Is anal sex normal and expected?

Attitudes towards sex continue to get more liberal. Once giving a blowjob was special or taboo but now everyone does it pretty much every time they have sex without thinking. It's normal and expected. Is anal the same now? Is it just part of sex and nothing usual, unexpected, or taboo? It feels like it is now.

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  • I don't like anal sex at all and have only ever attempted it once because the girl I was with at the time liked it. I basically put it in and did a few slow thrusts before I was like yeah I can't do this, cleaned myself off then went right back to some good old fashioned vaginal😁 My ex at the time was okay with me not doing anal because she knew she would always get a ton of oral anyways👅 The inside of an ass just seems the opposite of anything sexy or sexual to me. I mean if I was with someone that wanted it super badly and absolutely loved it I would do it for them but only after a thorough enema I'm talking like a high colonic so that any and absolutely all waste material is gone and no bad odor either. Other than that the closest I get to anal is watching porn of it and when I get some drinks in me I've been known to do a little bit of rimming just to spice things up during oral lol I don't know what it is but all my life I've felt like the ass is a sewer, it's where 💩 comes out and why would I want to have sex with an ass when there's a perfectly good vagina literally right there. I mean for me it's a no brainer, sex with a dirty, smelly, bacteria filled ass or sex with a delicious, warm, wet vagina 🤤 So for me, no anal is not normal and should not be expected, but that's just my opinion.

  • I’ve had Anal sex with most of the girls I dated, pretty normal to me

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  • I think you're right about the evolution of attitudes toward some sexual acts. Anal sex is certainly mainstream now, and much more accepted than it used to be.

    Another thing that has changed with respect to anal sex is the idea that women do not receive pleasure from it, and those who do it are only doing it to please their man. That is so not true.

    I mean I know it's not for everyone and some women don't like it, usually because they've had a bad experience with it or they just think it's gross, but there are a lot of us ladies who do genuinely enjoy anal sex and get a lot of pleasure out of it. The feeling of being filled back there is very nice but it's the orgasms I have during anal that make it amazing for me.

    Is it expected? Not for some. But most of my friends do it and expect it. There are a few who hate the idea and that's ok, but for most I think it's just a normal part of sex now.

    • Which would you say is better: anal or vaginal orgasms?

    • @Guardian45 For me personally, anal orgasms are better. They are stronger and there is an add layer of sensation that is hard to explain. That's not to say anal sex is better than vaginal sex. I enjoy vaginal a bit more most of the time. It's more chill and I can go forever. Not so much with anal. I start to get sore after a while and I can't take it as rough that way. But the orgasms in particular are stronger during anal. So when we do it it's usually the last thing and he finishes there.

    • That is what I suspected based on my own experience. Women who prefer it, love it.

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  • Very normal

    • @kelly6 do u have anal sex often? does it do anything for you?

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  • It is still special, although now main stream. Very much a normal way of having sex. A lot less likely to get pregnant, as well.

    • That is a massive benefit as well!

    • That’s a good benefit

    • @jessica405 have u ever tried it? do u enjoy it?

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  • my opinion is that it's not sex because it's a butt. and it's dirty. unsanitary. i have no interest in it. i've never been asked to do anal. i guess it's because it's so satisfying with me in all the other ways men don't have to go for a tighter squeeze.

    • @jennypuss how are you so good at sex in other ways what do you do?

  • Just because somethings mainstream doesn't make it expected.

    • @purplepoppy do u like it? have u done it?

    • Of course I have

    • @purplepoppy do u like anal sex?

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  • Not in my life it isn't normal nor will it ever happen!

  • I would say it is certainly not abnormal. Not sure I would say it's expected though.

    We have tried it. It was nice but we prefer oral and vaginal over anal.

    • @Katie1964 have u ever had a mfm threesome?

    • @rebeliouse No and I am not interested in that. Thanks anyway

  • It's something special I do for my boyfriend.

  • I wouldn’t say it was normal or expected. I’ve know both genders who don’t like it for various reasons. Not uncommon though either.

  • It is hard to say with young people nowadays. Sadly, they have grown up with porn everywhere. Guys grow up thinking that porn is normal sex, when it is most definitely not. For me, I was turned off by the tought of anal when I was in my teens and lower 20's. But after getting married, and doing every sex act I ever wanted numerous times, I started wanting it. Eventually I talked my then wife into it. She ended up liking it. So I never had to ask again. She usually asked me.

  • I don't know about expected but anal sex is definitely more normalized now than it ever was. It's far more common now.

    • @mandyfire98 have u ever tried it? do u enjoy it?

    • I do it every now and again but it's not my favorite lol

    • @mandyfire98 not your favorite but do u enjoy it in the moment? or do u just put up with it just to please him?

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  • Normal but not expected I would say

    • @sophiejo I agree by the way Love your butt. be hard not to at least eat it :) I love butt sex 💕

  • Not my thing honestly. My husband and I agree that's and exist and definitely ot entrance.

    • Exit

    • How often does the exit happen?

    • @bluescorpio so u never tried it?

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  • No, it gay, slutty and it hurting for many women, even many porn actresses don't do anal.

    • Which porn actresses are those?

    • Many, read their interviews or make anal search for them, you wouldn't find any.

    • And MANY MORE DO IT!

  • It's still not normal but gradually it will just like blowjob.

    • Pardone?

    • @disha10 have you tried it and do u enjoy it?

    • No i didn't try it yet

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  • I find it disgusting as hell.

    • @melanieeeb how so?

  • Normal but not expected

    • @yohoerose have u tried it do you like it?

    • I do.

    • @yohoerose what do u like about anal sex so much?

  • I think it’s becoming the norm and will be in a couple years. Hopefully not though because I do not want to feel obligated to do it even though the idea is sort of exciting. . But I don’t think I would be trying it anytime soon.


    I heard it feels quite bad for the woman but I also heard it feels amazing for her as well. I don’t know but for now, not into it

    • @hiopinionated_ I don’t really see what the hype is all about with it. Honestly I’m just fine with normal penetration. 🤷🏼‍♂️😂

    • @hiopinionated_ so u have never tried it? are you not curios and will try it?

    • @rebeliouse nope never tried it. I am curious though

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  • I expect it but am often disappointed...

    • Why?

    • Most girls aren't into it.

    • Ahhh!

  • wait are you suggesting that their are women withholding booty sex from guys... the travesty

  • I wish it was normal, but it definitely isn’t.

  • Yes, it's normal. Lots of people enjoy it. Lots of people would rather not. If it's expected, that should be discussed very early in a relationship.

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