I’m 38 still virgin, looking for real man , real love , who I can trust and spend more time together maybe serious relationship, after that I will have a sex with him, but I can’t find anyone!
Am I dreamer? Everyone are laughing at me and saying you should go to Dr !
I've spent a lot of time on dating sites. All the women are looking for the brass ring, but they will settle for sex. It doesn't matter what their profiles say, they all want Mr. Right, but they will settle for Mr. Right Now. One woman comes to mind...
"If you just want sex, or a fuck buddy, just move on."
I have a way of getting women to open up to me. I don't judge, and I gain their trust. The reason Snow White didn't want a fuck buddy, was because she already had two of them. lol
I’m not sure if it’s a shame. But it does signal a lot of red flags in men. Makes me wonder what’s wrong w you? I could understand if you were in your 20s, just finished college. But you’re pushing 40. It’s not all men, it’s you. What exactly is a “real man?” It always makes me laugh when women say a “real man” would do this or that. It’s usually something stupid like a real man would accept her w all her problems plus her 4 kids w 3 different dudes. A “real man” would pay for everything. A “real man” wouldn’t care about body count.” Lol Funny how women always try to dictate what a real man is. For men I can understand why a lot of older men would still be a virgin, because most women find 80% of men unattractive. As for women, out of those 80% regardless of how low on the totem pole she may be look wise, one of those 80% of men will still date her.
Let me ask you this: Is it shameful that you stuck to your values and am wanting to go after what you want? Which is a serious romantic relationship. I'd think not. For some people in life, it can be hard to find someone else that vibes with you romantic and sexual wise. Why? I wish I knew the answer. But I'd probably keep your virgin status more private and only let your partner know that you're one when the time comes. Until then, keep on looking for the man your heart will sing to. He could be anywhere, and you'll never know where you'll meet him. And I wouldn't listen to any of those people, you don't need to go to the doctor or anything.
I’m not virgin but I also for a guy that will love me & want serious relationship with me, no guy wants to meet my family & be my boyfriend or have baby with me.
I had sex with the first guy I dated cuz I thought he loved me but later I find out he fuckboy & don’t want marriage or baby with me& he don’t want comittment, but it not my fault.
god didn’t give me the right guy when I was young. He’s taking too long to give me the right guy for me.
Don’t listen to the people that laughing at you
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don’t think it’s a shame that you’ve stuck to your laurels but I do think you’ve missed out on educating yourself sexually. Sex is a wonderful thing to share but it can also make or break a relationship. After all if he’s shitty in bed or selfish in bed then finding that out after marriage is a bad thing. Sex is a very bonding act and if one person is selfish then the bonding doesn’t happen and can actually make the other person resentful and bitter. So when the hard and rough times come (and they do) then sex can be the thing that receives the stress, and helps maintain the bonds.
It is not a shame I think it's amazing and shows you have actually standards and morals to me. I'm 33 and still a virgin I'm glad I have never given it away. Am I lonely and honestly want it at time, yes I would be lying if I said no. But one day when I have that special someone who I finally do have sex with when hopefully married it will be worth the wait.
Usually I would not date a woman older than myself, but if she virgin I might, it a good thing, the real problem that you really running out of time for being able to have children.
No, it's not.
Nope. But it must be a conviction on your part OR maybe you look like Quasimodo.
Well you need to share context about you. What kind of person are you. Are you career focused, are you masculine? Feminine? Do you dress like a lady or like a whore? Do you smoke, drink, do drugs? Do you party? Are you fat? Etc all of these and more determine how attractive you are to most men and some of them are nearly instant unattractive and could explain your situation.
Really? What would a Dr. do?
I've been looking for a couple decades, myself!
its not a shame
never let anyone bring u down for that
Nope there's a higher chance it will work with you rather than against you
Not at 38
For one thing don't tell people so they cannot laugh at you. People that laugh at you are not true friends.
Do everything you can to meet guys so you can get to know some and hopefully you will find one that you like and is trustworthy.
Something is seriously wrong with you. You literally threw your best and fertile years in the trash, so why should some guy come in and only get your worst years? Buy a dog and die alone!
Yes it is, what are you waiting for?
Nope.
Jesus, 38! There's some issues going on there.
If it's by your choice, then there's no shame in it. But I'd personally suggest not to waste too much time, especially your early 20s. Because I guess sex is amazing in that age (for girls it might be different). I'm 36 and still a virgin, and it's not by choice, and it really sucks. It's so depressing and gives me suicidal thoughts.
Don’t listen to the haters. It us your choice that you are still a virgin. If you want to experience once, please do not get yourself in trouble. It is not worth it. Choose a guy who would respectfully experience with you. You can contact a sexologist if you want more help.
Not at all
You say your looking for a real man but what does that mean. If by that you mean rich, good looking, and a large package then congrats you and 99 out of every 100 other women are going after the same man.
You want a real man then find the one that's average looking with a steady job, but since I'm 99% sure you won't I'd say you best case scenario is getvused to bieng alone.
no its not... be proud
no, i would like more people to be like you. I am 25 and Im like you still virgin and trying to find that real love
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