In a relationship if all your needs are being met except your sexual needs would this be a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

[jss123]

Good question. It depends why we're not having sex.. In my case she was having an affair.. The relationship looked OK until I found out. In her mind she was in a relationship with someone else so having sex with me would be cheating... We were married. It was batshit crazy logic..!

[broken_heart_at_48]

If they aren't willing to try and meet them and as long as they're reasonable needs. Then yes it's a deal breaker, but if they're honestly trying or you're not being reasonable then no. You're just being an asshole

[nella965]

If sex is not important to the one being unfulfilled then it won't matter. But if it does, its only a matter of time before they break up. Cheating usually occurs when someone in a long term relationship is unsatisfied sexually. This can be either the man or woman.

[Asker]

True if you're in it just for the sex there might be problems. Ironically you can have great sex and still be unhappy in a relationship. On the good side a lady on here said she would just masturbate if her sexual needs weren't met.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I don't have sexual needs, so no! 😂

[Asker]

Do you agree with this article?

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[aWes0MeNeSs]

Yes!

[Crystal28]

No it wouldn’t be a deal breaker.

[Asker]

Would like to hear why?

[AustinMan]

Absolutely. I'm a really horny guy and I'd sacrifice perfection in other areas to get thermonuclear sex.

[Arthur8Arthur8]

Animal

[AustinMan]

@Arthur8Arthur8 Guilty as charged.

[Account]

Yes.

[MissKittyz]

If my sexual needs aren't being met, that literally means that not ALL my needs are being met so the relationship will have problems. That would be something that I'll have to solve with my partner and if we can't fix it, then the relationship won't last.

[OlderAndWiser]

No sex at all, or she just doesn't indulge your fantasies/fetishes?

[AmyVoteMyLife]

Yup.

[BlackRoseFairy]

Depends. If there is communication and both are willing to try it is possible to work on it. Otherwise it would be, yeah...

[WarningWarning]

Yes its a deal breaker. Especially if she knows this and isn't doing anything about it. Now i dont know what you aren't getting, but as long as you are reasonable with what you expect and need, move on. Life is too short

[Shahax]

My last one I had plenty of sex, lack of trust amongst a few others ended it

[markscott]

I don't need sex in relationship. I do need sex in marriage.

[coachTanthony]

--------------Well if your sexual needs aren't being met then ALL your needs aren't being met, right? So yes that is a deal breaker.

That is what we call an elaborate friendship.

[DorkVader]

Lmao! Elaborate friendship

[RichiChan]

I'm gonna have to lean towards a yes here, having a good sex life in a relationship has always struck me as pretty important.

[wynn-ing]

I don't give a shit about sex. So no, it's not.

[Asker]

Any reason why?

[wynn-ing]

I'm aromantic and asexual : D

[Asker]

Ok thanks for sharing.

[falamercy]

Nope it shouldn’t

[neidabakedd]

Definitely not! I would rather have everything else than a sex life

[Asker]

What about sexual frustration if there's no sex?

[neidabakedd]

I’m already frustrated with dick involved 😂

[Asker]

I'm sorry

[james2018dean]

Probably. Sex is a strong drive. It's got to happen with somebody, sooner or later.

[neidabakedd]

Read the question James!

[james2018dean]

There are women who have a kink where they only want to watch. But it's more common to want sex WITH your chosen partner. Sex is too important an issue to not be a part of a romantic relationship.

[neidabakedd]

I can just suck his dick and eat his ass

[james2018dean]

If that's what you both agree to, it's fine. Everything is negotiable.

[Agape93]

No, it’s fine I’ll just get that elsewhere

[Arthur8Arthur8]

So you will betray him? It's a low behaviour.

[Chiro_19]

Yes it would be

[Ronald_25]

Yes, sex is one of the most important things, otherwise you're just close friends that live together. Especially earlier on, having sex and traveling is key, you should be cumming and going 👌🏽👍🏽😊

[Statistics]

No it will not be as making love is pleasuring the other person not yourself.

[Asker]

Are you saying it's not a deal breaker?

[Countrywildmangirl]

No because u can still work at it