Is it better when you say during sex I love you and when you hear I love you? Is it sex more beautiful?

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JackSmy · Accepted Answer

If she ever says she loves me, I want it to be at some time that I don't expect, and NOT during sex. People say many things during sex, and they feel other things, when having sex.
If she says she loves me, while walking, holding hands, and I do not expect, then I know it is real!! Same for me. I say that, only at times when we are alone, and she is not expecting, or thinking about that. So it is REAL!

jsincal · Accepted Answer

Usually, doesn’t count as far as love is concerned during the beginning of the relationship.

The Greeks labeled love in multiple ways. Many different types.

If you normally say it without the sex and just chilling out, then sure during sex is fine.

But if love is always said during sexual acts, that tells you, “love” is purely sexual.

IronLady6354 · Accepted Answer

Only say "I love you" during sex if you've already established that you're in love with each other. Don't let that be the first time you tell me that or he tells you that.
However, saying "I love you" during sex can be kind of hot. My fiance and I will frequently tell each other that right before we orgasm. It's actually super, super sexy.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

Well it doesn’t hurt bit I’d rather hear it when we are not having sex.. if I had to choose I mean. love means much more when said not during sex

Quackthulu · Answer

Neither, somebody tries saying that shit to me ill kick their ass out on the spot and finish myself off.

ohshee · Answer

Ones not better than the other each moment can be special and if it's heart felt there both beautiful

Anti-Matter · Answer

Not saying anything I don’t mean, even in the heat of a moment.

ettubrutus · Answer

Just make sure you say it outside of sex too. Otherwise you might make it seem like you only love them when you are having sex.

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

haha i think those words during sex are not right, pleasure is not love.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I come from a generation where women my age always have gotten mad if you profess your love during sex. It's somehow an insult to them. I never understood this as for me it's a matter of living in the moment, so when I say it, it goddam means it.

I sure hope females in generations after mine (gen X) lightened the hell up about it.

jkm1864 · Answer

Yes of coarse it is

teachsex2girls · Answer

U have lovely name, sweet? anyway just enjoy sex making sex sounds and even shout out OMG harder , Please don't Stop and other dirty things u can think of, screaming hard when you orgasm, then when you are in his arms then tell him you love hi, giving compliment about his sexual performance and how he turned u on , best ever, that is best and I bet you he will feel better and next time he will try harder x

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I love you said during Sex has a beautiful meaning

sheikalana · Answer

That doesn't make sex beautiful.

hbg84 · Answer

Yes it makes sex more meaningful

AmeerX · Answer

I think so

kmike2020 · Answer

ohhh good question,, lemme think about that ine

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes!

Dragan · Answer

Depend on person. I like to hear "I love you".

scorpy04 · Answer

Sex is an act of temporary feeling at the time it takes place Now if the relationship has a solid foundation and the feelings on both sides then there is a stronger desire for this to happen Making love seems to be an old concept now but it was a significant way to bond Sex has its purpose for spicing up a relationship and can create the feeling of love which is why people say during the passion I love you But this can offer a false sense of security so maybe ots not the best thing to say