Is it disrespectful to not swallow?

Question

Is it disrespectful to a man if he cums in your mouth and you don’t swallow? Or do you guys don’t care?

Dazed0N0Confused · Accepted Answer

I normally swallow, but I wouldn't think it is disrespectful to spit it out, especially since not every girl likes to swallow.
Men should be happy you let them finish in your mouth to begin with, since not every girl is down for THAT either.
Just like not every man is down to GIVE ORAL to their lady for one reason or another.

My boyfriend is weird about female arousal & sex fluids, he doesn't like it on any part of his body that isn't his penis, & even then it's a stretch. I don't find it disrespectful when he cleans the fluids off of himself.

Personal preference isn't disrespectful.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Swallowing seminal fluid has nothing to do with respecting or disrespecting someone. Seminal fluid is like sweat. It's something the body produces in response to stimulus or activity. It's like asking if it's disrespectful if a man doesn't lick off your sweat after sex.

Zealashton · Accepted Answer

no. why would it be. but dont eat asparagis , and have a high sweet fruit diet, like mangos, persimons, and watermellon as well as ambrosha apples , blue berrys, cherrys, and more, stay away from low sweet fruits, keep a high sweet diet of healthy fruits, for the man mostly, this way, the jizz won't tast nasty. or at lest dull it, I don't know what it tast like, but i would expect it to be not great,

but swallowing is convenent clean up tho. but in return i would go down on a woman in exghange it, all fare reallly, scratch my back and i scratch your back

LiamSawyer · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say it's disrespectful to not swallow it's really about what you're up for and able/willing to do. It really is hot to finish in her mouth when getting a blow job and if are ok with swallowing that's great but if you need to get rid of it in a kleenex I'm good with that. I also love to give her oral and the wetter she gets the better.

AustinMan · Answer

I find it exceptionally disrespectful. That's my precious gift and it belongs inside you. Swallowing is something that I really appreciate and respect.

razelove · Answer

It isn't like those swimmers were going to make babies with stomach acid in the first place, spit, swallow, mix in some ovaltine for a cum flavored malt, whatever. I'm just glad to have gotten off with no effort in the first place.

Cof1412 · Answer

Nope, not disrespectful at all. It's her choice. Some girls don't like the taste. Others don't like the texture. Mine either spits or takes it on her face or tits. I'm just glad she lets me cum in her mouth. That feels really good, and I've never taken offense to her going and spitting it out afterwards.

loves2learn · Answer

It’s not disrespectful to not swallow I don’t think. But I always have.

Katie1964 · Answer

Is it disrespectful to a man if he cums in your mouth and you don’t swallow? No its not disrespectful.

Or do you guys don’t care? Guys do care, in my experience. They find it hot that you will take them in.

weysally · Answer

no I don't think so, though I swallow my husbands every time there has been some where it has come unexpected and there has been a lot and I have gagged

ohshee · Answer

Fuck that... no it not disrespectful and anybody that tells you it is their fucking liars and manipulators spit it out and now ask every one that says yes it is ,,, lets line them up and see if they swallow

rachel776 · Answer

not disrespectful but guys do want it a lot

summiter · Answer

It is not disrespectful at all. It is the girls choice. Guys could care less cause they just got a bj and a great orgasm.

spartan55 · Answer

I wouldn't call it disrespectful. It's a turn off though. I've been very spoiled in that department.

TheCunningLinguist · Answer

Imagine how you would feel if you climaxed while a guy was giving you oral and then he turned away and started spitting out your juices.

Secret6620 · Answer

A good girl swallows.

shreya_shiry · Answer

I won't say it's disrespectful. But I think that's how a blowjob should end. I myself always prefer him to cum in my mouth and I would never think of spitting it.
Also I think spitting it is kind of mood killer lol

JPrez · Answer

Most don't care but every now and then you might have an overly pushy guy pressure you to swallow.

Paige90 · Answer

I don't think it's disrespectful. If a girl gives a guy a blow job she should accept that he is going to cum in her mouth.

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not disrespectful. The guy should be grateful for what he got.

SarahP080102 · Answer

I always swallow.

TadCurious · Answer

I'd say it's more a turnoff than disrespectful. If my female partner won't swallow just be upfront about that and blowjobs from her won't be "finishing" blowjobs. I'd much rather cum another way than for her to be grossed out and have to spit.

HawkPerception · Answer

I wouldn't say it's disrespectful. A lot of girls don't like the taste of cum and that's alright. The truth of it is, those girls are not as kinky though. All guys or at least most of them (including myself) get really turned on when a girl has "accepted him" by the action of either swallowing or letting him cum on their face or something. Our biological disposition is to be dominant and this action is a form that allows the man to be just that. It also shows a level of comfort that really makes him appreciate the girl. I don't think any guy dislike or hate girls for not swallowing or allowing the guy to cum on their face. But it is somewhat disappointing.

Kas19 · Answer

No. If it tastes horrible then I'm spitting it out. If you're uncomfortable with it, don't do it. Your partner should understand. It's no big deal. Sex should be fun for both parties.

Agape93 · Answer

Not at all.

hellohruu · Answer

Omg yes it’s SOOOOO disrespectful!!! I can’t believe you don’t wanna do that! Guys are so badly treated and oral is nothing, NOTHING for them of u don’tswallow!!! >:-( (sarcasm)

MillenniumBill · Answer

It's her choice and I'll respect that. (But it is a turn on if she does)

classic_crime · Answer

If a dude gets mad you you not swallowing then he doesn't deserve head

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It wouldn't matter to me if a girl doesn't want to swallow my semen that is her choice and I would respect her for that I don't have a girl but if I did that is how I see things and if she didn't want to give me oral pleasure that would be fine

bowenw · Answer

It's her choice and never a deal breaker. If she does it can create a very close intimate bond and a feeling of total acceptance for the guy.

Angelo75 · Answer

I find it disrespectful not to swallow. But then again... if forcing her to swallow means she'll never give me a bj again, then there's no other choice to let her spit. :(

Josh4206 · Answer

I wouldn't say its disrespectful but id probably wonder why she didn't since its already in her mouth

Browneye57 · Answer

THERE IT IS!!! What I've been saying for years now... the questions of a porn addict!!
It comes from watching fake-sex porn. Yes, it's ALL fake.

Next it's...
Are all women bi?
Does everyone like group sex?
Where should a guy cum on a girl?
Do all women like anal sex?
Why is my dick so small?
Why is my vagina so ugly?

What a fukkin joke.

Matt57 · Answer

I’ve gotten curious and tasted it once and didn’t like it, so I wouldn’t blame her if she didn’t want to.

Massageman · Answer

If his sense of confidence is dependent upon a swallow or two, you need to find better guys. As long as you don't spit in my face, no problem- whatever.

DJ1991 · Answer

No its everyone's right to choose if they want to swallow or not

AmeerX · Answer

It is the best thing a women can do during bjs. It is ber sign of trust in the man

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No, it's not disrespectful. If you don't want to swallow, I think it's totally okay if you want to spit it out instead. But if you do swallow, I think it's really hot and sexy.

kellytheman · Answer

I guess I don't care if she wants to spit it out it's fine with me or she swallows I am good with that to. My friends with benefits likes to play with it when she gives me a blowjob. She like blowing bubbles with it and rubbing it on her body. Also the couple times we had another girl for fun they both have me a blowjob and they shared my cum.

oncpl · Answer

Personally I don't care. If a girl doesn't like swallowing, why should I be disturbed or force her to do so.

Illailla · Answer

The man is going to disrespect YOU if you do that... that’s only something that happens in porn. If it turns you on to swallow, go for it but def don’t if you don’t want to. It’s not disrespectful to him to not swallow. That’s a crazy lie some 14 year old boy prob told you

Wise4myage · Answer

That doesn't me one bit.

TheFlak38 · Answer

yes. semen something holy. You should always swallow his love.

Wiredone · Answer

I really like it when my woman swallows but I wouldn't get mad at her if she didn't. I've been with women who doesn't like the taste of cum so they spit it out.

MountAverage · Answer

Nope, up to you. For me personally, as long as she finishes the blowjob until I'm completely done, I couldn't care less what she does with the stuff afterwards. It's not gonna somehow retrospectively ruin my orgasm.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Yes, it is disrespectful and there will not be a second date.

Sweet_sparkles · Answer

I don't know really. But I just be a good girl and swallow it all lol

Juxtapose · Answer

Swallowing is easy, speaking from experience here. She's selfish if she doesn't swallow in my opinion.

swettannie · Answer

it can be

Glasgow55 · Answer

I would never expect a woman to swallow, and to be honest, I don't like cumming on a woman, anywhere. What the hell difference does it make?

COMMODOREII · Answer

Of course not. It is hotter and a major turn on if she swallows but it is ok if she is not use to it and wishes to spit out. In fact if she wants to switch to hand job if he is about to cum that is fine too.

jasco · Answer

If you don't wanna swallow that's fine just go to the bathroom

Beachgitl · Answer

I say yes

Twalli · Answer

It's hot if you do.

Surely · Answer

Once it leaves my body and is in yours. It is up to you what you do with it

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Kinda yeah. I mean its the most important thing i have so if it gross you out or you dont want it its like you dont want me. Although i hear guys with shitty diets who do drugs jizz tastes like shit. I eat healthy never really had that issue from girls.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Not really. I understand and RESPECT if she's a spitter who just gets grossed out by it. After all, i "waste" good cum like everyday so what difference would it make?

obtuseocelot · Answer

Nah. Once I give it to you it's yours, you do what you want with it.

yazerr · Answer

It does not matter for me,  but i want you to remember how this guy and his balls have endured a lot of suffering and effort in order to give you this precious liquid and you waste it so easily,