Is anyone else not into prominent bulges in a guy’s pants?

Lately I’ve noticed more appreciation for men in grey sweatpants and other pants where a bulge or outline is clearly visible. Does anyone else think that it’s too much to go out in public like that? I know sometimes they can’t help it but it can be excessive. I think it’s too forward to be a turn on for me.
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  • Sometimes men aren't aware anything is showing. I don't intentionally wear anything that shows a bulge. We can't be expected to hide it completely though. Not easy.. Even in formal pants. I wear briefs to hide it as much as possible. I don't have a big "package" and its still sometimes visible.

    Its like asking a woman with big boobs to cover them up in such a way as to minimise their visibility.
    In those cases its polite not to stare. Same with men showing something. If the man has got a big penis you can imagine it would be really difficulty to hide..

  • Based on what? Your own bias and judgement?
    So men should dress to suit your preferences? Then maybe you should dress to suit his?
    What kind of Controlling and Entitlement, and totally offensive question is this?
    I am totally offended that you even think that this makes sense!!
    Really? Grow up, and realize the world doesn't revolve around your preferences, and you will be so much better off, later!

    • I don’t expect random men to dress according to my preferences, I’m just saying I find that look unappealing. No need to get so upset.

    • @thegirlfromthething No worries, and not 'upset' as you seem to think. Posting here leaves you open to other people's ideas, and you replied well, and I respect that! Perhaps the wording of the question would be better, had you simply posted it as your opinion, rather than the passive way. Just a thought. Happy thoughts, and smiles, to you, OK?

Most Helpful Girls

  • The only men I see in those pants tend to be the bottom of society. Men too drunk or wasted to cope with regular pants.

    • whats wrong with sweatpants lol. they are comfortable and multi-use. Can wear them at gym, home and even outdoor if they are in reasonable conditions

    • Nothing when worn as intended but they have become the uniform of scum. Whenever you see an alcoholic stumbling around he's in sweatpant, a junky passed out in street- sweat pants, someone from a council estste on a shoplifting trip-sweatpants.

    • Are you from the uk? Maybe thats why, everyone here in australia wheres shorts and thongs and possibly just barefoot haha. We call them bogans, i haven't seen any in sweatpants though i think that might be for the elites hehe

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  • If you see it, that takes half the fun out of it already.

    • Well damn, what takes the rest of the fun out? The test drive? lol

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  • I totally agree. I wouldn't ever wear sweatpants in public...

    It's nice to hear this from a girl. It suggests you might have a little class.

    BUT... the wording of your question is misleading

  • nah i like it. it’s all over tiktok and other girls seem to live it to

  • Hell, I think my husband look sexy in leggings and skinny jeans. But keep in mind he also has the body for them to.

  • I wear tight fitting stretch shorts under my clothes to help conceal my bulge. So no, I wouldn't be wearing anything revealing.

  • Don't take my grey sweatpants away!

  • For me its a bit nasty

    • The bulge, or wearing grey sweatpants?

    • Bulge, i know u can tuck it away so ur choosing to show it so i find it nasty

    • Understood, just wanted to be clear on what you were referring to. . And just so there is no confusion, I am not doing anything, (like purposefully showing a bulge) that was my first post in this thread. :) A side reason for my asking, is because a few months ago a friend of mine, (who is a girl, but not a gf) commented on how she liked a certain pair of jeans I wore, and that I should wear them more often, because, as she said, "it sorta showed you had some junk". (and for the record, I do NOT feel that I am overly blessed in this area) I didn't do it on purpose, and no one else had ever said anything or looked at me awkwardly, but it gave me the thought that some girls do look, and some even like. But if that is not your thing, I respect that. (and I agree if the guy is doing it purposefully)

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  • I like to see it. Especially if you can make out the shape.

  • Me. It does nothing for me.

  • I wear sweatpants at the gym and sometimes at the shop. I dont care if you can see a bulge. I wear them because im not putting effort to suit other peoples needs. It fits me, its comfortable and i cbf changing

  • It is sorta tricky to not have a bulge in sweatpants to be honest. Especially with a brighter colour on said sweatpants the outlines become more visible.

    But honestly, they are way too comfortable to not wear them.

  • Sorry i get a bulge because i get horny in public

    Too many pretty ladies out there

  • I wear sweat pants because they look cooler to me. I dont like wearing plain Jean's and pants, unless I'm going to some professional place

  • Sometimes you just have a big package.

    What can you do?

  • well girls do it all the time. pushing ther tits and asses in our faces, with huge cleavage or yoga pants that basically hide absolutely nothing... and they don't even do it on accident.

  • It's just a "Pretty/sexy girl" indicator. it's going to be there whether you like it or not. Guy's upper brain has no control over that.

  • If you ask me, it's kind of gross... Let's hide that sausage.

  • So you get turned by guys bulges?

  • So that’s a turn on for u?

    • Uh… did you even read what she said?

    • @Duckysback ahh yeah sorry I did misread that.

    • I don’t do it on purpose.

  • I find it a bit intimidating

  • I only wear dark pants cuz it makes me uncomfortable when my bulge is too noticeable, particularly with grey pants you can see even the shape of the head, too much, no?

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