Is it disrespectful to not swallow?

Is it disrespectful to a man if he cums in your mouth and you don’t swallow? Or do you guys don’t care?
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  • no. why would it be. but dont eat asparagis , and have a high sweet fruit diet, like mangos, persimons, and watermellon as well as ambrosha apples , blue berrys, cherrys, and more, stay away from low sweet fruits, keep a high sweet diet of healthy fruits, for the man mostly, this way, the jizz won't tast nasty. or at lest dull it, I don't know what it tast like, but i would expect it to be not great,

    but swallowing is convenent clean up tho. but in return i would go down on a woman in exghange it, all fare reallly, scratch my back and i scratch your back

Most Helpful Girls

  • I normally swallow, but I wouldn't think it is disrespectful to spit it out, especially since not every girl likes to swallow.
    Men should be happy you let them finish in your mouth to begin with, since not every girl is down for THAT either.
    Just like not every man is down to GIVE ORAL to their lady for one reason or another.

    My boyfriend is weird about female arousal & sex fluids, he doesn't like it on any part of his body that isn't his penis, & even then it's a stretch. I don't find it disrespectful when he cleans the fluids off of himself.

    Personal preference isn't disrespectful.

  • Swallowing seminal fluid has nothing to do with respecting or disrespecting someone. Seminal fluid is like sweat. It's something the body produces in response to stimulus or activity. It's like asking if it's disrespectful if a man doesn't lick off your sweat after sex.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I wouldn't say it's disrespectful to not swallow it's really about what you're up for and able/willing to do. It really is hot to finish in her mouth when getting a blow job and if are ok with swallowing that's great but if you need to get rid of it in a kleenex I'm good with that. I also love to give her oral and the wetter she gets the better.

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  • I find it exceptionally disrespectful. That's my precious gift and it belongs inside you. Swallowing is something that I really appreciate and respect.

  • Nope, not disrespectful at all. It's her choice. Some girls don't like the taste. Others don't like the texture. Mine either spits or takes it on her face or tits. I'm just glad she lets me cum in her mouth. That feels really good, and I've never taken offense to her going and spitting it out afterwards.

  • It isn't like those swimmers were going to make babies with stomach acid in the first place, spit, swallow, mix in some ovaltine for a cum flavored malt, whatever. I'm just glad to have gotten off with no effort in the first place.

  • It’s not disrespectful to not swallow I don’t think. But I always have.

  • no I don't think so, though I swallow my husbands every time there has been some where it has come unexpected and there has been a lot and I have gagged

  • Is it disrespectful to a man if he cums in your mouth and you don’t swallow? No its not disrespectful.

    Or do you guys don’t care? Guys do care, in my experience. They find it hot that you will take them in.

  • Fuck that... no it not disrespectful and anybody that tells you it is their fucking liars and manipulators spit it out and now ask every one that says yes it is ,,, lets line them up and see if they swallow

  • not disrespectful but guys do want it a lot

  • It is not disrespectful at all. It is the girls choice. Guys could care less cause they just got a bj and a great orgasm.

  • I wouldn't call it disrespectful. It's a turn off though. I've been very spoiled in that department.

  • Imagine how you would feel if you climaxed while a guy was giving you oral and then he turned away and started spitting out your juices.

  • A good girl swallows.

  • I won't say it's disrespectful. But I think that's how a blowjob should end. I myself always prefer him to cum in my mouth and I would never think of spitting it.
    Also I think spitting it is kind of mood killer lol

  • Most don't care but every now and then you might have an overly pushy guy pressure you to swallow.

  • I don't think it's disrespectful. If a girl gives a guy a blow job she should accept that he is going to cum in her mouth.

    • Good answer

  • No, it's not disrespectful. The guy should be grateful for what he got.

  • I always swallow.

  • I'd say it's more a turnoff than disrespectful. If my female partner won't swallow just be upfront about that and blowjobs from her won't be "finishing" blowjobs. I'd much rather cum another way than for her to be grossed out and have to spit.

  • No. If it tastes horrible then I'm spitting it out. If you're uncomfortable with it, don't do it. Your partner should understand. It's no big deal. Sex should be fun for both parties.

  • Not at all.

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