Guys, Im scared he will think my private part is hideous:(?
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So me and this guy have been close for 4 years but in an actual relationship for 2 months. I have ALWAYS hated the way my "down there" looks, and have been terrified to ever want to take my clothes off in the future. I dont ever want anybody to see and it makes me cry to look at it. So i sent him a pic of the 30 different types of pussy. I wanted to know which ones he preferred without actually asking him which he preferred (im shy) So i said pick 3 that you THINK mine would look like. He said either 2, 10, or 21.. Basically he answered in a way that shows which he would prefer or like.. And it broke my heart because im ugly number 4, which is no where near what he picked. So i just told him it will be a mystery.. And this other guy i talked to before , i asked him the same thing and he said i have to be number 2 because im a virgin.. Why do guys have this dumb knowledge that if your a virgin, your pussy looks like a babies.. i dont get it.. So basically they conclude if your junk is hanging out a little, you have been used up.. And i am a virgin but im number 4 and it makes me sad knowing i am considered used up and ugly :( Also my labia minora is a dark color rather than light pink :'( i just feel disgusting and never ever want to let no one get close to it.. sorry guys had to vent how i felt since i can't tell him or he'll run off
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Guys i told him about me being #4 and he said he knows it can be genetic influence and said he doesn't care , he said hed love it even if i was # 28 or #18
So it looks like he wants you to look like a child.
Number 4 is sexy. There is nothing wrong with how that looks.
I mean if you were 16, 18, or 28 maybe you would have something to worry about but 4 is one of the good ones.
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NightOwl88Xper 6
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Never be ashamed of your body. You are as God made you, pretty inside and out vagina and all. If your guy can't get over that then it's his loss.
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CharliepXper 4
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I like #4 a lot... and besides that if he is that shallow then you need to run from him as fast as you can.. That is something you have no control over !! everybody looks different in every part and no one should judge that, its not about that its about the connection you have between each other... of he is that shallow then call me I will come running
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Anonymous
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take this as a good thing, he's completely naive and doesn't know anything about girls. teach him about it and correct him that what he thinks are just stupid myths. and just so you know, to a guy we care about how your labia looks about as much as you care about how our scrotum. as long as it's healthy, we're dtf
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Anonymous
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He will love whatever # your pussy resembles especially if you and he have a connection beyond sex. Just keep it clean and trimmed. I have been with many women over the years and every one of them has a different looking pussy but I loved almost all of them with the exception of one gel I met at a bar who had just separated from a husband and had 3-4 kids. Her pussy was SO LOOSE I couldn't feel a thing. if yours looks like #4 (one of the more attractive looking pussies) and your a virgin then I'm sure he'll love it. good luck.
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Anonymous
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I loled at this sorry xD Now serious, he only choose the ones that doesn't have hair... most guys like the smooth shave. We dont mind the "junk" hanging out alittle, sometimes its hot. And by the way, most of that pictures are awful and not very reallistic. Wtf is that 26? 80 old woman vagina? lol
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Anonymous
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I really don't think it matters to many guys at all (very very few would care). For what it's worth type 4 looks pretty standard to me, most girls inner labia seem to protrude slightly like that, yours is completely normal.
The other guy you spoke to is just an idiot, as if having sex could grow the labia longer.
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Anonymous
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send him a pic, just do not add a face that he could maybe share with everybody. even better still, SHOW HIM and us ;-)
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Anonymous
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When I had my first time with my girlfriend (my first time ever) I wanted her also to have something like 2. She did not have (mayne 4 or 5). She was not virgin and I was disappointed because I thought she was "worn off". But then we spoke about it and she told me she had sich vagina even when she was virgin, so I realised it is true and she cannot influence how her vagina looks. Since that time, I started to like her vagina and also all vaginas, whatever they are, each one has many beautiful spots and I love to play :)
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Anonymous
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Number 4, number 27, and number 7 are my favorites i dont want to get too detailed on why but every guy is different if i had a girlfriend with the numbers i chose above id be very happy, .. and most likely he's going to look at your ass more even if its small its instinct
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(25)So it looks like he wants you to look like a child.
Number 4 is sexy. There is nothing wrong with how that looks.
I mean if you were 16, 18, or 28 maybe you would have something to worry about but 4 is one of the good ones.
Never be ashamed of your body.
You are as God made you, pretty inside and out vagina and all.
If your guy can't get over that then it's his loss.
I like #4 a lot... and besides that if he is that shallow then you need to run from him as fast as you can.. That is something you have no control over !! everybody looks different in every part and no one should judge that, its not about that its about the connection you have between each other... of he is that shallow then call me I will come running
take this as a good thing, he's completely naive and doesn't know anything about girls. teach him about it and correct him that what he thinks are just stupid myths.
and just so you know, to a guy we care about how your labia looks about as much as you care about how our scrotum. as long as it's healthy, we're dtf
He will love whatever # your pussy resembles especially if you and he have a connection beyond sex. Just keep it clean and trimmed. I have been with many women over the years and every one of them has a different looking pussy but I loved almost all of them with the exception of one gel I met at a bar who had just separated from a husband and had 3-4 kids. Her pussy was SO LOOSE I couldn't feel a thing. if yours looks like #4 (one of the more attractive looking pussies) and your a virgin then I'm sure he'll love it. good luck.
I loled at this sorry xD
Now serious, he only choose the ones that doesn't have hair... most guys like the smooth shave. We dont mind the "junk" hanging out alittle, sometimes its hot.
And by the way, most of that pictures are awful and not very reallistic.
Wtf is that 26? 80 old woman vagina? lol
I really don't think it matters to many guys at all (very very few would care). For what it's worth type 4 looks pretty standard to me, most girls inner labia seem to protrude slightly like that, yours is completely normal.
The other guy you spoke to is just an idiot, as if having sex could grow the labia longer.
send him a pic, just do not add a face that he could maybe share with everybody. even better still, SHOW HIM and us ;-)
When I had my first time with my girlfriend (my first time ever) I wanted her also to have something like 2. She did not have (mayne 4 or 5). She was not virgin and I was disappointed because I thought she was "worn off". But then we spoke about it and she told me she had sich vagina even when she was virgin, so I realised it is true and she cannot influence how her vagina looks. Since that time, I started to like her vagina and also all vaginas, whatever they are, each one has many beautiful spots and I love to play :)
Number 4, number 27, and number 7 are my favorites i dont want to get too detailed on why but every guy is different if i had a girlfriend with the numbers i chose above id be very happy, .. and most likely he's going to look at your ass more even if its small its instinct