This is an interesting question. I've never thought of one as being more intimate than the other. But one way of looking at it is the fact that allowing yourself to orgasm is in a way a kind of letting go. And there's a certain vulnerability inherent in that that necessitates a level of trust that is very intimate.
Very true
Honestly both is very intimate. Both parties should feel good and satisfied otherwise it will be kinda strange. I will find it very hot to receive pleasure but also equally hot to give. If she doesn't enjoy then receiving won't feel as nice and vice versa.
Good point
It depends on how long you wish to stay intimately engaged. Since orgasm can generally spell the end of the intimate act, I prefer to have as much fun as I can with one another as possible. As far as the orgasm is concerned... let the roll of the dice decide.
Good point 😊
I think it’s more intimate when he makes me orgasm. There’s something so personal about giving in to the pleasure and giving myself to him in a sexual way.
I agree!
Nicely said @Elliegirl it is especially satisfiying & very pleasurable for us guys to make a girl orgasm when she gives herself in a sexual way
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That works
Yep... Work it.. Work it 🤣🤣
This is a no win question! Generally one would say their partner.
True lol
Receiving a really skillful blowjob is wonderful. And a woman who is eager to suck and tongue as I cum in her mouth is a treasure.
But I LOVE making a woman cum.
If a woman loves making a man cum, I feel the same way about making a woman lose control, buck, quiver, writhe, clutch at herself, and cry out in ecstasy.
Most intimate to orgasm together. My most recent ex and I did that routinely.
Nice!! 😍
It is more intimate to make someone else orgasm. It is so nice to bring that much pleasure to someone.
Good question. I feel it is more intimate to give another person an orgasm. However in high school (lots of handjobs and bjs) I was mostly concerned about my own orgasms.
I felt the same way as you in college.
Much more intimate to let someone make me cum. It takes lots of trust and being able to let go. Which is hard for me to do.
Totally agree!
I'm a pleaser - so for me it's always more intimate to get someone else off, than for them to do the same for me
Hmm. Interesting. I like pleasing people too but I feel the opposite way. But thank you for answering 😊.
I think either could be fun
I love the special intimacy that comes from a girl giving herself to me sexually, and when she has a beautifully intense orgasm it feels even more intimate because she has entrusted her sexuality to me
Much more intimate to make them orgasm. The thrill of seeing them have a fantastic orgasm is better than any feeling I could have.
i prefer the feeling of having made them orgasm
Awesome 😊
Id much rather make them ejaculate
That is fun 😊
Make them orgasm. #1 goal
Depends on for who? Having an orgasm with someone is one of the most intimate experiences in life. Being vulnerable enough to let yourself go like that is most intimate. Giving someone an orgasm is most intimate with that person.
I had an ex girlfriend where we would orgasm together during sex. Now that was insane. We moved in together just weeks after we started having sex.
You make a very good point
To make them for sure ;)
When I was in college I thought the same way. And I still think it’s pretty intimate. I’m sorry about your friend
Thank you :)
Make her orgasm first... Trust me that is the best way to enjoy yourself because a woman satisfied is much more sexy and enjoyable than one who is not satisfied
I rarely am able to finish without making her sore first. id rather cum then her might sound selfish but we both prefer it
I always like making my former girlfriend orgasm
Making me orgasm.
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