Is it bad to want to lose my virginity to an escort just because half of my friends already lost theirs?

[Anonymous]

I a 24 male going on 25 and the only luck I had with sex is roleplays and toys and I would be moving out of my parents house soon so I see this as a perfect opportunity to lose my virginity, though I would prefer to get a girl that also a virgin but half of my friends already lost virginity and I feeling a little left out so I was wondering if getting a escort is a good idea or not.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, losing your virginity just because your friends did ain't the best reason to go to an escort. Sex is personal, don't compare yourself to other people's timelines.

That said, I get why you wanna get it over with before moving out on your own. But with an escort, there's a few things to consider:

- It won't mean anything really. Your first time usually holds more meaning if you care about the girl.

- You risk getting an STD if you're not careful. Health and safety should come first.

- You might feel ashamed or awkward after if you didn't actually connect with the person.

My advice - wait to find a nice girl you vibe with, even if it takes longer. Quality over speed, you know? In the meantime, be confident in yourself and work on meeting women through your hobbies or friends.

No need to rush into it just for bragging rights over your boys. Your real friends won't even care how you lost your V-card. I say focus on finding an actual girlfriend. Your first time will be better if you really like the girl.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Seriously? It's 2024 and if you can't get laid in this hookup culture it's really bad. I went to the mall today for lunch and was offered a happy ending massage. I'm an overweight 50 male and if I'm turning that down, I figured everyone was turning that down

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It isn't a good idea. If you want to wait and find a special person and you lose it to a paid escort, then you might be disappointed even if it is a good experience. Keep your values and priorities, don't throw them away.

[Vesuvius87]

It's already bad when you want to do because others are doing it and not because that's what you really want. If others are wearing black clothes that doesn't mean you have to do it too.

[HelpfulWoman]

yes. thats a dumb as a fuck reason

[4ngelic]

i'm sure you can get that for free unless you look horrible

[4ngelic]

just push yourself out of your comfort zone and try to talk to girls irl or online. you'll get rejected but eventually you'll get one. though advice if your just want to do a one time thing to lose it make sure you hit up hoes

[boggboss]

Its stupid to lose it because your friends already have thats some childish shit

[DrPepper12]

Don't do the escort thing. Let it happen organically with someone who means something to you other than a cc swipe.

[noohair]

This is not a contest. And your friends can lie too.

[grega239]

Yes. Dont be an idiot.

[Anonymous]

Seems to work out well for plenty of guys out there but to each their own the experiences vary

[Anonymous]

Are you looking for advice?

[MasterKS]

you should give him... LOL

[Opinion Owner]

@MasterKS NO ONE is looking for advice on this advice site,

[MasterKS]

do you love to give advice on this advice site?

[Opinion Owner]

@MasterKS Not anymore. I've written awesome dating profiles for guys on this site. Do you think any of these losers had the courage to post them?

[MasterKS]

there are less brave mens... LOL