Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is a blow job on the third date considered slutty? Why?
Anonymous
So I've been on 2 dates with a guy and texted a bit in between. The first date was about 2 hours the second date about 2 as well. We are both mid 20s and single and seemed to hit it off. 3rd date he invited me to his beach house overnight so we could explore the island and talk and get to know each other without distractions. I'm sponteneous and said yes. We had kissed at this point but had our first kiss that night. We shared a few bottles of wine over the course of the night and talked for hours. We ended up making out and I have him a blow job. He's still been in contact but we have no plans for a 4th date yet as he's out of town. But he said he wants to get together soon. I actually have interest in him and I'm wondering how guys feel about bowl jobs that soon. It just felt right I just hope he doesn't write me off as not girlfriend material. Double standard.
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 25All a slut is is:
A) a woman who gets lucky more than I do (if I'm a girl)
B) a woman who gets lucky with lots of men who aren't me (if I'm a guy)
C) a woman who gets lucky without my permission (if I'm a fundamentalist).
If he does write you off as girlfriend material, the loss will be his, not yours. You have nothing to be ashamed of.
That sounds like an awesome date! I'd definitely ask to see you again! lol! How many clothes came off?
by the way, definitely not slutty--I think it's pretty normal for cumming to happen on the 3rd date.
My ex-fiance gave me a blow job within an hour of meeting and slept with me a few hours later, it is not slutty. We were together for over 3 years.
You are a grown woman, who is capable of making her own decisions, and screw anyone who thinks you did something bad or wrong.
You said it felt right, so it was. :)
How guys feel about bowl jobs that soon? Good slut. If they all were that easy, it would be Paradise.
Don't care about the label.