In YOUR Opinion: What Is The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse?
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Serious question... Yes if you just rolled your eyes just keep on scrolling... I want to know your honest thoughts... I see others misunderstanding the things I post about and ask... I hope this brings clarity... BDSM is not abuse... I would do a mytake but those seem pointless on this site... I'm obviously not an expert which is why I am asking for feedback...BDSM is CONSENSUAL just like any sex acts you perform...The Outfits Are Obviously HotRelinquishing Control To Your PartnerMy Birthday Is In DecemberBut Now I Am Kind Of Wishing It Was In NovemberAngelina Jolie does it... Not just in the movies either...She's just biting his stick... Don't lose your minds😏Just a nerd 🤓🖖✨
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Updated: Now that we have established that BDSM is NOT abuse... I would like to see a raise of hands 🙋🙆 on who thinks they might be interested trying this with a partner they trust... 🎀 It's okay if you still hate it... It's just a question...
I think the two columns of examples illustrate two ends of a spectrum,,,
If I accept an action that causes me pain, and I know that my pain amuses my Domme, then it's pleasurable for me, especially if I beg them to stop, this should just encourage them to carry on lol,,,
Imho abuse is unwanted assault, and is in fact legally an assault, but can be fun for both Domme and sub if a safeword is established and respected, because the sub can then be pushing themselves as far as they can, this should please the Domme that their sub/slave is desperate to please them,,,
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AcidT0yYoda
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My understanding is that BDSM is done only with consent. You have safewords and after care and the situation should end as soon as someone expresses that they are uncomfortable with it.
And abuse is usually the opposite.
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GreenGold1992Master
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the difference is consent
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alance99Guru
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I totally agree with the comparison pic between the two in your question, if either is not comfortable with BDSM then they shouldn't do it
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ask4anyXper 7
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If it's nonconsentual, it's abuse.
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bklynbadboy1Guru
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Abuse is unwanted BDSM is a choice
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not329446Xper 5
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Abuse is unwanted undesired. BDSM well liked highly profitable.
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888theGreatMaster
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When you see blood or teeth.
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andy530Guru
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Consent
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Asker
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Thank you 😊
andy530
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You’re welcome 😇
Asker
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YAY 🙋
Rob17792Yoda
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consent
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sri90Xper 5
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I have no idea
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sri90
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Have you ever tried any of it?
Asker
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***BLUSHES*** Why? 😳🙊
sri90
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Just curious to know the experience Blushing means u did try huh 😜
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Asker
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I'm not telling you... ***Hmph***... ***Flies away and hides on profile*** ✨✨✨✨✨🧚♀️
sri90
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Haha good one 🤣
MehzmehExplorer
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Pain for pleasure. And pain from anger.
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PeterCharie1991Xper 6
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Bdsm is mutual agreement and abuse is doing it against ones will
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oualid22Xper 4
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None it causes the same effects on the mental in bdsm people chooses to ignore because they think it is pleasurable and abuse the truth hits them
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oualid22
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My opinion on the matter not the absolute truth !!!
AkshiJanjuaYoda
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i would say people enjoy BDSM but they don't enjoy abuse
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mrgspoterYoda
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It's my problem with it sometime they want to go to far.. I can't
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Jakeofalltrades93Xper 7
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one is consensual the other is not
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SomeOtherXper 5
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Consent?
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SparklyMop7Xper 5
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I'd definitely try BDSM with a partner. Sounds kinky
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Asker
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It is most definitely kinky 😂🤣😈
SparklyMop7
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I'd like to think that I'm a very kinky individual, although I have not been in any sexual encounters.
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17 61BDSM with your permission abuse is not..
I think the two columns of examples illustrate two ends of a spectrum,,,
If I accept an action that causes me pain, and I know that my pain amuses my Domme, then it's pleasurable for me, especially if I beg them to stop, this should just encourage them to carry on lol,,,
Imho abuse is unwanted assault, and is in fact legally an assault, but can be fun for both Domme and sub if a safeword is established and respected, because the sub can then be pushing themselves as far as they can, this should please the Domme that their sub/slave is desperate to please them,,,
My understanding is that BDSM is done only with consent. You have safewords and after care and the situation should end as soon as someone expresses that they are uncomfortable with it.
And abuse is usually the opposite.
the difference is consent
I totally agree with the comparison pic between the two in your question, if either is not comfortable with BDSM then they shouldn't do it
If it's nonconsentual, it's abuse.
Abuse is unwanted BDSM is a choice
Abuse is unwanted undesired.
BDSM well liked highly profitable.
When you see blood or teeth.
Consent
Thank you 😊
You’re welcome 😇
YAY 🙋
consent
I have no idea
Have you ever tried any of it?
***BLUSHES*** Why? 😳🙊
Just curious to know the experience Blushing means u did try huh 😜
I'm not telling you... ***Hmph***... ***Flies away and hides on profile*** ✨✨✨✨✨🧚♀️
Haha good one 🤣
Pain for pleasure. And pain from anger.
Bdsm is mutual agreement and abuse is doing it against ones will
None it causes the same effects on the mental in bdsm people chooses to ignore because they think it is pleasurable and abuse the truth hits them
My opinion on the matter not the absolute truth !!!
i would say people enjoy BDSM but they don't enjoy abuse
It's my problem with it sometime they want to go to far.. I can't
one is consensual the other is not
Consent?
I'd definitely try BDSM with a partner. Sounds kinky
It is most definitely kinky 😂🤣😈
I'd like to think that I'm a very kinky individual, although I have not been in any sexual encounters.