Is it crazy to have sex 6 times in a day?

[Littlebirde]

I think it is and my boyfriend thinks its pretty normal. He is my new boyfriend but he is very addicted to sex and would fuck me all day if he could. I have sex drive too but not like him and I only doesn't say no to him because i love him and it makes me feel good that he wants me this much. Point is is there a way to tell him no but in a good way? Without hurting his feeling at all?

[pierre7i]

To be honest @Littlebirde he sounds extremely selfish, especially as you say in comments below that he sometimes tips your clothes off and that he is "very rough" !

I think you must be assertive and tell him NO, 6 times is too much for you, twice a day (morning & night-time) will be better for you and he can masturbate with you
some other times -- and if he truly likes/loves you he should understand your feelings and compromise in a way that makes you happy

[GFEDATY]

I think you just have to sit down with him and discuss it! maybe right after a session. Explain to him that areas need a rest or else it could become a lot of discomfort when having sex! Maybe , have days when you engage in a lot of sex and other days when you don't have as much!

[SjE78]

nope not crazy, personally in every relationship i have had i've always been the one with the higher sex drive... and when i was with one of my old girlfriend's we used to start around 6-7 pm after her kids went bed, and we would be on all night, until 7 am an hour before teh school run ;)

[DrippingHoney]

Every day? That's a little excessive. I can see doing that once in a while, but not every day.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Tell him you're sore and exhausted and you like to feel excited about sex so you usually prefer waiting a few days. He probably lost his virginity to you, this is how i'd be lol

[Littlebirde]

He dated many before me so i am not his first

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

haha

[wankiam]

he needs to wank off more if you can't keep up

[jshm2]

Yes. It's called "unemployed".

[Miristheiss]

Occassionally on a really passionate day.
That would really be hard to keep up with.
Very hard to find someone in rhe mood that much.
Sounds like a nymphomaniac.

[JoseyWales4]

Lucky you.

[Reaperbot666]

• if you both have the desire and/or stamina for it. then no it is not crazy.
• if one of you does not have as much desire and/or stamina for it then maybe.
• nothing wrong with telling your partner. you can't keep up with them in the same way. but if you can't keep up with them now. your more likely to have issues later on in the relationship. if their sexual desires go unchecked as time goes on.
• maybe consider offering them other forms of sexual relief instead of traditional sex. sometimes a nice old fashion hand-job, blow-job, thigh-job, foot-job, tit-fuck, etc. might work once in a while. depending on what they happen to be into sexually.
• maybe even just a simple dance or tease show could work. while he rubs one out himself. so you could be the main focus on his attention and desire.
• so their not likely to seek out other forms of mental, physically or sexual engagement.
• not saying their likely cheat or anything that crazy. but might start watching or looking at adult content. to be able to get his own sexual relief once in a while.
• if their unable to control their own sexual desires that is.

[oldawg]

Your boyfriend sounds like me lol I used to have sex 5-6or more times a day and if by chance of no girl I would just do it myself lol Enjoy it while you can because his sex drive doesn't last because the older you get it starts to dwindle it may be only two or three times a day and then you get a little older to get a little less LOL so take it while you still can get it LOL

[Umarkhan001]

6 times a day isn't that too much you think yeah if you have met after long long time 2-3 times is good but 6 times sounds too much, if we calculate it against time period of day which roughly 12-14 hours it is sex after every 2 1/3 hours put the duration of sex into it that makes difference even lesser... don't you get sore down there? It is like he had some sort of zoophilia towards your body. Well you could tell him that you guys need to slow down before it becomes just a boring activity after sometimes which would make romance between you guys die out. Plus you should tell him that you guys should focus on quality and duration of sex rather than just frequency of it, you could suggest him for some foreplay and roleplays for sex which would in turn increase duration of sex thus quality of it too. Does he do foreplay before sex with you?

[Don-_-Don]

Is it like, everyday?

[kemo56]

Tell him that he's wearing you out you can't do it that often

[Drumlin2001]

6 times is a lot.

[Broken_doll]

I was like that w my ex and I loved it. But get, just be open w him, it's not for everyone

[Starlight_Whimsy]

Different people have different sex drives, and those drives can even change for that person in phases. Myself? Sex 6 times a day is pretty normal if I have the time. Hell if I have the day for it just spending an entire day fucking is fun

[ColoradoKid]

I don't know how any one can do it 6 times a day.. I think I would die. Some people are just wired differently. I honestly don't know how to break that conversation open gently. I had an X girlfriend that wanted it 3 times a day. It got to a point when I blatantly asked her if she wanted to screw me to death. Some things I can sugarcoat some I can't. I do hope that you can get some rest or something. Maybe implement some toys into the situation? I wish I had a better answer.

[bluetoblack99]

Wow your boyfriend is a machine. Good for him and good for you. Is he taking a male enhancement pill to pull the off?

[klpic]

Only ever done it more than twice three times. my ex four times in a full night and a 2nd ex that was new years eve. and that was 7 times she milked me dry. and Yes she started it not me. i had work the next day ! i think we did it nearly every room in her house. and every orifice was used and i did not ask she just put it there