Is having a darker butt a turn off for men in bed?

My body colour isn't that dark, it's brown with undertones of golden. My ass is in good shape and my waist is slim too. But my ass is blackish brown, darker than my skin tone. I feel really embarrassed About it and really Wanna know how big of a turn off is it. And you have any advices please do let me know
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    • personally I don't have a strong preference when it comes to things like a females. height, weight, skin color, ethnic group, nationality. or the size / shape of her butt, hips, bust, waist, etc.
    • even if she has medical reasons which lead to physical and/or mental disabilities.
    • having an enjoyable personality and attitude matter the most. when looking for a female partner to be with.
    • because so long as she is 100% natural, generally healthy and likes how she looks in the mirror. I find a wide range of female forms attractive.
    • people who limit themselves to just one type or race. might miss out on someone who could be ideal for them otherwise.
    • since people can always naturally make changes to their own body over time.
    • with some changes to their own diet and/or exercise routine. in order to reshape their body from the neckline down to some degree.
    • Thank you so so much. It's so sweet of you to have written in such details. You're a really nice person and I agree with you.

    • somewhat sucks I am single now and then. but not a fan of hookup or one night stand cultures. would much rather have an exclusive partner who I knew liked me back equally. but was also clean of anything nasty like STD's.

    • I'm sure you'll find someone really great. I'm not into the whole commitment thing but I found someone unexpectedly. And I'm sure you'll find someone too. Just be open to talking to everyone.

  • I can bet no man cares about the color of a woman's butt, as long it the holder of a less watery, tight, fat, warm and sweet pus$y. Just make sure it is well oiled and soft. I hate it when a woman has rough, dry, bumpy bum or dry skin. Feels nice when some masculine meets some feminine soft skin, feels sweet in between some soft thighs.

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  • No girl, it’s not.
    Being dark skin means we got spots that are super dark. My inner thighs are pretty dark and I hate it too. Exfoliating helps maintain an even color tone.


    Exfoliate you me butt it might help.
    Perhaps you can try skin products that lighten the skin? ( be careful with that, I never tried any of those soaps or creams, I really just learn to embrace what I do like and do what I can to deal with it)


    Good luck 🍀

    • My skin around my butt is extremely sensitive so I don't wanna use skin lightening products, I think those are bad for skin and should be avoided. I started exfoliating a few days ago actually. But yeah... I'm still finding it hard but thank you so much

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  • Its not a turn off at all finding all your secret birth marks is a sexy treasure hunt and seeing a cute butt is always a pleasure i wouldent worry if i were you

    • ... thank you that makes me feel a little better

    • Glad to hear

  • You may be able to have it bleached to a lighter tone. I really have no idea.

  • That won't be a turn-off for anyone. You're being too self-conscious about stuff that really doesn't matter. If anything, maybe someone might find it hotter that it's darker

    • Thank you so much, this makes me feel way Better.

    • You're most welcome :)

  • I'd have to see it, but usually darker skin tones around a woman's butt is a turn on to me.

  • No..

  • No it's not :)

    • Thank you..

    • Not for that 😅 just my honest point of view to your question^^

  • Zero turn-off. Clear your mind.

  • I don't think it's a turn off. And in all honesty I think if things have gotten to the point where someone is going to be seeing it they are interested in far more than your butt

  • not a turn off to me

  • Until we had known each other for quite a while (at which point I might see her rear) , I would have no way of knowing. I would simply be turned on or off by her attitude, sense of humor (or lack thereof) , honesty, etc, rather than her posterior's pigmentation.

    • That's a really respectful way to talk indeed, really cute lol. And thanks a lot. 😊 You're really sweet

    • Actually, the last two ladies who've braved the COVID jazz for an erotic massage from me were both medium-dark-skinned, both had lustrously smooth skin, but both were darker in their vaginal/yoni region.

  • Of course not. Do you really think men are gonna care or even notice?

    • Yess, it's Hella noticeable when I wear things like shorts. And it's fucking embarrassing

  • You are probably the only one who even noticed.

  • I wouldn’t imagine that would be a problem. Honestly it could even be an attractive or endearing quality that is unique to you

    • Thank you so much

    • You’re welcome

  • If your butts hot it’s hot! Who cares about the color?

  • Why would it be a turn of? Ass is always hot

    • But the discolouration isn't hot at all... and is very embarrassing.

    • Why is it embarrising? I have it on my dick ☺

    • 😑😑 I have a boyfriend so no thanks.

  • that is more common than you may think. I like it. I look at it as the fun zone being highlighted

    • Thank you 😊 I'm trying to get over the fact

  • well you just gave me a boner but merely a description

    • 😑😑 ride the Bible if you're that easily pleased. But thanks for the compliment

    • Why the Bible? I mean I am not sure of which part of it you reffering to that may help me? Well you just describe such a beautiful body, slim wais and blackish brown ass what you just describe sound like lines that compose perfection in a woman to my mind

  • Obviously not.

  • No. Good sex knows no racism!

    • Its not about racism 😑😑

    • Subconsciously it is. Why would colour matter? It should be about flesh, size and softness :-)

  • Nope

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