Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is a sexually assertive woman a turn on or turn off?
Anonymous
If a “hot” woman is straight forward, not into drama and doesn’t want a serious relationship but would like a regular sex pal and gets hit on by a guy who claims to be looking for the same arrangement. Would he have a problem with her being sexually assertive or dominant when with him? Would he be anxious and thrown off about the nature of her forwardness or by her initiating the sex and saying how wet she is or how bad she wants him? If she kissed him first and told him to touch her would he freak out and avoid this type of woman? Or would this type of female dominance where he doesn’t have to do much work or call the shots be a huge turn on to him? I guess I am asking anyone if this would be a turn on to them? I tried it with him a bit and he seemed so nervous. He listened to me like a child but it was like he was frightened. This is my personality. If I want someone then I take what I want. Obviously with their consent. I don’t want to freak this guy out. He talks big but when we have had sex he seems so intense and stressed in bed. Advice? Would anyone think it is a turn on or off to deal with a woman like me? Should I just keep showing him what I want? Or should I just move on?
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What Girls & Guys Said
1 32Definitely hot
Ooh gotta love feisty assertive bitches.
A turn on for the majority of men, but there can always be overkill.
If she's trying to rape you at your grandma's funeral, not sexy...
Turn on
Can someone tell me if they think his reaction may have been Normal?
It’s a Turn on for some men including myself
for me turn on!
Can someone tell me if they think his reaction may have been Normal?
he is typical asshole! its her body her choice and her freedom.
Depends
Huge turn on!
It’s only a turn off when her strapon is over 9 inches
This reminds me of something I deeply regret from 2008, but unfortunately women like this will always be extremely rare.
Definitely a turn on If it not to much.