Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is a big ass a curse or a blessing?
Anonymous
I'll admit it off the bat: I have a big ass. I'm white, not skinny yet not fat, a litlle curvy and my ass big. It's hard to hide. I was insecure about it in high school, now that I'm older, it seems to attract a lot of guys' attention. It might seem like a good thing but problem is, it's like because of my ass I'm only seen as a sexual object. I constantly attract guys that just want to fuck, the guys that are nicer seem to shift their attention toward my butt as well, just less aggressively, and the actual good guys are scared to approach me because they immediately get intimidated by the alpha types who just want to fuck me and don't want another guy around me. I've had 1 short relationship, which wasn't much better than a fuck buddy relationship where kissed me and grabbed my ass in public every now and then. The rest was just fucking, sometimes regularly, sometimes ONS. I really think that being less "rounded" things would be different. What do you guys think or what have you experienced yourselves?
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 23Of course its a blessing!
its a blessing for sure... men love big ass
Without pictures, no one can really help you...
I would consider it a curse because I think they are unattractive.
But if you are into black guys or wannabe gangsta white boys... Then it would be a blessing.
That's not true
@CheyenneBae What's "not true"?
It's not only black people and gangsters who like big butts, that's extremely racist -_-
@CheyenneBae No where did I state that it was an absolute statement. But generally speaking, it's actually true (not racist). The hip hop culture is one of the biggest fat ass lovers. This isn't a secret to anyone.
It's not only the hip hop culture but okay.
Not a big fan of big ass
It's a good thing. I'm black skinny with a flat butt and I'm not attractive at all. I would be happy if I have a big butt.