". IF, which I doubt, what you say is true, you were lucky enough to find 5 women who could take your length. Come on now, be an adult and admit you were wrong.
@Smmyskittles Yeah logicbomber "Regardless, during arousal, blood flows to the genital area, and sexual excitement causes the upper two-thirds of the vagina to lengthen by forcing the cervix and uterus to ascend. The vagina also lubricates to help ease penetration. ... Think of the vaginal canal as if it were a balloon that is not filled with any air." Her canal can be anywhere from 3-7 inches when not aroused. It is possible that even when completely aroused you may be too big for her, it's not unlimited and when you have a baby your cervix thins and opens... it does not open during intercourse so there is a depth.
@Smmyskittles sorry that was meant to @logicbomber
@flypaper I at no point said there wasn't a depth limit... But having a long penis and using it properly would obviously prevent bottoming out. Like I stated when I said. Width wise... there is no known human penis big enough to "not fit" a sexually mature female vagina.
why do girls ask for a big dick then cry because it's too big?
can someone explain
It depends on "how big" we're talking. Some are just too damn big. Fun to fantasize and look at but, I know I couldn't take it. Some women just aren't built for "bigguns" and don't know it until they try; and that's majority of the women you're asking about. Then there are the ones that talk big and make it seem like they've had "big" before... hahaha, they find the truth out awful quick. Honestly, as long as the man takes his time to work her up, open her, and let her get used to his size, it shouldn't hurt her. But, then we're back at the first 2 parts of this explanation.
@Smmyskittles thank you
What guys consider "big" and what girls consider "big" are 2 very different things. What girls really mean when they say big... is above avg. (6<6.5" in length and 5" in girth) No girl want to feel like or actually tear from a girth that is too thick... and 99.9% of women don't like their cervix being bruised.
@NJ_Casanova - Bruise me. ;) Dare you.
@Smmyskittles OMG... If only you were near by;-*
I might have to make and send you a "clone" so you can tell me what you think?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dOsbsuhYGQ
I need you to comment on my other comments in this post ( generic85 and logicbomber), some guys aren't getting my jist and maybe you can weigh in on the discussion?
i just clicked A just to see how many girls will troll me, lolz
Im not into rape.
id stop.. sex is supposed to be consensual and feel good for both. if my dick is too big for a girl, ill listen to her @sofeckinaddicted lmao
Like me lol
@SoFeckinAddicted durrrr lmao
whats he think im just going to rape you while you say no? smh
This guys a turd
I would keep going because I know she's lying.
Hilarioussssssssss very good xD
@RetroDreamerXD Thanks!
Make more funny 😻👻😂
@RetroDreamerXD The downvotes. :_( lol
She said no think that says it all
"Would you continue fucking her AND TRY TO CONVINCE HER playfully to keep taking your dick"
Look at all the idiots who misinterpreted what is clearly a joke question as rape. But hey it's gag. The dumbest online community on earth.
If you do, it's rape
Yeah, so that would be rape.
This poll is really alarming. Highschool's need better Sex Ed.
Again its not rape, the question askes the man if he would convince her, please read the whole question
@TMWLOP If you don't take it out to have that conversation that it is. Stop means stop it doesn't mean talk to me while you ignore the demand.
Its a shame people jump on the rape train rather then actually discussing the question, your thinking its a fling im thinking that im fuckibg my girl friend, i wouldn't rape her EVER, and the fact that i think that id rather take her thought the short pain rather then taking my dick out that very second
@TMWLOP I'm thinking someone says stop and you stop; right there and then regardless of it's a fling, your girlfriend or your wife (I'm married BTW). Stop means stop... it doesn't mean continue to get yours while you explain to me while it's okay... stop, and if yous decide to start again then fine... I am married and if my husband was in pain I'd stop, no questions asked and I wouldn't want to start again until he's okay regardless if I was right there about to cum or not. Partner above pleasure...
Exactly! partner over pleasure! I've been saying it, but you refuse to actually try to see or even want to understand my point of view, I've never once said rape is ok yet your treating me like i am! And its extremely frustrating being all you can see are the rape implactions that pain is a bad thing! its not! If you respected your partner you wouldn't even say thats rape youd talk about it! and another thing, I've never said once to just go ahead and keep fucking her till i cum, actually read what im saying! I, as in ME, MYSELF, AND I, believe that if i COULD, CONVINCE the other party to keep going till it gets better, WHICH IT WILL! Then i have no problem, but dont you dare try and tell me that im advocating rape, freaking sicko
@TMWLOP Okay, wasn't attacking you or calling you a rapist I was backing up my opinion that you commented on. Maybe I misunderstood you... when she says stop, you stop and talk about it and don't pressure her? if that's what you were saying then your right not rape and that's exactly what I am saying so I don't get what your getting so worked up over?
Just because there's pain dont mean its rape, yes i understand an i agree that if your violently fuck a girl and she's screaming it hurts and you won't stop, YES THATS RAPE, but just because her vagina isn't stretched out enough to accomidate the bigger penis donts mean the man wants to rape her if he's just trying to slow things down and convinces her that itll be ok and that he'll slow down and see if thats better for her! is that not partner over pleasure? Cause i think its a good way of taking the question and making it somethjng positive! Not cold and negative like jumping the gun and calling it straight up rape, stop being over sensitive
@TMWLOP No, that's not partner over pleasure. Your putting your pleasure over her or you'd listen to her when she said stop. Consent can be withdrawn. She even tried to work with you and take it before saying. "I can't do this" . This is rape, absolutely with out a doubt rape.
Your actually so misinformed, please go read the definition of consent, you seriously need a refresher
@TMWLOP No my good sir I volunteer at a helpline... it is rape. I've had to read up on it. It's hard to prove but yeah, it is rape & it's not okay.
I highly doubt you do, nice try thought miss anon
@TMWLOP Um, why would I make that up? But okay, have a good one Sir.
Just a little convinent, but either way your still not getting the actually question, your just jumping the gun to get to rape
@TMWLOP How is that convenient? But anyway I am not jumping the gun... haven't you wonder why so many people both men and women are calling the same thing? Have you taken a sex ed class at all - don't they talk about what constitutes as rape? Do you live in the US? A abstinence only area on the Bible Belt? You really should figure your stuff out before you find yourself in trouble or really hurt someone...
was talking abstinence only sex education in the South, which is more or less just wait until marriage and "don't be a used shoe" so I am guessing they don't go over what rape is. I am just trying to figure out why this is so hard for you to get. I hope you aren't currently practicing this behavior with a girlfriend or partner.
No i just know how to actually read a question without see "male privilage" written in the back
@TMWLOP Wait, what are you talking about?
Please do some research or even ask a question on a law site. Really figure your stuff out, you could really hurt someone and/or land yourself in a lot of trouble. The whole stopping when someone asks you to shouldn't be this hard to grasp.
Here we go, the good old "cant prove my point so lets got with the bible and sex ed", listen, please, cause im getting tired of repeating myself 😩 this question was asking about the implications of rape in the form of the question, which im able to understand, what im not able to understand is how you all can sit here an talk about waiting till marriage and schools teaching sex ed, both of those things actually dont combat rape, they IMFORM people about sex and guide lines on how not to get someone pregnant, men actually get raped more then women do in the good old usa, why aren't you talking about that? why is it that you can only see men in a light of rape when a women complains about your dick being to big? Please i need to understand how you can sit here and fight so hard for something thats 100% wrong and immoral, yet you won't even give men a second glance let alone a second thought, its disghusting to actually read you apperently "grown" women be so misimformed and not even care
@TMWLOP Okay, so to clarify it is wrong to have sex with ANYONE who has asked you to stop, regardless of their gender.
If someone says that they are in pain and asks you to stop that should be the first thing you do REGARDLESS of their gender. Continuing is have sex afterwards is rape REGARDLESS of their gender. I didn't think I needed to clarify since in the topic the OP was talking about a guy and a girl which is what I thought we've been talking about. Well, the same thing goes whether it is man on woman, woman on man, man on man, or woman on woman. The gender doesn't matter once consent has been resended and your partner no longer wants to participate you need to respect that and them. If someone, anyone asks you to stop...
you stop. This isn't rocket science and you can switch the genders around all you want but the message doesn't change. When I was in school the Sex Ed went over consent and yeah it's not perfect but it did cover this...
Sorry lady im seriously bored of you ty for the boring debate thought.
@TMWLOP Lol @ this being a debate... it wasn't. You've also probably exhausted every point you had but I agree it's over; I normally say agree to disagree but this is kind of important I really hope you do some research and look at the law, educate yourself. Goodluck & Goodlight Sir! I'm out!
No ill agree to disagree, was boring as hell but ty for the win 😚😙😚
She can take it! I know she can!!!
I'm sure some guys just voted based on the title and didn't read the details.