Is it normal for a guy to keep missing your hole?

[Anonymous]

Is it normal for a guy to keep missing your vjj hole or is there something wrong with me?

I've only been with two guys and the first guy never seemed to miss my hole though we only did missionary. With the current guy we do more positions but he seems to miss my hole a lot. He almost did anal with me twice when doing doggy.

Am I doing something wrong? Is my hole not easy to find because of the way it is shaped? I feel so bad about it and feel like something is wrong with me.

[Bricealan]

Rear entry sex is a little awkward, unless he is a little 'higher' than you. It was always a little awkward and not easy to find the opening from the rear. Missionary is much easier. Remember when you are on your back and your legs open. the opening of the vagina is easier to see and penetrate. From the rear, your legs are closer together, and the angle of the vagina is "down' to some degree. It is somewhat easier if the guys penis is very stiff to go in from the rear. Consider all those things...

[Asker]

Ok thank you. That makes a lot of sense.

[runnerboy]

I don't have too much experience with sex but for the few times I've had sex the girl used her hand to guide me in. It was fantastic.

[Asker]

Ok then I will do that next time!

[runnerboy]

Enjoy the fun orgasms!

[Asker]

Thanks! I definitely will!

[Leapfrog00]

Sometimes guys miss the hole because it's hard to see from their position, especially if they are on top. Other times, you might be too wet, which isn't a bad thing, but sometimes guys slip out if the girl is really wet.

The wetness if good lubrication though. Even if you are tighter down there, it can still happen. I had sex with a girl once that was so tight, it took 5 minutes just to break through her pussy and get it all the way inside, but once she got wetter, she got soaked!

But these guys keep missing most likely because it's something like that. Try different positions if it becomes too much of a problem.

[ohsheeT]

Oh my God how long have you been having sex don't you know that you're supposed to open your eyes as wide as possible it's like having a radar screen for the guy he can see the hole in your eyes you can see his thing going in but when he climbs on top of you and starts you either have to open your eyes as wide as you can until he gets it in or close your eyes and open your mouth as wide as you can it's the same kind of thing try it see what happens just make sure you concentrate and open your eyes as super wide as you possibly can though so he can see what he's doing Through Your Eyes it's either that or you're going to be getting a lot of scratch and sniff and you got to be careful because there's a lot of guys all it takes is been missing like four times and they're finished anyway so heck I thought you would have known that well good luck

[Asker]

Ok thanks I got it!

[ohsheeT]

Sorry. For being a smart ass

[Asker]

It's fine.

[ohsheeT]

Well the best answer I could give you is have him relax a little bit more tell him to go slow motion either you guide him in or maybe just you get on top and teasing for a while and slow motion just stay on top of it slide your hips all the way forward and all the way back I mean in very very slow motion and then that way one of you has access to grab a hold of it and put it where it needs to go but if he slows down and becomes a part of you I mean he should be able to get it every time he needs to understand your body more and like I said go slow motion you can feel everything either that or have him go down on you get you soaking wet and then bend your legs up so your feet are up by your shoulders your head and then that way he can have full eye access and tell them to slow down even then too

[Asker]

Ok thanks! I will do that!

[ohsheeT]

Well he will probably last a lot longer too when he gets control of himself and other things

[PositiveFlight]

There is nothing wrong. Don’t question your body. He’s either just so enthralled with the sex that he’s not focusing on where he should put it or he is testing the waters to see how you will react if he pokes your rectum, making it look like a slip up. Make sure he knows you are only interested in vaginal if thats your wish.

[Asker]

Well we already discussed not doing anal so I doubt he's trying to test the waters. But you are perhaps right that he is so enthralled with the sex that he's not focusing on where he puts it. At least I hope so.

[PositiveFlight]

Thats my hope too. I’m glad you set down some boundaries up front. Hopefully he honors your wishes.

[nolabels]

Maybe he's trying to get it in the poop chute, and you won't let him.

Is that a possibility?

[Asker]

No we already talked about not doing that.

[summiter]

You will just have to guide him in the right place with your hand. Don't forget to use condoms!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Make sure your legs are wide open, so he can get down there to you, etc.

[Asker]

Ok will do!

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, there's no road maps and there's nothing wrong with you guiding it in.

[Asker]

I'll do that next time. Thanks!

[FunkyMonkee]

No problem, hun! I hope it helps! From what I've seen you barely have to touch it, at least not after it slips out. One night, I was shooting pool with some friends of mine and this one guy just COULDN'T get the 8-ball into a pocket!! After several attempts, a girl hanging with us said, "You want ME to put it in for you?" After a few seconds, we all started laughing and she said, "That's NOT what I meant!"

[FunkyMonkee]

I would say, there's nothing wrong with you, it's him! It's NOT that hard to find! I've hardly ever needed help. Does he have dark glasses, a dog and a white cane?

[FunkyMonkee]

Suffice to say, I really miss her hole!

[Fireguy17]

a couple of things, we are shooting blind, it's not like it has a camera on it, it can be a bit harder to find because it is an innie, and there are 2 holes pretty close together. Plus, Mr. Happie/stiffie whatever you call it kind of has a curve in it.
Girls are lucky, they cannot help but find it, there it is, stiff as a board standing up with nothing else around it.
A little guidance never hurts to get it in the right spot the first time.

[Asker]

Ok thanks! Will do!

[Fireguy17]

plus you can use it to rub just the right spot that makes your eyes roll back and you toes curl. That is also not that easy to fine by the way. Some are really hidden, and everyone is built differently.

[SawerBrown]

He obviously isn't experienced but there's nothing wrong with you guiding him in with your hand.

[Asker]

I'll do that next time. Thanks!

[SawerBrown]

You're very welcome. If you ever want to chat feel free to dm me.

[tfan1]

Not at all. Sometimes when I give my wife orgasm and then try to insert my erect penis into her vagina - it’s almost like her vagina closed up for the night. I love it when my wife says here give me your penis and she guides it in then i gently thrust inside.

[tfan1]

Ugh - I meant to say yes it’s normal. Sorry.

[Asker]

Oh ok that makes me feel better. I will try and guide him next time. Thanks!

[tfan1]

You’re very welcome 🙂

[smilelots]

Hi there im sure your pussy is just fine , maybe the guys you have been with are just not paying attention. it could be as simple as that. both pussy and ass are very close together so it won't take much to get it wrong if your down to low or up to high etc.. you could just guide them , I like it when a woman grabs my cock and places it at her opening.. so enjoy and have fun if you need any more help or ideas just ask.. older man with know how. smiles

[Asker]

Thanks. I will certainly do that!

[In_Trance]

wtaf even is this?

[peterrezeeek]

its normal he loves u

[msc545]

its the guy, not you.

[Tstrbrainer]

Just enjoy the anal as a bonus

[riverrat3]

Maybe you need to guide him

[Asker]

Ok I will next time.

[Engin12]

I mean you still have a hole in your mouth

[tallblondejohm]

Yes it is

[Elliot0_07]

There's nothing wrong in you physically, but not allowing him to penetrate your anal hole is unacceptable.

He's obviously trying to do anal, and you're not doing your job...

[Anonymous]

There are many factors that can cause a misalignment.

Her body size especially if she has larger hips and he has a shorter penis relative to his body size.

The next thing that can cause it is he is inexperienced and doesn't know how to aim it in view of everything involved.

Finally it can be an issue where his erection isn't very stiff or he has somewhat of a floppy dick and he's trying to do a handsfree entry.

[Asker]

Thanks. I'll keep all that in mind.

[Opinion Owner]

Which issue is he?

[Asker]

Probably the second one. Not very experienced. He hasn't been with that many girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, I guess you will have to help him either by holding his or in missionary you could also hold him by his hips to adjust.

[Asker]

He's fine in missionary. It's doggy that he has trouble a bit with.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not unusual for him to have trouble in doggy. However he should be better at it after 4-5 times unless his penis isn’t stiff when erect.

[Anonymous]

No, not at all, wtf...

[Asker]

So is it me?

[Opinion Owner]

No, it is surely not you, completely their fault there are so many ways to feel it

[Asker]

He wears condoms. So I wonder if that's the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Not really he can still check with his fingers before getting it in

[Anonymous]

No, most men are not good in bed, they just like to think they are.