Instead of marrying during their peak years of 19 to 23 when beautiful, pure, and fertile, why do young women wait until their high 20s to low 30s?

Instead of marrying during their peak years of 19 to 23 when beautiful, pure, and fertile, why do young women wait until their high 20s to low 30s?
Almost all men prefer beautiful young women ages 18 to 24 with purity and high fertility over 30 year old women with high body counts that have lost their bloom, are hitting the wall, and have lost 80% of their eggs and fertility.
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  • Because of a new generation of womanhood. They want to enjoy their youthful years before settling down for marriage. Back in my mother's generation woman were destined to marry at the younger age because didn't have the age of social media and many of the beauty accommodations available today at the 21st century. Hope this is the answer that you're looking for 😊

    • Thanks for the MHO 😊

  • Feminism feed them with the lies that female age don't matter and that men want career women. Young women tend to have better looks, higher fertility and less baggage.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy#Mating_preferences

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  • Ignoring all the purity nonsense, do you know how expensive it is in this world right now? Add the expense of kids on top of that and there is your motivation to wait to have kids.

    It isn't about being "pure" for men... it's about financial stability.

    • Women with high body counts resent that men prefer purity. Older women that can't compete with women in there early twenties, resent men that choose younger pretty women.

  • Because they want to be free to enjoy life in their young years and not be bothered by screaming children.

    • High value men don't marry hoes. Those extremely high body count hoes are f**ks they are not wife material. Later since they can't get a high value man they have to settle for simps.

  • Because their male peers do not want to settle down either, so the women cannot get married.

  • That's assuming that grown men are only interested in virgin teens and having children. Men who lust after college age girls haven't grown up. And some of them are perves.

    Instead of being submissive young mothers, some women want to get an education, learn a career and survival skills, be capable of being independent, gain knowledge and life experience, and enjoy life before being saddled with the life-long responsibility of raising children.

    Studies indicate the the ideal age for women to start having children is 29 or 30. At that age, they are physically fit and mentally mature enough to be good mothers, and are still young enough for their teen age kids to relate to.

    Some people don't want children at all.

    Women don't hit a wall in their 30s. There are plenty of 30 year olds who could pass for 25 or younger. Two of my sexiest, most beautiful girlfriends were in their 30s. Some of the hottest female celebrities are in their 40s and even 50s, although one would never know it.
    Even then, signs of physical aging provide character. Only shallow guys are turned off by that. They value looks over personality, behavior, mentality, sophistication, intelligence, and loyalty.

    Women are at their sexual peak from around the age of 27 through 45, and there is no indication that their libidos wane even after that.

    Everyone is their own, unique individual. I don't know why people can't do what suits them without being judged by others. And fuck people who slut shame sexually active women.

  • In my opinion, in the last few hundred years, things have gotten out of step with the way nature intended for them to be.

    Debates could rage over that subject, but that's my gut feeling.

    • Nature intended people to have pretty wretched lives. Short life expectancy, lots o disease, and hunger, women dying frequently in child birth. I'm quite happy that we no longer need to do what nature intends.

    • @richardcory Not to argue with you, but look what modern life has reaped us. I'd go back in a heartbeat if I could.

    • Its fine to argue - or at lest discuss. To me the world is amazing better now than in say the Neolithic age, about 10,000 years ago. We've had modern humans for ~100,000 years so I'm taking that as about the last time we lived as nature intended (or at we were evolved). Really though late paleolithic is probably a better match to our evolution. We have things today those ancestors could never have dreamed of. Right now we are communicating from what might be thousands of miles away. I have a dozen different types of food waiting for me just in the next room. Large predators are something I pay money to go see - but they are rare because we have almost wiped them out by accident. If I'm cold, I press a button on the wall an my house gets warm. That house is dry in any storm. Fresh drinkable water is there when I want it. My garage has a vehicle that can outrun any animal. I can fly though the air, crossing the globe in a day. I have clothes that will keep me warm in the arctic. We have the power of Neolithic gods. That power comes with some negatives but for me there is no comparison.

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  • ego boosts from thirsty dudes give them an illusion of endless options until reality hits them hard and then they have to compete against younger more attractive women even if they themselves are attractive but it has less to do with looks and more to do with being feminine, fertile, less jaded, less emotional baggage, friendlier etc.

    Mother Nature is undefeated.

    Father Time is undefeated.

    The Wall is undefeated.

  • many are waiting post college so they can establish careers and thus financial independence should things not work out. girls want more power.

    as well, some are trying to get married and can't find a suitable mate. it's sad, they become frustrated dealign with immature boys and suffer many bouts of relationships. guys can suffer as well.

    you tell me where young people are being suitably trained to have lifetime partners? that's the problem! the pool of trained people is small. people don't learn in school what is importnat, they learn what is needed to gain some employement and control them.

  • Because a very small percentage of men are competent enough to support a family by themselves, so women are expected to contribute and thus feel pressured to get a degree.

  • Sexual market value? Really?
    I think waiting is often a good idea, people in their late teens and early 20s often haven't settled yet on what sort of life they want. Why make life-long commitment that they may later regret.

    Also many young people have not had enough relationships yet to know what does and doesn't matter to them. Or have so little life experience that they think fancy clothes and a nice car mean someone is wealthy

  • Most men are not deserving of our younger years...

    I got married and had kids young but it was not the smartest move. If I could redo it I'd wait to get married and have kids when I was 30+

    • I understand what you say getting pregnant to early can take your joy and freedoms of being young and wild away from you. But it is significantly harder for a woman that past her 30's to find a guy they wanne commit with because most guys do prefer a girl in her mind twenty's if they had the choice

    • @glennos89 it didn't take the joys from anything. Just caused health issues for me from having kids to early. Much safer health wise for women to wait till 30s to have kids

    • @glennos89 I would have been fine with no man at all and have kids on my own or be with a woman

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  • . Because early marriages often fall.

  • Anything from not wanting to settle to wanting to work om their career

  • This is a personal choice when someone gets married. It’s a HUGE decision…. You don’t wanna marry the wrong guy.


    If someone married young to someone they truly love. All power to them.



    But… Personally I would rather get married later to the right person. Then rush into marriage with someone who I won’t be happy with in the long run.


    Divorce is super high because so many marry for the wrong reasons.

  • Many women don't have access to a guy they would marry who is also willing to commit. And many other women are pursuing education and careers.

    I do agree that women have maximum leverage in their early 20s, but when options seem limitless, do you commit? Usually, you don't.

    • But I don't think women hit a wall until 40 unless they have really abused their bodies.

  • They want to get an education, and enjoy their youth, AND shop around?

  • *scientifically its more 16-25/26 for prime prime (100%) 26/27-35 (98 at 27 to 84% at 35) for second prime, then it goes down but not all at once. girls hit the wall (go back to pre puberty attractiveness) as people say in their mid 40s actually. your fertility isn't impacted until your 35, then the quality of your eggs and everything goes down very quickly. the idea that at 30 you lost all your eggs and you'll give birth to mutant babies or that suddently at 25th bday your as hot as a 10 yo isn't accurate. read real science stuff if your curious about this type of stuff like university websites or researchgate, not breitbart or stuff like that that is just as fake as far leftie bs

  • Because at 21 you are young, immature and know nothing so that people tell you you do that
    After 30 you become a boss bitch who know all the shit and how to beat that.
    People can't handle a boss bitch🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Because we allow it. Men need to stop being simps.

  • It's too young for that kind of commitment. They wanna live it up and have fun. But also, a lot of women that age are in college, so they've prioritized focusing on their studies

  • Procreation ain’t the only reason people marry. I think older people maintain their marriage longer. Many in their young twenties/late teens are immature.

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