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  • For girls mostly, no? I would say must most of the time but only because of girls. But every now and then you get a girl and you don't do anything and you pull down her panties and they're covered in cream. Didn't even touch her that much.

    That's very confusing to me versus just the foreplay and touching way since it's like, "What did I do?"

    • Was it like the way I put on one of my better t-shirts today? Maybe the way I styled my hair? It's so confused to me. How did I make this girl so wet without foreplay? Maybe I said something really awesome and romantic in between my ramblings that made her hot?

    • I really wanna figure this out. Cuz I think my sex life would be so much better. With my wife, I can do some things that will guarantee that she will be so ready and eager for sex down there; the floodgates will release. For example, if I make her candlelight dinner and dress all sharp like in a tux and style my hair and cook her dinner (usually French or Italian since she digs that, although I think she has noticed now that I can only make like 3 dishes in this category), the floodgates open and it's almost kind of gross removing her panties after like someone blew their nose on it. But every now and then she gets like that even when I don't think I did anything special, and that's so confusing to me. But I wanna figure it out because I don't have energy to do the above way more than 3-5 times a year.

  • It certainly makes it easier and more enjoyable for us both if I’m wet before hubby puts it in

  • Not a must but definitely effective. Unless you suck at it

  • No but I would be very dry if he didn't do it

    • @paige90 really are you never turned on before sex?

    • @rebeliouse It takes some type of foreplay

    • word play enough?

  • Before good sex I would say yeah

  • No, it's not. Do what you feel.

  • Some... yes.

    You have to give her time to get wet. Most girls don't often arrive pre-lubricated (not unless a lot has been going on leading up to the act to already have her revved up).

  • I think it is a must, but sometimes it gets left out for some reason.

  • Yes.

  • Yeap always.

  • For me, it is. Junior needs to be warmed up.

  • To be honest with you, it really just depends on if the mood has been set. Sometimes my husband teases me all the way until we get home and I’ll be in the mood right there and then.

    Other times it’s really nice to build up that cute sexual tension too, I’ll admit. 🥰

    • what about quickie?

    • @swettannie I could do that too. ^^

    • hehe it's nice sometimes

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  • 100% I try to make my partner cum at least once before sex.

  • Well, it is for me.

  • Nah. I think it’s more of a personal preference and what the couple wants to do. 😊

  • In my experience, yes

  • Not a must but preferred

  • For me it is I really enjoy foreplay and I give her oral to as part of foreplay and after a couple of orgasms from my tongue she's really ready for my dick.

  • No, it isn't an absolute "must". But if there isn't sufficient foreplay to create sufficient stimulation (especially for the female), the intercourse part will likely fail.

  • Foreplay IS sex.
    And my personal rule is that she cums about 5 times before my pleasure is even considered.
    There are many ways for her to cum before piv happens

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