Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health First i would like to mention i had multiple chances to have sex but i did not take em. I wanted my first time to be with a person i at least had some kind of feelings for. that being said...
Im 19 and pretty unlucky in love i'd say. I have dated multiple woman over the years but most just didn't worked out. I have to admit i am pretty picky when it comes to women...
Now atm I am dating this girl, which i really fancy. We just connected so well since i met her, i haven't had this feeling in a while. We share a lot of interest and i make her laugh a lot, she also makes me smile a lot. Last week was our first date after a few weeks of texting/calling, we have our 2nd date planned next week.
I know she likes me, or has at least some romantic interest in me, because we made out on the first date and cuddled all night (We watched a movie at her place). She texted me afterwards and said she really enjoyed it. Besides that she was the one who suggested a second date before i even left her house.
Now on the first date we did have a short convo about past relationships, not that deeply. She asked me if i have ever been in a longterm relationship before, and I haven't really been in a long term relationship, so when i answered her question i think she kinda knew the fact that i'm a virgin? maybe not?
Now i read online that some people dont want to date virgins, mostly older people though. which leads me back to my question... is it weird that im a male 19 yr old virgin? and how and when should i tell her? or is it better not to tell her till after the deed?
Thanks in advance,
Is being a virgin weird or a 'red flag' when you're dating someone? How and when do you tell people?
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22 35I don't see why it would be a red flag at your age at least
Too many words. Sex isn't going to change you. Dont glorify pussy women dont even value it and its theirs. Women just see how many guys value it. Then dangle it to get through life. Go fuck something Cinderella or your dick might become a pumpkin
Don't tell her just yet. I'd wait date 5/6. ... Maybe?
At 19 no...
No I lost mine at 16
how did you lose it?
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Fuck yes its a red flag I would say run the other fucking way
Girls don’t really care about that actually
Women seem to view it as a red flag more than Men do, especially when being a certain age.
maybe a red flag when your older , 19 isn't really that old to be a male virgin , maybe old for a female virgin as they tend to date when younger
It’s weird when u say u have chances but don’t take. Like what’s stopping you really, makes you sound gay then.
It's a stupid argument regarding virginity. He said he didn't take those chances because he wanted the first to be with someone whom he has feelings for. He has values and morals which override his instincts.
@kencu67 i could not have said it any better!
I hate that in some cultures losing virginity is glorified. Losing virginity can be a beautiful and also a horrible thing.
@kencu67 agreed. Don't like when losing virginity is a race. Sharing the first experience of participating in life with someone u trust and have consent is great,
It’s not a big deal in the end and he’s just wasting time enjoying life but okay 😊
* I mean he could be enjoying sex and life a lot more*
some people don't like/don't want to have sex
Not at all just be honest and not worry so much
Sure they've had a life of bad circumstances then they need people like you to blame it all on them and try to make it worse then try to act like you are helping in some kind of sick twisted way.
I have read ur comment multiple times now but im not really sure how your answer is a reaction to mine or what point you are trying to make? Could u explain it :s?
They don't need you and your ignorance and one sided views.. Who can't or don't want to understand other people's..
It's just going off of based on the title in the?