If your friend of the opposite sex offerered sex. Would you do it?

If your friend of the opposite sex offerered sex. Would you do it?

I'm asking cause I hear a lot of people talking about "you can't be friends with the opposite sex. If a man is your friend he wants to secretly sleep with you etc".

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No.. that's my friend
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I'm not straight..
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  • I would at least give her a try. I'm just guessing but, it seems to me that I'd actually have to be IN love with someone before I can fuck her.
    I had a bit of a crush on my guitarist's girlfriend after I first met her back in late `81 but wasn't in love her. About 2 years later, he had a fight with her and left her. She invited me over to talk, we went for a long walk and, somehow, she broke her foot! She was afraid of the crutches and, as we were best friends, she asked me to stay with her until the cast came off to help her around her apt. So, I did. By the end of the third week, we'd become so lax with each other, we were walking around naked and actually started fucking! We WERE in love!! Eventually, she went back to him and I hardly saw her again for the next 20 years. A few years later, he died and she got a new boyfriend. A few years later, she dumped him and, a year later (3 years ago), she decided she wanted me to be her boyfriend. I gave it a shot but, this time, I WASN'T IN love with her! As much as we TRIED to fuck, as much as I WANTED to fuck her (I hadn't had any since 1995!), I just couldn't!! Nearest I can figure is that it's because I just wasn't IN love with her, anymore!

    • I never heard a man say he needs to love someone to have sex with them before. Thats really sweet:). I hope you find the one for you soon!

    • Well, it's the only thing I can figure that kept me from fucking her. Thank you! I hope I do, too! Summer seems to be my lucky period but, I haven't had any luck in the love dept. in at least 21 years! Also, I had two different guitarists in my band over the decades that'd fuck anything in a skirt that had a pulse and would stand still long enough! Basically, they were just using these girls for sex!! I got used, once and I didn't like it so, I'm NOT about to do that to someone else!! Besides, I'd MUCH rather have a steady, stable, long-lasting relationship than just a quick fuck here and there! I refer to at least one of those two guys as, "Have dick: will travel!". One was living with some woman and had 7 or 8 kids with her but never married her. One night, I caught him trying to put the moves on MY brand new girlfriend hours after we started going together!! The other had a steady girlfriend for a while but still kept fucking other girls behind her back!! She caught him and he promised not to cheat on her anymore. He still cheated on her! She gave him 3 chances!! 2 more than I would've given him! He blew it each time so, she dumped him!! Eventually, he found a girl that he decided to marry and, within a few days/weeks started cheating on her and couldn't wait to dump her!! He did! Got a new girlfriend and cheated on her numerous times!! Guys like this severely screw up MY chances because girls think ALL guys are like them!! So, if I meet a girl and eventually let her know that I WON'T cheat on her, she thinks it's the same lie she's heard from every other guy that she gave it up to!! But, with me, it's NOT!! I WON'T cheat on her!! I'm VERY loyal!! Funny, how they'll freely give it up to those lying assholes that hurt them but they won't "give it up" to me, one of numerous guys that WON''T fuck them over!!

    • Wow what a story!! Hope the next one you meet is better. That friend wasent your real friend if he hit on your girlfriend..

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  • This has happened to me before. She offered and I accepted. We only did it twice but it kinda killed our friendship. Every time after that we looked at each other funny and it just seemed weird being around her.

    • If you could go back do you wish you didn't do it or that you would be in a relationship with her?

    • I actually wouldn’t change a thing as I lost my virginity to her and she taught me a great deal. We could never have been in a relationship because we were two totally different people who were complete opposite’s. I did get to talk with her about it after several years and we both were happy we did it and we left on good terms.

    • I see. Nice that it ended well at least:)

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  • NO. Then he's no longer a "friend." That definitely breaks the boundaries of friendship. I have several guy friends and I can't even picture kissing them, much less having sex with them (I think I just cringed at little as I typed that, thinking about it, haha).

    A friend is exactly that: someone you're platonic with and not attracted to. I can't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to, which means they are either an acquaintance or friend.

    The only exception would be if I was interested in him and wanted to be more than friends, which I would have expressed prior to our friendship- basically we're getting to know each other and seeing where it leads. Or my feelings for him had changed over time- which yes, might be possible, though it's rare.

    • Yeah I feel the same. I wouldn't sleep with one of my friends but I guess not everyone are the same

    • Yeah, based off the other comments, I'm seeing we're the very rare exception 🙄 Apparently some people can't be just friends with the opposite sex: interesting.

    • Yup... really weird.

  • If I was single then yeah probably cause I don't catch feelings easily. In the past I use to only mess around with friends cause I didn't want to date.

    • Okay intressting. Would you like to fall in love someone and have feemings for them or you prefer it like this?:)

    • I'm already married and in love but it took a lot of time for me to actually develop feelings for him even while dating

    • CATCH feelings? You make it sound like a disease!

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  • Oddly, I have more than one female friend, so it depends on which of those female friends was offering sex. A rough estimate of my acceptance/rejection rate is I would probably have sex with about 10% of my female friends if they were interested.

    That percentage would go up to around 20%-25% if it was an "outside of current circumstances" type situation, taking into account factors like some of my female friends are married, or that I work or go to school with some of them, etc. I wouldn't have sex with those people usually since I'm not trying to break up their marriage or have things be awkward at work/school, &c. But mutatis mutandis, just based on attraction, why not?

    If your friend of the opposite sex offerered sex. Would you do it?
  • It's pretty common knowledge among men, that we don't really form friendships with women that we are not attracted to them on some level physically. So for a man to make the jump, its not really that far of a leap. That's why most men are very skeptical about women with lots of guy friends... not because we don't trust our girlfriends in most cases its because we don't trust other men.

    Guy friends have a way of making themselves 3rd wheels, once they start to realize that their girl "friend" is with another man and they are losing their chance. This also why most just guy and girl "friendships" don't last long once the girl makes it clear that they are just "friends" and sex will never happen.

  • if he's white, yes. if black, no. sorry this kitty is TIGHT and staying that way. also- if you can't count on your friend to fuck your brains out when you need it then what good are they? it's real simple. we can fuck and be friends or just friends. they always choose friends with benefits.

    but when you cum you always want to finish with "thanks buddy", get off, and walk away. go clean up in the bathroom or whatever. no cuddling. then it just gets weird. guy are always "a bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush". once they start getting some regular sex from you they say might as well get married. don't marry a guy just cause you like having sex with him girls.

    my motto is never turn down sex. there's gona come a time when you can't get it. unless you're married. like me- so those days are long behind me.

    • @jennypuss have u ever had sex with a black guy? love your comment when your finished its thanks buddy get off clean up no cuddling lol. whats diff between fuck and be friends and friends with benefits?

    • @jennypuss you ever had threesome or four some or gangbanged by friends?

  • In the Bible there are 10 commandments within the commandments is adultery.
    Know you may be asking what is adultery?
    Adultery is doing sexual, lustful actions that isn't with the one your married to.(even porn)

    (Proverbs 6:32) it says that adultery is foolish
    It's says "but the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself"
    Please turn away for your wicked ways, don't sin this sin. God all mighty loves you all turn now and I bless those who truly want to try to get a relationship with God before it's to late! Please don't let those demons inside you get the best of you.

    • Say this prayer for God to come into your life and save you form the wicked please I beg you all God loves you don't chose the world over him. The salvation prayer Dear Lord Jesus, Thank you for dying on the cross for my sin. Please forgive me. Come into my life. I receive You as my Lord and Savior. Now, help me to live for you the rest of this life. In the name of Jesus, I pray. Amen. If you pray this prayer I declare that you are saved in Jesus name amen! Have a blessed day/night future brothers and sisters God have mercy on you all love all of you guys😇✨

    • @bennies_819 wow your super religiouse

  • Well to be honest... there are a few "scenarios" about that situation... If he/she is married, and they like each other then i'm sure one day he/she would like to try each other... and can happen in a blink of an eye, even if it considered Cheating.
    As it states a Man cannot be a friend with a Female, if she's cute and "too friendly" some "spark" might could come to them in the near future... A man that "all" he is waiting for... the "crack in the armour/wall/relationship" and he will be there to "comfort" her... Show me how many men turned down a woman when she was "down" and she wanted all the "misery" to go away with a good fuk?
    For female to have a fuk with a guy is less probable in "his situation" as Her EGO is way Higher and inspires Pitty/Regret/Fear... so they stay away from these kind of "situation/moments" like..."he his feeling down, but i'm not gonna comfort this looser, i'm not getting down to his level"...

  • No, that's my friend. It'd ruin the friendship. Only way I'd do it, is if we upgraded from friends to dating.

  • If I were still single such as a few years back I’d go for it. There’s no possibility now because I’m taken. However I have no problems having sex with friends, that could lead to a stronger relationship if you are friends first

    • Alright. Intressting. What if your partner would let you sleep with one of your female friends?

    • Yeah I’d consider that…maybe a threesome would be even better

    • Alright cool

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  • Funny thing is, my best friend since elementary school was the guy I lost my virginity to at 17. Granted it was my idea

    • Thats beautiful!:) cool!

    • I had a boyfriend at the time and I was gonna go all the way, buuuut turned out he was also seeing another girl from a different school at the same time, so I left him. Literally said fuck it, I want to try it and get it over with, see what it's like and blah blah. Went to the best friend, took some convincing, then a few weeks later, boom. Should also add, in case anyone gets ahead of me and thinks he's my partner, he's quite literally gay hence needing to convince him

    • I have no empathy for cheaters personaly. They are all on minus value in my eyes. But glad it worked out. And I guess you both did the same makes it different. Well to each and their own. Great that you are happy now:)

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  • It depends, If this is step one to maybe being more than friends, and I'm interested, sure. If it's just sex once then no.

    • Alright. Cool:)

  • Yes. I currently have sex with my friend. My friend with benefits.

    • @mandyfire98 you rock :D

    • Thank you

  • It seems women can be friends, but men cannot lol anyway, I would probably decline especially if we known each other for very long time.

    • Same I would decline too.

  • If I was single yeah. I am a man after all. My partner isn't in to sharing me but past girlfriends, well two of them wouldn't mind and have done.

    • You think most men think like that?

    • I think most, if not all men think with their penis but I'd not cheat on my partner in this scenario. Merely saying I have had relationships where a friend/sister has asked and my girlfriend has said yes.

    • Alright thats cool.

  • No. Would be a relationship then

  • Just because you sleep with them don't mean they are not just still a friend. If man was friends with a man the only reason they wouldn't sleep together is because they are both straight, not because it would make them more than friends.

    Some people are just friends you aren't sexually attracted to some are. Some friends you get crushes on but never get with them as you find someone else who becomes a bigger crush.
    It don't mean they aren't just friends. Because they always be just friends. Unless if a relationship starts.

    • Also most women are attractive so are we expecting to only be friends with ugly girls so we don't find them so lmao.

    • I see. Would you sleep with any of your female friends?

    • Yup because they are all attractive in one way or another. Though I have a crush more on one than the others.

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  • I don't do hook ups, but if I was good friends with a woman, I was single, and was attracted to her, if she wanted it to turn into a relationship I would do that if I thought we would be compatible for long term, but not just sex/a hook up.

  • I would politely decline.

    • Okay cool. How come?

    • I'm taken. That would be cheating. If I weren't, I might do it.

    • I would give her floor shaking oral and probably addict her.

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  • No. I'm in a relationship. As much as I may be tempted, I wouldn't

    • Alright. What if she would let you do it. Would you agree to it then?

  • I would say yes to a good number of them if they offered..

  • I would be tempted but not sure if I would accept.

    • How come you wouldn't accept?

    • @missgingles Would depend on the situation.

  • Yeah

    • Ok intressting

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