If you were sure you'd never get caught, would you cheat?

If you know that the person would give you the best sex you've ever had, would you do it? Would you make it a steady thing? Or just one time?
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  • No and I'm in a relationship I'm 100% loyal I wouldn't want to speak to be done with me so I wouldn't want to do it to anybody else.

    One time somebody told me that this girl was going to try to hit on me I didn't really know her but I heard about her anyway little bit later on that night she did just that and she asked me if I was in a relationship. Or if I was single. I was single at the time but I don't know why but I said I was in a relationship. It felt really weird. Because I lied to her I don't lie about anything it's just not who I am. But the friend that told me about this girl told me sexy story I felt I would just keep this one going. And as we talked time just ticked on by. And I've come to realize that my friend is full of crap that this girl wasn't anything like my friend had portrayed her to be. We were at a club so every time I slow danced with come on shoot ask me if I want to dance how to say yes and each time we did this let's just say it's very sensual very hot. And I wanted to take this girl home but I told her big fat lie about being with somebody and how she was out of town and how we were going to get married just ridiculous fat lie. And she kept trying to pick up on me even though I wanted to take her home anyway but then I started why don't you understand why she would want to go out with a guy that said that he had a girlfriend at our conversation just got deeper and better but so did all the bulshit lies I was telling I didn't know if I was going to remember all of them.. one thing led to another I ended up going home with her and for about a month and a half 2 months every time we eat each other I would like to see if I was being sneaky and didn't want to get caught by my girlfriend and for some reason this started to get very hot because she bought into it but she wanted to have sex out in the open just in case we could be seen and she was hoping that my fake girlfriend with walk by or something I even took it as far as but I would come over to her house I would call my friend and say call me in a half an hour and pretend like you're my wife or my girlfriend whatever it was it that time. There were times for we'd be in bed having sex and that's when my friend would call and I would actually answer the phone. And I would play it off and my friend would say are you having sex right now and that would make it even louder and say no LOL and then just hang up the phone my friend would call back is he I thought you wanted me to call you and we'd be making a bunch of noise that's a okay honey I have to go and every time that phone ring and the girl I was having sex with thought it was my wife or my girlfriend you just get the hotter and hotter but in a month and a half or so two months into this big lie my friend finally told her the truth the girl did not believe her she wanted me to have a girlfriend because she enjoyed doing what we were doing I guess was because she thought she was taking somebody's man and I guess because somebody could be hurt buy the whole thing I don't know if it was weird but it was fun it was a turn-on but my friend brought her over to my house one time and she could only see that I was single she was mad and broke up with me because she only wanted to date a guy that had a girlfriend or was married I was just the most bizarre thing ever. I know when I'm in a relationship I'm in a relationship both feet

  • It's tempting but I lean more towards the other way around.

    • @morningstar69 would you?

    • I want to say no, but with the right person, in the right context. Alcohol would definitely "loosen me up", also if I'm no fully satisfied... I want to say I'd be strong enough to say no... but I'm only human.

    • With that much ambivalence you won't be able to properly enjoy it. 😉

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  • not at all, I would never cheat. I must confess that if I knew my man had other girls, or if I felt hated, or that he did not give me attention and was never romantic, then if there was another very handsome man who wants to have sex with me, maybe I would feel extremely inclined to do so, but I know there is no way or ever a chance I would cheat. I must always stand by my principles.

    if I feel that I'm the only girl, that I'm loved, that he loves me and is very protective and romantic, there's no way of ever thinking about it. I think most girls think the way I do. but not all girls okay.

    some girls just cheat and they don't care. some girls just want to have fun.

  • Isn't that's the exact reason people cheat and then get caught?

    • Why?

    • Did you understand what I am trying to say?

    • Maybe not.

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  • No, it would eat at me. I don't feel comfortable doing things I know deep down are very wrong.

  • NO! Integrity is determined by what you do when you KNOW you will never get caught, and you STILL don’t do it anyway!

  • Nope. Because I would be "caught" by myself. It would be compromising my own values.

  • No because the guilt would eat me alive

  • I would be caught, because I would know. That would be worse than anybody else knowing.

  • Of course I would get caught! I would know that I had cheated and my self-esteem would be ruined.

  • I wouldn't and I think it's not even because of guilt, though I suppose I'd feel it too.

    Even if nobody else knew, I would and it would inevitably ruin my relationship with my man. I wouldn't be able to forget it and it would taint our connection.

    Besides, I despise cheaters and if I became one of them, that would seriously hurt my self esteem. Also, I am a Christian and God would always know.

  • Absolutely not. I get into relationships to be happy. I genuinely care about the other person. I feel that if you love someone, you should do everything you can to make that person happy and make them feel loved.

    in my opinion, feeling loved in a relationship comes from a mutual bond of consideration, caring, respect, and a true desire to make the other person happy. In other words, making the other person happy makes you happy too, and when you have two people together that feel that way, that's where true love is found.

    I also believe in treating other people the way I want to be treated. It doesn't matter if I can get away with something and they'll never find out... I'm not going to do anything to them that I wouldn't want them doing it to me. Also, once trust is broken, it's extremely difficult to mend... impossible for some people. If you truly love someone, is a side piece really worth that?

  • Yes I probably would.

    • Why?

  • It would be tempting but I'm married. Before I was married and in a friends with benefits relationship I certainly would. How bout you?

  • Absolutely not. No, never. I pride myself on my honesty and integrity.

    I replay situations in my mind over and over again if I just so much as think I said the wrong thing or gave the wrong impression.

  • No, absolutely not.

  • I would've caught myself. It would eat up my conscience. So no

  • No way, if I was unhappy enough to cheat I'd just break up.

  • I feel like my answer is technically a yes. If I read your question like 🤔 if you lived in a world where you were allowed to act in your sexual desires without the consequence of hurting anyone, would you🤷‍♀️. I’d say everyone would really.

  • Nope im happy with my partner

  • No... I love my girl.

  • No.

    Younger me probably would have answered differently.

    😅😅

  • Not on paper, if it happened in Real life I'm not sure what I would choose

  • Probably not, unless it was my fantasy female movie star, and I've told my SO that :-)

    • *and then she approved. there that might at least be a bit better

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