Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hi all.
My boyfriend is a virgin and since we've been dating for awhile I want to take it to the next stage. We talked about this couple of times and I think he is ready. I need advice on how to initiate it? I am not a virgin and this is the first time I'm with someone who is, so I'm also kind of inexperienced. My ex boyfriends were always the ones who initiated first, and when I lost my virginity he was the one who was leading. So I assume I have to take the lead now, right? I'm gonna sleep over at his place tonight for the first time and I'm wondering how should I start? lol. He never saw a pussy in person, never touched it either. He also never had his dick touched or seen by a girl before. He acts as if he's all good and ready, but I'm pretty sure he's nervous, am I right?
Is it better to start it with me going down on him first, or let him examine my whole body by letting him touch me everywhere? Or just go to penetration right away? He gets hard pretty easily, just a kiss is enough. I care so much about him and I want to give him a full pleasure, I want to make him happy and to feel good.
Initiating sex with a virgin man?
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6 23Let him explore your body, give him oral and a hand job then once he is familiar with your body then ride his dick.
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You could just spoon and rub your butt up against him a little or when he's sitting down just straddle him and maybe move up and down in a sexual way like dry humping almost and feel for him to get hard then once you know he's hard that's a green light. I guess to be less forward you could just mention in a sexual way that you feel it and start to feel around it in a sexual way. Last time I had sex we went on our first date, we were spooning watching a movie and I was trying to hide my boner but she wasn't having it, she just put her hand back there and straight up grabbed it I asked "woh, what's your hand doing down there" and she said "what ever you want it to do" and it was game on. lol I'm easy though, he might be different, dunno.
Do you currently make out?
Yes. :)
So in the process of making out, take his hand and put it on your breast, reach down and rub the Bulge in his pants it'll progress from there