Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health When I used to hook up once in a while back in college I felt it was more intimate to make them orgasm. In high school and today I feel the opposite (though except for one failed attempt I never really hooked up in high school).
What do you think?
Is it more intimate to make someone else orgasm or let them make you orgasm?
Gwenhwyfar Master
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17 62To give always
I luv to make her cum first!
Your question isn’t very clear - both are equally intimate. What I think you mean is ‘what is more enjoyable?’ And that really depends on you, whether you like to give or receive.
I'm a pleaser so it more intimate for me to make them orgasm
If I'm having sex I'll orgasm regardless so I'll always try to help her cum.
I mean it's most intimate and successful when both happen but I love causing orgasms.
wow i have no idea
I try to make her cum at least twice before I do.
I enjoy my girl and myself helping each other to cum. Sitting next to each other on the couch, she will jack me off while I finger fuck her. We always try to cum together.
Nice!
I definitely like making her cum, I get sexual satisfaction from doing that.
what about doing it together?, is difficult to coordinate, but if you come to know your couple totally possible. at least after her first one...
True
I would say
It's way more intimate to let them make you orgasm
I always felt comfortable when it was me making someone else orgasm
Me too
For me, I would prefer to help you have an orgasm.
More intimate to make another person orgasm
Both cum at the same time
But, I would prefer to make someone else cum
I say that it should be shared. Her first. Then him. Then her again (since she doesn't have to wait to reload).
True lol
Real gentleman always makes sure she'll get an orgasm first. But real lover will make them cum together ;)
I believe if you're a guy or female giving another female oral you shouldn't come up until
A) they tapout
B) you're up to 1 hour and at least five orgasms given.( That's if she doesn't want you to stop but for some reason I can't think of one you would need to)
C) you go so long and hard you need medical attention.
D) you made her gush so much she needs medical attention from being dehydrated.
Fuck I didn't answer the question I prefer to think that giving an orgasm is intimate. And receivingan orgasm it's just awesome
Thanks for answering
Okay thanks for allowing me to be the answerer of the answer question
My main goal in bed is to please her as the saying goes a happy wife a happy life
I think it's more intimate to make each other orgasm