Guys, is it a turn off if a girl is a virgin?

I'm a virgin and wanna tell my boyfriend so when we do have sex he's not so rough but I'm afraid it would turn him off.
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  • Actually... I've had a couple. One I knew about her being one, so we took it easy. The other didn't tell me until after a few tries and a couple days.

    I would prefer that they not be virgins, but if they are, then I would want to know so we can take all the right precautions to make it as comfortable for then as we could. So I think you should tell him. I think he would be excited to be the person who gets to see you blossom into a freak for him.

  • Not at all, I think for most guy it isn't a turn off because in that case they'll know you didn't get laid with tons of guys. Maybe some wil l be a little bit hesitant because it is your first time and they don't want to hurt you or anything but I am pretty sure that for most guys being a virgin is not a turn off.

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  • No I'd think it's awesome she picked me to be her first. I'd be excited.

  • tbh i prefer non-virgins basically

  • No it's not turn off if a girls a virgin, if your boyfriend
    can't accept you for who you are than that's his problem

  • If you can't be honest with your own boyfriend, maybe you shouldn't have sex.

  • It's not a turn off for me at all. I would want to know so I don't accidentally hurt her though