If your partner decided to become an online adult model, how would you react?

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Now I don't mean an actual pornstar but posting stuff online-  Would you think its hot and most likely join in the fun or is it a total deal breaker?

nevernevernever · Accepted Answer

You mean like my boyfriend having an onlyfans? I would honestly be cool with it if all it was was them posting pictures, it's their body, if they want to post nude pics for money that's their business. I wouldn't feel like they were cheating or feel insecure, and yah I might join in, might be kinda fun, i'd want a cut of the money tho lol. i'd keep my face out of any pics tho and probably advise them to try and keep it as anonymous as possible just because of the stigma surrounding it. if it got into them sexting with people as part of the gig, i think i would not be able to consider it a monogamous relationship anymore and I would have to have that as a deal breaker, but if it's pics with no interaction i wouldn't care.

Darcia · Accepted Answer

It would be a dealbreaker for me as he or she is putting themselves online for others to view. I wouldn’t want anyone like that in my life. It’s not so much jealousy but almost like they are going to giving their self up to everyone else for comments, compliments, he or she might love the attention and find it exciting. Next thing you know they are following their fans and *ding* *ding* their phones going off and it can lead to unwanted hookups.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

That is a 100% deal breaker.
That ends the relationship. That is 100% private and intimate and just for me.
It would end that relationship immediately and it would also end any relationship in which it came out to me that that was something she had ever done.
If she was ever ok doing that then I'd never be with her so if it suddenly came out that my girl had done that 5 years ago then I was with her under false pretenses. I'd never be with anyone who sold their nude body to perverts and masturbated for strange men and carried on online talks with men paying her to be naked.

100% non-negotiable deal breaker.

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

I don't know honestly... It might be something to think about, it all depends on what she was doing exactly and what her interaction with the online community involved... Overall, it's a little bit of a fine line... It could be tricky... I think overall, her popularity and her popularities effect on soical media, reaching our friends and family 😬 it could get arkward 😅

btbc92 · Answer

BYE BYE BYE.

angelicina · Answer

Depends. If I love him so much and he really wants it, there’s nothing to say. I would respect it. But if I don’t feel anything deep, I’d break up because I would be uncomfortable in that situation but would never stop him so that’d be the best option.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I unknowingly dated that before and once i found out, i was resty to go

william_wizard · Answer

Hey if that's what they want to do more power to them. Not my place to tell them they can't do it. Lol And if they asked me to join in, why not? Could be fun. Lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would go to Lowe's or Home Depot and get some moving boxes for her to start packing up her shit.

Tyrael · Answer

Did it before with my ex on a website where people would pay to watch us on cam and request stuff. This was way back when it was less popular and not so mainstream as it seems to be now.

Hangry22 · Answer

I would break up

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Lol well it would be a total switch for my man. But id support him in any dream he had.

ohshee · Answer

F I'm with someone that wants to do that it's there choice , but I know once I started watching I would have to join and some how add something to it to make it even hotter

FlyGirl95 · Answer

Have fun. And post. You only live once.

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

I would leave, personally. Not because I think people don't have the right to participate in sex work, it just doesn't work with my own personal sexual morality, comfort level and public, working identity. I can't be a professional dating a porn star.

pinkiepotty · Answer

I wouldn't show myself but id help for sure If it was for money I'd think about showing

Tamera952 · Answer

I would think it was great. I'd encourage it and celebrate it.

electromagnetic · Answer

Ultimately it’s their choice but I’d want to know why. I am not supporting them enough with their sexual wellbeing.

Kurαȷ · Answer

I would instantaneously dump my partner if they unironically suggested that they are thinking about it.
Frankly, I would probably dump them if they as much as joked about it.

Sex workers are the bottom of the barrel, as far as I'm concerned.
I'd date most criminals or druggies before I'd date a sex worker.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Deal breaker.

wankiam · Answer

i have been in that position and it was rally hot as far as im concerned

20yearsolder · Answer

It's hot. I would benefit from her getting turned on.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Considering our age, I honestly couldn't tell you how long it would take me to stop laughing. I'd probably have to just walk away and imagine even 6 hours later, random chuckles would fly out occasionally.

Don-__-Don · Answer

That's a deal breaker for me.

Bricealan · Answer

Her choice. I would go along with her choice.

Dargil · Answer

I would not. It would follow her indefinitely and affect her future.

alice55 · Answer

Depend how much I love him but most likely break up cause it sound like cheating to me

Shiver · Answer

I'd join in, but she's really not the type to be on camera much. Lol

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I've dated a few porn girls but would never do it as a serious LTR. All the stereotypes and outcomes tend to be true

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It all depends If I had a girl I wouldn't mind her doing online modeling but it depends if it's involving porn?

Not_Average · Answer

Deal breaker for me

Questionsweask · Answer

I would start off by yelling "I got camera man , or director " . She be the best at it. Id be her biggest fan and most watched customer. Id be like dont tell me how this one ends , no spoilers. Probably start stalking her..

Phoenix98 · Answer

That's a big no for me and I would most likely leave the relationship.

pigoat · Answer

I would not join because i have a below average penis No point on including me If she makes good money sure I support all adult industry workers I love the adult industry

Floppy2112 · Answer

Total deal breaker. No guy in there right mind would ever seriously date or 'fall in love' with a chick on PornHub. He'll have sex with her, but he ain't stayin' around.

beebella · Answer

That would be hard for me to support as a girlfriend.

Andres77 · Answer

My first wife did a little porn just before we got married. When I was traveling I found her in a forum digest, full of stories with a few pics thrown in. In the section about cheating stories there was my wife getting railed by two guys and they finished with a creampie and a facial. I was paging through the magazine in the store and almost collapsed... I just couldn't process what I was seeing.
I eventually snapped out of it and went through every magazine that was open and eventually found another magazine with two different guys in it. I bought both magazines and went to my hotel and studied the pictures. Her mole was still on her chest in all the pictures but she'd had it removed just after we got married so I realized she'd done this porn before we were married. Then I jacked off as often as I could for weeks looking at pictures of my wife getting stuffed by four different big cocks and drenched with cum afterwards.

genericname85 · Answer

they wouldn't be my partner anymore.

Kenneth14621 · Answer

Would kind of be a deal breaker unless it were me and her together.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I would just say lets be friends 😂

soe11 · Answer

It's a commercial entertainment, I personally see nothing wrong rather than looting, cheating, robbing, or drugs business. Anyway everyone sees different ways.

JesterRose · Answer

At my age i could care less. She knows who really has her back and will be there for her. I have no reason to be bothered by it.

JKingOff · Answer

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Skankhunt · Answer

I wouldn't like it, especially if we have a kid together. He or she can be bullied at school (elementary, middle, high school, university etc). They can tell that their mom is a whore or something else. Every dicision you make has consequences for you and others.

oncpl · Answer

I won't appreciate.

cnhinton · Answer

Laugh.

bannacookies · Answer

I would think they have low self esteem. If they feel that's the way they need to get it, I'd be disappointed.

blondfrog · Answer

I'd break up with her.

Gedaria · Answer

The girls have to come from some where  I like the home made lesbian stuff, they look and react more natural..

Trooper205 · Answer

Well, I'd be surprised, and a bit disappointed. (Since Her body is mine) But of course, I'd try my best to honor and support Her decision. (I'd also most likely ask if I could join Her)

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not happy. She won't do it.

COMMODOREII · Answer

She would be getting online with me? Cool

Farmer_Phil · Answer

I guess it depends on the type of thing that they are posting. Once you get into the posting it's out there and anyone can see. So they would need to think about what if family saw them. What if their partners family saw them. That would be a tough one to explain over Christmas Dinner... I saw your girlfriend on pornhub!

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Total deal breaker. Its fine if she's just a casual relationship ie never going to marry or have kids with and see other girls on the side. I can't be proud of a girl everyone else gets to see naked too.