Is bad sex a deal breaker for you?

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He blew it!

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If it’s consistently bad, then yes that can lead to troubles in the relationship if they aren’t doing anything to fix it , because it becomes one sided, where only one of you is getting off and the other isn’t , the partner that is getting off , needs to stop thinking of themselves, and do what they have to do to please their partner period , if they want that relationship to survive , the partner that isn’t be pleased should also be supportive of their partner as well, only if their partner is showing effort to get better at pleasing you , if they aren’t showing any effort what so ever , then it’s probably best to walk away because Their person is only thinking of themselves , Sadly most people are selfish , and when things don’t go their way , they go to someone else to please them, instead of supporting the partner they already have in front of them , making them a selfish person , and sadly these days that happens a lot , because people are selfish and only think of

Themselves , So if your partner isn’t lasting long enough for you in bed , he is more than likely suffering from ED , ED is very common in guys today from all the shit we eat nowadays , shit , I went through it , and it was a nightmare , so before you go spread your legs for someone else, have your partner go to the doctors , Most Girls’s don’t realize what a guy goes through , nd most guys are unaware what they go through , but the good news it is curable , Most people just assume the worst case scenario , when really it isn’t , and remember if you aren’t supportive of your partner that is Al having a hard time pleasing you , you are making it worse by not being supportive

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

No, especially if she is willing to learn.

Quackthulu2 · Accepted Answer

It depends. It’s kind of fun training a new pet, but if they just don’t get it, and punishment isn’t working it’s time to put them down.

Pinkspark · Accepted Answer

How bad? 😂😂😂

petitedollbabee · Answer

If he can learn to be better, then no, but if even after many attempts to show him how to do it better, and he’s not changing anything and he’s still really bad, then yes it’s a deal breaker.

Girlygirl97l7 · Answer

If it chronic probably. A rocky start / learning each other period can be normal bit if we are not compatible I'll miss having good sex to much. Plus I don't want to fantasize about other guys if I have a boyfriend. That's not right

normalice · Answer

A girls interest in becoming good at sex is as valuable as her already being good at it. It is a deal breaker if she isn't good at it and doesn't want to be.

Bricealan · Answer

No, and even NO SEX is not a deal breaker for me. Being an total ass, is a deal breaker for me

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

In all fairness, you wouldn't be able to classify his performance as a failure if you weren't a pro ;) now dont I def enjoy fun time with those experienced type

LovingJo · Answer

Yes, from past experience. It breaks relationships!!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, I don't think it's bad deal for having poor sex in the bedroom.

megabamse · Answer

Mmm i might give it max 2 more goes just to make sure. But after that there is no excuse. And it will be a deal breaker. Might talk to her first

cth96190 · Answer

Bad sex would not be a plus, but after 22 years as a MGTOW monk I can barely remember what sex is.

Makeushiver · Answer

You deserve to have all of your lights lit

Grond21 · Answer

In terms of choosing a partner it is irrelevant for me, because I am waiting for marriage. However, you can tell if someone is good or bad at sex before you ever actually try. I am not going to be blindsided.