In YOUR Opinion: What Is The Difference Between BDSM And Abuse?
Anonymous
Serious question... Yes if you just rolled your eyes just keep on scrolling... I want to know your honest thoughts... I see others misunderstanding the things I post about and ask... I hope this brings clarity... BDSM is not abuse... I would do a mytake but those seem pointless on this site... I'm obviously not an expert which is why I am asking for feedback...BDSM is CONSENSUAL just like any sex acts you perform...The Outfits Are Obviously HotRelinquishing Control To Your PartnerMy Birthday Is In DecemberBut Now I Am Kind Of Wishing It Was In NovemberAngelina Jolie does it... Not just in the movies either...She's just biting his stick... Don't lose your minds😏Just a nerd 🤓🖖✨
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Updated: Now that we have established that BDSM is NOT abuse... I would like to see a raise of hands 🙋🙆 on who thinks they might be interested trying this with a partner they trust... 🎀 It's okay if you still hate it... It's just a question...
To your update it's not only a thing of trust. It's a point of knowledge. By bondage you can kill your partner if you don't what you do.
Asker
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Thanks for your feedback 😊
gandolph3Yoda
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BDSM is an agreement between consenting adults, we hope. abuse is mistreatment.
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berserk945Yoda
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Bdsm is concentual with boundaries
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berserk945
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100% would try
Asker
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Fantastic 🤭🎀✨
PulseofsulfurXper 7
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Abuse is uncalled for lashings and BDSM is consensual lashings. Best way that I can describe it
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bassinguy76Xper 6
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I think what your partner says or wants
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Smf1989Guru
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Bdsm is consensual
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Smf1989
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🙋♂️
Asker
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You're awesome 🤭🎀✨
Smf1989
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Thanks same for u
Benjr134Xper 6
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One is consensual and the other is not.
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purplesungirl
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Yup agreed
Benjr134
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🙋🏻♂️
Asker
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Yessssss 👏👏👏👏
behappy90Xper 5
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Consent..!
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Grs96Xper 5
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i think its the pleasure, and everyone agreeing with that
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MrFGianXper 2
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Bdsm is agreed
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mddorishusanXper 2
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cool photos
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Asker
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Thanks for the feedback 🎀
Anonymous
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In relationship it's different than if you pay for it. After some evolution and discovering time of sexual needs and limits of your partner you know exactly where the red line is. That's why a long therm partner is always better than some casual sex partners from dating apps or bars.
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Anonymous
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Bdsm is hot and abuse is basically abuse
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Opinion Owner
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I would do it with my partner
Asker
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Beautiful 🎀
Anonymous
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People that are into BDSM get sexual pleasure from it. Not from abuse. One is wanted, the other isn't.
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Anonymous
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Consent. I often wonder if Doms/Sadists are abusers in waiting; and Subs/Masachists are abused people that have developed Stockholm Syndrome. Neither make sense to me.
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Pighttussy
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Hi. I'm a dominant. And as per my research, it's not about wanting to abuse/be abused. It is about control. And that's influenced mostly by how you were raised in your chidhood. For example someone who was given no responsibility and had no accountability in their childhood would want to be in control in bed. For me, I was the second child and lived carefree, not worrying about anything. Similarly someone who was burdened with tons of responsibility from a young age would crave for someone to take that control away and let them not worry about the consequences. For example, the oldest sibling. I hope that makes sense now.
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17 61She literally asked for it this time... consent
Abuse is a crime BDSM is a sexual pleasure.
To your update it's not only a thing of trust. It's a point of knowledge. By bondage you can kill your partner if you don't what you do.
Thanks for your feedback 😊
BDSM is an agreement between consenting adults, we hope. abuse is mistreatment.
Bdsm is concentual with boundaries
100% would try
Fantastic 🤭🎀✨
Abuse is uncalled for lashings and BDSM is consensual lashings. Best way that I can describe it
I think what your partner says or wants
Bdsm is consensual
🙋♂️
You're awesome 🤭🎀✨
Thanks same for u
One is consensual and the other is not.
Yup agreed
🙋🏻♂️
Yessssss 👏👏👏👏
Consent..!
i think its the pleasure, and everyone agreeing with that
Bdsm is agreed
cool photos
Thanks for the feedback 🎀
In relationship it's different than if you pay for it.
After some evolution and discovering time of sexual needs and limits of your partner you know exactly where the red line is. That's why a long therm partner is always better than some casual sex partners from dating apps or bars.
Bdsm is hot and abuse is basically abuse
I would do it with my partner
Beautiful 🎀
People that are into BDSM get sexual pleasure from it. Not from abuse. One is wanted, the other isn't.
Consent. I often wonder if Doms/Sadists are abusers in waiting; and Subs/Masachists are abused people that have developed Stockholm Syndrome. Neither make sense to me.
Hi. I'm a dominant. And as per my research, it's not about wanting to abuse/be abused. It is about control. And that's influenced mostly by how you were raised in your chidhood. For example someone who was given no responsibility and had no accountability in their childhood would want to be in control in bed. For me, I was the second child and lived carefree, not worrying about anything. Similarly someone who was burdened with tons of responsibility from a young age would crave for someone to take that control away and let them not worry about the consequences. For example, the oldest sibling. I hope that makes sense now.