Is a woman more likely to be openly sexual with someone who isn't boyfriend material (see details)?

Answer these points and state WHY (you can refer to the points by their label if it helps e. g. A2) A) Ok, it seems like women act more sexual/less innocent around guys who aren't boyfriend material? So both of the two hypothetical guys are attractive physically and both confident. 1. Boyfriend material guy = sweet to her, nice to her, respectful whilst still being attractively outgoing and confident, flirts whilst still being a gentleman, listens and responds to what she is saying whether by text or in person, texts her etc. Pls note boyfriend material guy may meet her when she has a boyfriend, is he still boyfriend material when she becomes single? 2. The other guy = not that sweet, more crazy, poser/player (e. g. will openly on fb post photos with her and other girls with him in the middle saying "with fitties"), acts more forward/in your face, more touchy, no sweet texts, only to meet, openly calls lots of women hot even in front of her He may act sexual/suggestive to her even whilst she has a boyfriend. B) Explain why most women (including nice ones) act more sexual (even more slutty/touchy) around guy 2 (the other guy) than a boyfriend material guy? She may pose more suggestively in pictures, she may text them back more and as well as being outgoing to said guy and not acting innocent, she may even sleep with him QUICKLY. Whereas the boyfriend material guy sees her being innocent to him, she may not be as touchy and is more shy waiting for him to make all the moves. C) Explain the case if she met both guys when she had a boyfriend and then she becomes single. D) Would she be kinkier/more sexual with either guy? E. g. in terms of how dirty she'd be in the bedroom? Would she be fully sexual and enjoy dirty talk with boyfriend material guy or love it when the other guy calls her a slut and tells her to beg for it?
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How are you qualifying a good guy friend like in point C as someone who is boyfriend material, someone who is boyfriend material and you could hook up with (and still be friends) and someone you would just fuck? Is a good guy ruled out for sex? Let's not forget that just cos a guy is boyfriend material doesn't mean you have to relationship him. He might not want one either. Maybe you two can bang and still be friends (most likely given he's a good guy and isn't going to hit and quit you)? Why reward bad guys?
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  • Yeah, we were all attracted to does kind of boys, in like junior high, we all change. Looking back know I pity those kind of boys. Trying to be buff, with only one hair on their chest, and I don't even want to go to the part of talking dirty in bed, I am young and still a virgin, like ewww.

  • You are asking us why women's nature (and likings) are what they are?

    Of course the kinkier the men, the kinkier she'll be too.

    • Yes. Pls answer in terms of points A, B, C and D.

    • C at least

  • No. The exact opposite is true

    • Ok interesting. Expand/clarify. Please can you answer my points in terms of A, B, C and D like mooky did.

    • Part C pls

  • well to be honest you're describing me :
    when i'm with a guy who i really like i kind of play hard to get cause i want him to respect me and not treat me like a slut (that's stupid i know ).
    i heard some guys talk about some women who are really open. they describe them as sluts that they just want to hook up with , you know the type you don't want to introduce her to momy. (just take the example of "side hoes ")
    but when i'm with a fun guy kinda of cocky i'm completly myself cause they're not judgy , i belive that someday i'm gonna meet a guy with who i can be myself , show my needs and still be respected and loved .
    and i guess it's also about my young age (i'm 17 ) i'm still not really comfortable with my sexuality

    • The only guys who talk like that are douchebags. Answer the points in terms of A, B, C and D.

    • A/i will choose the boyfriend but it's hard to find someone like that but the other guy sounds fun B/ like i said this type of guys are less judgy and more fun to be with C/don't know D/ she's be really kinky cause she doesn't have to watch herself or scared to be judged plus maybe the player have more Experience

    • A/ does the other guy sound more fun than the boyfriend material guy? So he poses with you and other women, labels it "like a boss" and u like that? Whereas the boyfriend material guy texts you and is a decent friend? B/ how is the boyfriend material guy judgy? C/ try though. So you met both when you were taken, now you're single, who would you flirt with? D/Why can u not be kinky with a boyfriend material guy? He also enjoys sex?

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  • I'm more likely to be open with the person i feel comfortable and secure with regardless.

    • Ok good point, but I would appreciate if you could help me by answering my question as I noted in the title, (SEE DETAILS), via addressing points A, B, especially C and D if u can.

    • I can't speak for other girls and perhaps you are seeing things that aren't there.

    • Ok, I get that, but to help me out, can you answer in reference to the four lettered points as above? Only mooky of the girls seemed to get this question!

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  • "Hidden Cam Reveals How Women Judge Men! Women's Double Standard EXPOSED! (+Infield) "

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM
    • Yes I noted that video as well which I think someone else posted here. It brings up a very interesting point. The guy in the white suit seems like a douchebag, exactly like the guy 2 I mentioned with the fb posts of poses with her. Yet the gentleman who is more of a bond, gets her acting innocent? Of course, the woman in this video seems a little crazy anyhow and isn't above a 5/10. I'm talking about 9/10 nice girls. Please answer my question though, especially point C.

    • How are they qualifying who is: 1. boyfriend material guy who only wants a relationship and hot sex in said relationship 2. boyfriend material guy who is a good guy, not looking for relationship now, is totally up for hot sex 3. asshole who isn't anymore attractive than 1 or 2, and has no qualities personality wise, clearly only interested in women's appearance and probably up for hot sex

    • Interesting video, yeah but see my points

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  • No. People always fail to remember it takes a certain type of woman to go for a guy like you mention... and those women rarely go for good quality men and they endure much drama and horrible break ups. I don't know why guys look at women as one whole rather than different types. If you can see men have different types, I dint understand why you can't see women have different types. Different types of women go for different types of men. Good women go for good men.

    • Whilst yes certain women always do this, so it seems do a lot of good girls, which I don't get? A lot of nice women seem to act so innocent around genuinely good guys who are boyfriend material. Pls respond to each of the lettered points, it makes this much easier.

    • How are you qualifying who is: 1. boyfriend material guy who only wants a relationship and hot sex in said relationship 2. boyfriend material guy who is a good guy, not looking for relationship now, is totally up for hot sex 3. asshole who isn't anymore attractive than 1 or 2, and has no qualities personality wise, clearly only interested in women's appearance and probably up for hot sex

    • Well?

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