Is it more intimate to make someone else orgasm or let them make you orgasm?

When I used to hook up once in a while back in college I felt it was more intimate to make them orgasm. In high school and today I feel the opposite (though except for one failed attempt I never really hooked up in high school).

What do you think?
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  • Make someone else orgasm

    • Cool

  • Both are very intimate, not mutually exclusive in my opinion.

  • Of course it is more intimate to get orgasm but I find making the girl orgasm is thrilling and exciting and I don’t get Satisfied until I make my partner orgasm

  • Letting them to make me orgasm of course.

  • No idea

  • Make the girl have the orgasm

    • Why?

    • Cause I want her to be happy

    • What about your own happiness?

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  • I think its much more intimate to make them orgasm

  • Letting them make you cum.. love when they look me in the eyes and do it

  • Both. I never stop if my partner didn't orgasm..

  • My guess is you lost your virginity in your teens

    • Yes!!!

    • I'm going to guess either 15 or 16?

    • 17 but I did other stuff at 15

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  • Let them make me orgasm

  • Both are equally intimate actions.

  • Mutual orgasm through mutual masturbation in person. For some reason, I find that more unnerving and intimate than sex itself.

    • That makes sense. You touching them and them touching you?

    • Sure. Though have you tried masturbating in front of each other? Like you lying back touching yourself while the guy watches you while he touches himself. That is unnerving and intimate as hell. Lmao sorry vivid description. 😂

    • I have tried that once or twice. It is hot.

  • The first one because ladies first.

  • When he makes me cum is have to say